Is it weird that I wish I was a girl?

[LonelyGuy87]

I guess I feel like girls have easier lives. Their lives seem more fun. They are always meeting up with their friends and stuff. And like girls frienships seem to be much more closer and meaningful. There also seems to be more doors open for girls these days and their bodies/brains are just more productive. I just feel like being good in school and all of that stuff favors women. I think men are not as intelligent as women are. IYoung girls are so successful and it looks so easy. Oh and not to mention girls talk about stuff all the time and are vocal about their opinions. People actually listen to them. And when it comes to dating and sex is where I am really jealous of girls. Girls can have as much sex as they want. Isn't sex MUCH more pleasurable and better for women than it is for men? And they can get a boyfriend whenever they want. Like even average girls phones will be blowing up with guys trying to get with them. Girls just seem to love dating and the modern dating world favors them heavily. And for partying/casual sex - girls can just be wild and have so much fun/sex. Guys lives are much harder and serious as well as boring. Maybe not though. I just find that live in general is easier for women (it always was) and I just sometimes wish I was a girl - their lives are easier and they have more fun. Of course there are some drawbacks like periods but other than that being a girl must be awesome. Girls, don't take it for granted. Or maybe my life just sucks... I don't know...

Is it weird that I think like this?

[OlderAndWiser]

"I think men are not as intelligent as women are." The vast majority of the media is controlled by liberals. These people love to engage in self-loathing because it is a sign of how (supposedly) intelligent they are. So, by proclaiming how intelligent women are, they are actually demonstrating that they are some of the few intelligent guys that also grace the planet. - - - Actually, this is all happy horseshit, and you shouldn't believe any of it. The truth is that there are smart women and smart men, stupid women and stupid men.

"Like even average girls phones will be blowing up with guys trying to get with them." Have you been hanging out with anyone from the MGTOW crowd? Oh, lucky women, they only date studs and they get laid every night and. . . etc. The truth is that, on average, men have more sexual partners in their lifetime than do women, and the women who are in the competition on this index get labelled as "sluts" while the guys get labelled as demigods.

If you think your life sucks, maybe it does, but that doesn't mean that everyone else is eating hot biscuits and honey every morning. That kind of thinking just turns you into a professional victim and that lowers your attractiveness to women.

Don't like your life? Do something about it other than whining and complaining.

[LonelyGuy87]

I'm sure that the average woman is more intelligent that the average man - women can multi-task after all, right?

Your 63 (apparently). With young women, they get the most out of modern dating. They date many guys and have lots of sex. I'm not MGTOW but women DO NOT have less partners than guys. Girls most likely have more but they lie so it seems like they have less. Girls being labelled as sluts is a dying thing - and girls mainly slut-shame each other. And guys are labelled for sleeping around too.

[OlderAndWiser]

You are very sure of yourself and don't want anyone trying to take away your excuse for feeling sorry for yourself, so I won't try any more. But remember that feeling very damned confident about your opinions does not mean that you are right.

[dantetheexplorer]

"Or maybe my life just sucks... I don't know..."

I have no idea whether your life sucks or not. That's for you to decide. However, you seem to have this ability to focus on only the things you want to see - also known as rose-tinted glass, or the grass is greener on the other side syndrome. Take a step back and look at the greater picture, instead of only one side of the coin.

Your inability to have and enjoy male friendships says more about you than it does about male friendship in general. No one is asking you to dip yourself into "lad" or "bro" culture, but there's a medium ground where you can enjoy healthy male friendships with other men without getting caught up in that culture.

I have a bunch of mates that I enjoy hanging out with and doing stuff with. Sure, we might have only met each other because we all share the same passion in football/soccer, but isn't that how all friendships are formed? Via sharing common ground?

[LonelyGuy87]

Girls friends seem to be more open to each other and they talk to each other and hang out more. And what about relationships/sex?

[AuroraRoseat]

I understand why some guys feel this way, especially since generally women support each other while men fight against one another. But I also tend to think some people always think the grass is greener on the other side. You seem to only be thinking about sex and relationships when there are tons of things beyond that that may turn you off on wanting to be a woman. For instance, you guys don't get pregnant. A woman has that risk and even if he's wrapped up, condoms aren't 100% fail-proof. Also, menstruations.

[LonelyGuy87]

Sex and relationships are massive parts of life. Parts which girls enjoy much more.

[AuroraRoseat]

It depends on the individual. Not all wo/men want sex. There are asexuals and individuals with low libido. There are those who are completely turned off on the idea of sex.

One aspect of life--no matter how much of an impact you think it may have--does not overshadow everything else that a woman has to deal with.

[LonelyGuy87]

Maybe. Girls do have much more relationships, love and sex in their lives. Something I wish I could enjoy too.

