If a girl has high expectations, is it a turn off for guys?

Okay, so I am the kind of person that has VERY high expectations from people, whether it’s a friend, a date, a boyfriend, or a business partner. I don’t expect people to be perfect, because no one is and I’m not either, but like if people don’t meet them, I get upset and it bothers me. I also assume things a lot and jump to conclusions based on what I see and observe from people. I have had friendships end and/or get ruined over this, and I hate it. It’s a bad trait I have, to assume things and jump to conclusions, and I know I need to fix it. But about the high expectations, do you think guys will get turned off and that it will scare them off, to have a girl like that? Honest answers please! I need constructive criticism, so if it is the case, I need to learn to improve myself and lower my expectations without getting bothered. Thank you! :)
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Like if someone doesn’t meet my expectation on something and it bothers me, I don’t hide it. I tell them how it feels and that it bothers me.
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But then they get all stressed about it and say I’m giving them a “guilt-trip” when in fact, that is not what I am trying to do.

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I am just trying to tell them how I feel because there is nothing to hide or be ashamed of, especially if they are a close friend or boyfriend or something.
If a girl has high expectations, is it a turn off for guys?
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