Do girls reject guys they like to test them?

[Anonymous]

This girl rejected me when I asked her out. I was cool about it. A few weeks later she started to give me hints, so I thought she changed her mind. She rejected me again when I asked her out the second time. Naturally, I respected her for her decision. A few weeks later, she posted "True love never takes a no as an answer" and has my initials in the post. I tried for the third time and got another rejection. I persisted a little bit more, hoping this could win her over. Every time I persist, she would reject me and then post something like"God has answered my prayers". After a few times, I finally got mad and told her I never want to see her again. The same day she posted"My world has fallen apart because you don't love me anymore". Now that I haven't contacted her for a month, she started to run into me and be really mean to me while posting things like"I hate you because I loved you".

So is she testing me or is she just looking for my attention? I did try to persist, how do I ensure her that I like her if she really is insecure? Is it normal for a hot girl to have this much drama?

[StarRift]

Sounds like she's been led her whole life to believe that guys should chase her and only will if they truly love her. It was her fault for stringing you along like that and you have every right to cut her off for toying with your feelings. She completely disregarded how YOU felt and focused more on how you were chasing HER. She doesn't miss you for you, man. She misses being chased by you. I'm sorry dude.

[10dsw]

I have never heard a woman do that. No. No woman would risk her chance of having a guy who she likes as a test. Not one.

Would you reject a girl who you liked who asked you out to test her interest?

[Asker]

I definitely wouldn't. That's why I'm questioning if she really likes me or not.

She probably has a hidden camera somewhere so that she can enjoy my reactions with her friends afterwards. But she seems really emotional when she saw me, got to be really talented in acting and have a lot free time to kill to trick me.

[10dsw]

Regardless, pay her no attention. There's no sense in wasting time man, because (A) either she's legitimately not interested or (B) she's playing some weird attention seeking games. You want no part in any of this

[Asker]

There was some misunderstandings before I asked her out the first time though, I was talking to a female friend in a flirty way only because my friend asked me to help her make her boyfriend jealous. But this girl I like accidentally saw me flirt with my friend. That was a few days before I ask her out. Could that be the reason?

[Asker]

I mean I explained it to her, she said she is fine with it.

If there wasn't this incident, I won't hesitate to walk away from her based on what she has been doing.

[10dsw]

I mean... maybe... but I still stand by my reasoning that you're wasting your time. Firstly, talking to a girl to make her boyfriend jealous is incredibly juvenile for a guy who's 25-29 lol. Secondly, a woman who can't accept that you're talking to other women (even if it was juvenile) is not all too mature herself. A mature adult woman understands that a man is free to talk to other females

[10dsw]

I think you should talk to someone else. Honestly this circle you're with sounds really immature lol