[TrixiePooch]

"Girls can get a boyfriend whenever they want." Only if they are willing to give it up. "Girls can have as much sex as they want" and get pregnant and STD's too. Girls also age much worse than men, especially if they smoke. All these girls have to be attractive too to get these things you suggest. There are more plain girls sitting at home than out partying.

[LonelyGuy87]

Girls are willing to give it up. Also pregnancy and STDs are no longer a problem thanks to protection and abortion. Girls age worse, I'll give you that. But they're lives seem more enjoyable. Average girls party and have lots of sex - even more so than attractive girls.

[dogsteeves]

I wish I was a girl also I know periods and pregnancy sucks but I would rather that then my tiny pethic dick

I hate begin a guy I feel my life would be so much better


Sex Reassignment surgery won't work for me as science isn't develop enough to make me able to get a working vulva If I was to switch gender I still wouldn't have a menstrual cycle or be able to get pregnant so in my opinion i wouldn't be a women at all I still be a man in a women body which I don't want

I want to be a biological women

[Anonymous]

Well.. let me put it this way. It seems like you are desiring the lifestyle of a woman. Well who says men can’t go out with their friends or be as intelligent? You just have to make your life your own, no matter what anybody says. And about women’s lives being easier... it is in some respects, but it’s hard, too.

[LonelyGuy87]

I'm not as intelligent as women are though. And it's too late for me to pull some good grades. Dating is easier for women and sex is much better for women too. Those are things that I cannot change. Yes I would love to have tons of girls blowing up my phone. I would love to be going on date and having tons of sex - always being sexually active. I would love to do the things which women do. But I can't.

[Opinion Owner]

Trust me, I know some pretty unintelligent women.

[Gedaria]

Possibly , I have felt like this all my life , tried allsorts but , I've realised I cannot change what I am. Even if I have the op had my bit changed it would still be not enough well not for me , I would be a guy with my bits changed. So all I have is my dream...

[0asis]

You have no idea how much harder girls have it. Periods. A week of blood, cramps, migraines/headaches, nausea. Every single month. You have no idea how easy your life is

[larry69]

Exactly and if period doesn't come then you get a baby

[0asis]

@larry69 Uh, not exactly. I mean, you have to have sexual intercourse in order to have a baby. You don't just magically create a baby. And having a baby isn't fun either. Lots of women get really sick during pregnancy and there can be tons of complications, some women are bedridden meaning they are unable to do anything for 9 months. Giving birth is EXTREMELY painful, there can be problems during birth or after birth, breech births (the baby is born the wrong way, which is very dangerous and painful for the mom and baby), excess bleeding (which can also be dangerous). So yeah, girls have it way harder than you do

[larry69]

Check my questions out please

[LonelyGuy87]

Wait. So women have easier, funner and more successful lives. They get ahead with the education system. Modern women are very successful and earn lots of money. They have better friendships than men. Have more sex. Enjoy sex more. Have a very easy with dating. And so much more.

Yet you bleed for 3 days every months and that makes women's lives worse than guys? Get outta here! Stop taking being a girl for granted.

[0asis]

No, I don't think that's true at all.

No, you don't bleed for 3 days, it's more like 7. An average period lasts 5-7 days and you also get horrible painful cramps, nausea, and some girls (like me) get horrible migraines. So periods aren't easy like you think. Uh yeah, I guarantee you men would never be able to deal with having periods.

That's quite hypocritical of you to say as you're the one taking being a male for granted, wishing you could be a girl. When you have absolutely no idea what being a female truly entails. Also, I'm not taking being a girl for granted. I was simply informing you of things girls go through and letting you know you don't want to be a girl

[larry69]

This is accurate thanks @oasis

[LonelyGuy87]

I've told you about all the benefits of being a woman and you're still going on about the periods. Yes periods suck, but that's the price you pay for having better lives than men.

[0asis]

LOL women don't have better lives than men. I've seen my mom be treated like shit by men her whole life. By men she worked for, men who have worked for her, men she's been with. She's constantly having to try an prove herself in her field as the majority of her field is men. They belittle her and treat her like she's stupid even though she has 30 years experience. Men have it way easier than women.

[larry69]

@oasis you are 100% right women also have to look over their shoulders for creepy men. And spend tons of money on tampons and makeup

[0asis]

@larry69 Yeah, exactly. Thank you, Larry. Like, even in this conversation, @LonelyGuy87 keeps trying to tell me I'm wrong. Women can never be right because men are afraid of being wrong and they don't want to admit the woman is right and they (the men) are wrong. There's more cons and struggles of being a woman than there are pros. That's the way society works. Women didn't have the right to vote for years, men have always had more rights than women. And my mom works in an industry dominated by men and she works twice as hard to be successful because men don't want women to be more successful than them. I've seen that countless times. Being a woman is hard. In some countries, women still have little to no rights and they have to do whatever the man says. So you're completely wrong that women have it easier than men because we don't.

