How do you know if she is a whore?

[Anonymous]

I couldn't think of any words besides whore, but what are some tips to find out whether she sleeps around?
This is in regards to a girl I work with. a lot of people who go to school with her say she's a thot (She denied this accusation saying a lot of people falsely think that). I have never gotten that vibe from her but what should I do to find the truth?

[Bandit74]

There's really no way to know for sure.
You can't really ask her because it almost guaranteed that shell react negatively or just outright lie.

You're best off going with your gut feeling and what you hear about her from other people.

If she drinks a lot and hits up clubs/bars regularly that's often (but not always) a sign that she gets around.

Also contrary to popular belief, the most beautiful girls often have less casual sex than their average looking counterparts.

So in my opinion, your best odds of having a girl with a modest past would be to go for somewhat shy girls who are beautiful and dont drink/party.

[Bandit74]

also if she's seems like she has self esteem issues orr comes from a broken home, those girls are more likely to sleep around.

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[honeylavender]

"So in my opinion, your best odds of having a girl with a modest past would be to go for somewhat shy girls who are beautiful and dont drink/party."

Wow, this helped me out so much for a question I just asked since I don't like to drink but I love parties (but among my closest friends and family parties too). Definitely have a "clean record", ahaha. :)

I hope that those girls like myself, are girlfriend and hopefully more than a girlfriend-material.

[Asker]

She definetely has daddy issues

[Bandit74]

Its not a guarantee, but there is a correlation

[MarkyyG123]

Well ask around, ask her friends indirectly about her past, be very careful though, ask the wrong way and he friedns will tell her. Talk to guys she knows or as close to, become friends with her friends. The only thing short of asking her outright is to ask around, get her friends to be your friend and talk to them about it all, because guys talk, you know that, just be ver careful how you go about it all

[Yokoneko]

Well it depends there's lots of reason she rubbed girls the wrong way
she rubbed some guys the right way
Other guys where pissed cause she didn't give them the time of day
And Girls hate

But um if theyve been calling her a whore or whatever for more then 4 years it might be true people don't say the same thing about someone for that long

[Anonymous]

Asking her outright would be rude, so I guess you can just hang out with her. If you see how she acts, and even interacts with others, hopefully you'll getting a better read on her/if you want to date her.

[MargaritaPeach]

Get to know her. You will find out more about who she really is by spending time with her and her friends than you ever will from rumors.

[AleDeEurope]

Just get to know her and trust your gut, most girls that sleep around keep it a secret, so even if they sleep with with dozens of guys, they'll deny it.
Just look at how she behaves, and how she is as a person, there's not much you can do. And again, trust your gut.

[RayDonovan83]

create some kind of fake account with some hot dude pics and message her and see how interested she might be in meeting up or hanging out.. I know its pretty ruthless but if you really want to find out this is a good way..

[Anonymous]

yeah get to know her, and if it appears as if she hangs out with a lot of dudes, separatley, she might be a whore

[kittykatbrat]

Why does this even matter?
Explanation required.

[Asker]

Dating purposes

[kittykatbrat]

(smiling) I realise this dude but why does it matter how many men she has had sex with?

[Asker]

A girl who has many sexual encounters outside of relationships is a turn off for me

[kittykatbrat]

K.
Ty for your honesty.
Peace xo

[Killer-Queen]

Why do you care? I'm serious.

[Anonymous]

No such thing as being a "wh0re". If that was the case most men are h0es also

[AleDeEurope]

That is like saying no such thing as being an asshole... the word is an adjective and it exists for a reason, of course there's such thing as being a whore, and it applies to both men and women. Though a whore is technically a prostitute, so unless she accepts money for sex, he should have used the word slut, which again, applies to both men and women.

[RandomUsername3464]

A whore is someone who gives away their body in a sexual manner for material or financial gain. This could apply to either men or women.

[Opinion Owner]

@AleDeEurope No. The word h0e/wh0re/slu+ was made by men to make a women believe she can't have sex too much. The word itself is degrading and adults should be able to have sex how many ever times she/he wants. As long as she's safe. This asker dude is just a sexist that believe women shouldn't have fun. To him women are disgusting for having too much sex but I guarantee he himself have had LOTS of sex. Freaking hypocrites. Too bad they're everywhere

[AleDeEurope]

Oh man, why so bitter? xD Sure, keep living in your own world where men are the evil... one less to deal with

[Opinion Owner]

@RandomUsername3464 I agree that giving away sex for things are disgusting but who am I to judge a grown women or men for doing so? They are adults! I dont know their lives or what they are going through. Judging people makes you stupid

[Opinion Owner]

@AleDeEurope I am not bitter. I simply hate sexist people and just because I hate them doesn't mean it affects my happy life. I dont wake up sad

[RandomUsername3464]

The asker is not sexist, he wants to know how to figure out if a girl is whore/slut/whatever because he does not like promiscuous women as dating partners. He mentioned that above in reply to another user.

[Opinion Owner]

@RandomUsername3464 He is a sexist. Who cares about how many men a woman has slept with unless the guy is a virgin or had only one sex partner. I bet he has had more than 10 and consider himself "great". But nooo if a woman had 3, she's a disgusting "wh0re", it's annoying and disgsuting how you people think

[RandomUsername3464]

No, he's not. I also do not want to date promiscuous women, and I have never had sex before. Guys setting standards for girls is not sexist, can you stop being so stereotypical and cliche? You are making assumptions and getting angry at a guy for knowing what he wants.

[Opinion Owner]

@RandomUsername3464 It isn't sexist if he himself isn't the way he want the woman to be. You can be that way because you're a virgin. I can be that way because I am a virgin. I guarantee he has had lots of sexual partners

[Asker]

I don't consider myself "sexist". It just turns me off (for both guys and girls) to have their fair share of sex outside of mutual relationships.
I don't necessarily expect girls to be exactly "pure" when it comes to sexual experience, but I expect a girl to have some self respect and to not have slept around. The thought of having sex with a girl I like, who has had several sex partners, is not something I want to experience, which is why Im asking about this girl.

[Opinion Owner]

You even called it 'self respect' because she's not sitting around waiting one guy smh. Having lots of sex doesn't make a man disgusting just like it doesn't make a woman disgusting

[Opinion Owner]

Also asker how many sexual partners have you had?

[Asker]

@RandomUsername3464 Thank you.
@Anonymous I have had only one sexual partner and don't consider myself "great". Im just interested in finding a girl who has the same views on sex as me.

[Opinion Owner]

Well asker if that is the truth than my apologies. I am just sick of seeing men that has had over 30 sexual partners and want a virgin and think women that has had 4 is disgusting. I have had conversations with people like that on GAG and in real life

[MrSmithee]

if she's a woman