[larry69]

I love women and don't insult them. Could you check my questions out?

[LonelyGuy87]

Women in the West have easier lives than guys. Maybe your moms field is male-dominated. But you didn’t know nursing and social workers are female dominated? I don’t get what you are saying. Women have way more fun lives. They have so much more sex and relationships than guys. Stop being spoiled.

[0asis]

No, they don't. I live in Canada and women are still marginalized and treated like they don't know anything. It is male-dominated. She's a landscaper and she does high-end landscaping. That's irrelevant. Whenever an occupation is dominated by males, women are always belittled and marginalized. I'm saying men have always had it easier than women and they still do. "Women have fun lives" so do men. Being a woman is irrelevant to that statement. I don't think that's true at all about the sex thing.

I'm not spoiled at all. You can't make assumptions like that because you have no idea about my life or any woman's life. This is all just your bs, butthurt opinion. None of it is based on any scientific research whatsoever. It's all just claims, claims, claims and more claims that you can't back up. So it's all irrelevant bs opinions. Not even any valid arguments here

[LonelyGuy87]

Women do have more more sex and are more sexual than guys. Seen as sex is the most important thing in life - I would say women are the more privileged gender.

[0asis]

Where's your research to back this up? Otherwise, it's just a claim, which is irrelevant.

LOL "sex is the most important thing to do in life" holy shit. Dude, you gotta get out of your bedroom and explore the world. There's more to life than sticking your dick into a vagina. Go experience other cultures, get outside for once. Wow, that's sad that you think sex is the most important thing. Quite tragic.

And I would say you are completely wrong

[LonelyGuy87]

Women do have more sex. And sex is more enjoyable for women. Sex is life’s greatest pleasure so that would mean women technically have better lives.

[0asis]

Where's your research? Show me proof instead of just claims. Claims don't mean shit, dude. Show me scientific evidence otherwise your argument is invalid.

That's tragic. There's more to life than sex, dude. Leave your room and go out and explore the world

WTF? That makes absolutely no sense.

[larry69]

It's getting bad. Come on dude women do have a harder life all the time.

[LonelyGuy87]

Women have more pleasure with sex. That is a fact. Women also have more sex partners in their life. There are studies to prove this. I will get a link. And yes sex is ONE of life’s greatest pleasures and sex is ALL about women so...

[Ellie-V]

Weird? Based on everything you said I wouldn’t call it weird but you definitely need some therapy.
I don't know what about the fun part but I can say in my opinion it isn’t easier being a woman.

[LonelyGuy87]

Why do I need therapy if it isn't weird? Why do you feel the need to insult me on every question I ask?

[Ellie-V]

It wasn’t an insult. There’s nothing wrong with needing therapy 😐

[LonelyGuy87]

Why exactly do you think I need therapy?

[Ellie-V]

First of all, I have explained it numerous times so I don’t really feel like repeating myself.
Secondly, you are wayyyy too sensitive. You honestly thought I was insulting you? 😂 that’s not okay. If you thought THAT was an insult— a simple statement with no emotion or ill will behind it—you are not prepared for real life.

[LonelyGuy87]

According to you I need therapy because I like to talk about girls and sex. Am I right? Also what is wrong with being sensitive?

[Ellie-V]

You are wrong.
Also there’s nothing wrong with being sensitive. People have feelings and emotions.
But you aren’t just regular everyday sensitive. You are TOO sensitive. Too. As in “much” or “above average” or “more than needed “
Being too sensitive is a problem. Eating too much salt is a problem. Being too ambitious is a problem. Too much of anything is a problem.
No need for me to further explain

[Anonymous]

Do you just envy them or do you genuinely feel jealousy towards other women and wish you were a woman? Because in the last one you may have gender dysphoria if you do. If you just envy the opportunities they have then that's okay i guess.

[LonelyGuy87]

I envy them. I wish I was a woman as their lives seem more fun and more fullfilling.

[SamtheDnDgirl]

Grass is greener on the otherside. Or you could be transgender. Nothing wrong with that. Explore yourself.

[LonelyGuy87]

No way am I becoming trans. Maybe the grass is greener but their lives do seem better than guys lives.

[SamtheDnDgirl]

Someone doesn't just become trans, it would still be a good idea to talk with someone.

[LonelyGuy87]

That's not something I would do. No way.

[DaChillCookie]

Lol no. I wish I was a guy all the time. Things would be cool if I wasn't a chick

[Anonymous]

Although I understand the sentiment, let me tell you girls do NOT have easier lives 🤦‍♀️

[AquaBoo]

I agree with friendship being more meaningful. But find things about your tender you like.

[Anonymous]

Wow, I feel like a failure as a woman after reading that.

[LonelyGuy87]

You don't know how easy you have it...

[Opinion Owner]

But if you want easy sex, just sleep with guys.

[Opinion Owner]

Oh, thanks. I need someone that’s never been in a woman’s shoes to tell me how easy I have it. This is the enlightenment I needed. Thank you.

[LonelyGuy87]

I'm straight.

[LonelyGuy87]

I don't need to be on your shoes to know that women have better lives.

[Opinion Owner]

Sure you are. And, I know you believe that.

[basicblonde]

Your young your understanding is not factual what you believe is not true your basing it on your opinion and what you see and that is deceiving

[Pink2000]

Right

[fay23]

I sometimes wished i was a boy. I feel like I'd have my shot together.

[dogsteeves]

I wish we could trade places

[BobbyC65]

I'm the same way But to go through cramp's and bloating Periods it's
easier two a male.

[Stripper4u]

Go get some pussy and you’ll think less. Have fun.

[LonelyGuy87]

That's harder than it seems.

[Stripper4u]

Netflix and chill should do the work...

[Anonymous]

Lollllllllllllllllllllllll

I knew it!

But you can be: sex reassignment surgery.

Go, go, go!

[dogsteeves]

some of us that won't fix as even if you get a sex reassignment

they still can't get pregnant and have menstrual cycle etc so they won't be a woman no matter what they do

[dogsteeves]

I wish I was a girl I want have kids also

[CoffeeWC]

I don't think it's that weird. But remember that being a girl also comes with its own negatives.

[Pink2000]

Girls have it a bit harder than you think

[LonelyGuy87]

Not when it comes to having fun, love, sex and relationships. Oh and not when it comes to education and being a success in the modern world. But sure. Women have it so damn hard...

[Pink2000]

This is just your opinion

[LonelyGuy87]

Not that's a fact. Not my opinion.

[tek555_pessimist]

If you are going to assert something as a fact, you should probably back it up with data/information, preferably scientific studies or the like.

[LonelyGuy87]

Look around you. Do you ever see girls who DON'T have guys tryna get with them? Girls who are NOT sexually active? Exactly.

Fact - women outnumber men at College.

Fact - women aged 20-30 earn more than men of the same age.

Fact - women generally have better grades in school than men.

[Pink2000]

Dude you’re delusional

[LonelyGuy87]

Google those stats.

[tek555_pessimist]

The first assertion is based on individual experience, and generalising it to a society is often not accurate. I do know some females who I would assume are in that position.
Women outnumbering men: from the statistics I'm aware of, that is correct, but according to www.statista.com/.../#0 the percentage of males and females with 4 years or greater college degrees (US) is roughly identical as a proportion of the population.

[tek555_pessimist]

20-30. There is a specific study you are quoting here (couldn't find it in the 2 minutes I dedicated to that), but it is a couple of years old. Also, as mobile.abc.net.au/.../5712770 notes, it is only true for younger women (and not present in at least one Western country, Australia), and can be attributed to increased education, which is a personal choice. It is also noted that average male remuneration past those ages is greater than female.

[tek555_pessimist]

You are correct on better grades (https://www. google. com. au/url? sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=http://www. ijsrp. org/research-paper-0317/ijsrp-p6357. pdf&ved=2ahUKEwivjbnskJHdAhWEAIgKHYCADwMQFjALegQIBRAB&usg=AOvVaw1-vC7VdpHl6d8fhYKu-t2J), but that is something that can be worked on again by individuals, and can be a bit more complex than you might think. I have seen it represented (though whether that is correct I don't know) that females are on average smarter, but male intelligence is more variable, such that you have more genius males than females (but also much more mentally retarded males than females). It is a complicated topic, and averages don't give the full depth required to consider it.

[LonelyGuy87]

Exactly. So I am right. Women are naturally smarted. Yet because they have periods they thik their lives are hell.

Women do in fact have easier, more fun and more successful lives than men.

[tek555_pessimist]

The link didn't paste correctly: www.ijsrp.org/research-paper-0317.php?rp=P636286

[tek555_pessimist]

You misunderstood. Female MAY be (on average) smarter, but be averages can be misleading (and note I was dubious on that, I haven't properly researched it)
There are many factors in females lives which you have not considered. 'the grass is greener on the other side' quote exists for a reason.
Also, be careful of linking increased education with success, some degrees are much easier to get decent pay with than others, and that would be a better statistics for you to consider.
As for ease of life, and fun, that is subjective.
In addition, women have increased costs (both in time and money) in various things. Common examples would be sanitary products, household task division (on average), makeup (if utilised) and especially in reproduction.

[silverqueen]

Yeah, guys complicate themselves a lot

[LonelyGuy87]

What do you mean?

[latinabutterfly96]

It’s not weird. I love being a girl.

[dogsteeves]

Your lucky I really wish I was a biological female I would love to bear children I always roleplay as a female more times than I can count if I have the opportunity to be a woman in a video game I will