How come two girls who are friends that are older would give this special treatment To a guy did they want to build me up or something feel like I needed some loving
Well, one of them has a boyfriend now, you say, so she may be more involved with him, and not think anything about you. The other one may well still like your company, but only you can find that out, by talking to her.
A little late for asking this. Next time girls act this way around you, ask them out. Both. Togheter. The one interested in you will then probably ask you out next time.
Happens. Nothing so weird about. Maybe they even wanted to try a threesome. Maybe they're jocking. But until you didn't do your move, they stay away. Be more confident next time with girls.
Like you’re beyond too hot they scared to ask you out think you’re too good for them if they make the first move you’ll more likely reject any of them, they believe you can get any girl if you wanted to. And the ones that lose interest see you conceited even though you’re not. You’re probably seen as a ladies man.
Girls are weird af bro i grew up with some girls who liked me back in HS n they won't even follow me back on IG but will accept my follow or readd me on fb once i made new acc as if i did something to them i almost think it's jealousy because i got a lot of nice stuff and agood job and one child & no longer live in that crumby state but who knows so... Im like pffft unfollow fuck that
You said that after they flirted with you 2 avoids you while 1 tries to get your attention. You said that the girls aren't friends anymore since they flirted with you and that 2 unfollowed you and 1 on ig. To me that suggests that 2 thought you preferred 1 to her and the feeling was mutual.
How come they’d both do this to a younger guy do they both like wanted some younger guy to flirt with What Type of relationship was it between the 3 of us
I personally don't see dating younger guys as a bad thing (probably because of my current situation hahah) so they probably just feel the same as me. I'm guessing 1 had a crush on you and then 2 got jealous and tried to win you over. Kinda messed up but that's girls for ya
How come they’d compliment a lot Offer me a ride Find any excuse to be around me talk Want selfies with me Smile a lot Everything They figure I needed some loving
Sorry, to clarify the first one, the other one may be for moral support (I have noticed they (girls) do that where they get really excited when a friend is crushing and try to match make).
Again, she probably really likes you. I mean why else would you flirt with some one and seek them out and try to get their attention all the time unless you where interested in them? Doesn't sound like something some one would do if they didn't want to interact with you does it?
You know you haven’t spoken a single thing of positivity I think you’re just a lonely hurt man who’s been through much and you’re an asshole that was hurt so it affected your head.
I think you’re just an angry person who has been hurt and you’re just an asshole. You must’ve been hurt so you think with only negativity and think you’re not good enough and people are having fun and playing games with you. You’re an asshole displacing you’re on insecurities shortcomings on young adults online. It’s one thing for you to be like in your teens or 20’s doing this much being in your 40’s saying dumb shit to people online. I just think you’re a hurt angry man and I feel sad for you. You haven’t given me any proof or anything you made blanket statements how can I take you seriously. I just think you like to hide behind your phone saying catty stuff to people online because someone hurt you and you think you’re not good enough.
I think you’re talking out of your ass and just like to put others down because of your issues. You know there are 13,14, and 15 year olds on here and they act more like adults on here than you. They don’t go on their phone and go out to hurt people and say bad things to people online. You’re middle aged man doing that
It’s ironic for you to think of me as stupid and undermine me yet all you’ve done was make blanket statements with nothing to back it up. You say this pessimistic crapola yet you don’t know what you’re talking about you just want to shoot others down instead of bring them up and it’s low.
You’re the 46 year old man harassing people and saying catty stuff to people online! I’m pathetic, there are kids who act more of adults than you on here. You’re on here patronizing people and talk yourself above people. Kill your ego. You really don’t want people to have want you don’t have. The way you’re acting is not even half your age. You’re a middle aged man insulting people online for no reason. I know you think you’re all that and a big shot but you’re a hurt little boy deep down. It’s one thing for you to be talking down to people your age but young adults. You think you know everything.
I’m not going to make comments about your age. That’s not cool, not going to hit below the belt. But you’re on here trolling GAG acting like you’re a big shot patronizing young adults when kids 13-16 don’t do anything like that. You’re a man child. I know you think you’re a genius.
The bar is set low if you’re comparing yourself to young adults and that’s how you build yourself up. I’m not making any threats. I don’t think you’d be talking to me like this in person. I’m 6’2” built like a brick wall. I don’t think I’d be so little when you have to look up to me. You’re still commenting on here yet you act like I’m a child you can’t take seriously so that should say something. This site is about helping guys and girls understand each other. Not angry middle aged men going around talking smack. Why are you even on this site in the first place. I bet your wife wouldn’t too thrilled that you’re on here talking shit to young adults. I bet your wife is impressed. I know in your time kids got their ass smacked for being disrespectful. You’re overdue. Instead of your parents doing that go up to someone and start talking like that if you have the balls. I know you think you’re bulletproof and can hide behind your phone.
I'm not comparing myself to anyone, little boy. I'm just snarking because I'm bored and you're so pathetic that you stalked me on this site. Who DOES that? YOU do that.
I TRIED to be nice at the beginning. I told you SPECIFICALLY AND EXACTLY what happened, but you refused to listen. They were NOT looking for anything serious. They were just wanting to toy with someone. You thought you were SOOOOOOOOOOOOO mature merely because you're tall and have a deep voice. That fools nobody. I told you the plain truth. You used it as an excuse to get butthurt.
Well you call me a loser and want to talk down to me yet you’re on here just to snark because you’re bored. You make these claims yet you have nothing to back it up. You think you know everything don’t you. You like to say stuff like that to tell yourself you’re the smartest guy in the room. You’re ignorant. If I’m such this little pathetic boy that you didn’t take seriously and you’re this big man why keep going back with me at a timely manner. I wasn’t the one going around commenting nasty things insulting people on the internet for no reason. Your ego is bigger than Donald Trump and Kanye combined. So you go on here to say negative insulting stuff to people anonymously online because you’re bored? How are you any better. And you’re the one who started this in the first place.
You put all these labels "Little boy" "loser" and so on. How does your wife feel about you going on this site to troll people and say catty stuff. I'll just keep calling you man child over and over because all you have done was repeat yourself. You know you don't exactly answer or respond anything you just repeat the same thing. I am really pathetic and such a little boy yet you went back and forth with me for a day. How dumb do you feel for going back and forth with a little pathetic boy. Based on your own logic you stooped to my level. You're hovering over all of us aren't you. You delude yourself by saying you're being nice initially yet you just openly said you were snarking. You are fully aware of what you're doing. If I am a 46 year old man that has the maturity of a high schooler, just kill me. Lets look at the definition of snarking "make snide and sharply critical comments". You made a cutting critical comment and I defended myself. Most people would say it and ignore any reply.
Basically from what you described, they either both had thing for you or 1 had/has a huge thing for you, and 2 was trying to put you two together. That's all I can tell you. Something probably happened between them now so who knows. Best way to know is ask 1 if she's into you.
I have experience with that and it turned out it wasn't her decision. I can't tell you why she won't speak to you since I don't know either of you but the best way to find out is ask 2 what the deal is and that's it
May have something to do with her boyfriend being controlling or something, making her unfallow all guys and stuff, that’s my best guess but it could be something else.
I saw her around and I made the mistake of staring at 1 without knowing and she caught me made eye contact and smiled and raised eyebrows and didn’t break eye contact I did and didn’t look back After that she had an attitude
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I think most of the replies sum it up. 1 is into you, and two likes you, but has a boyfriend now.
Was I getting like a girlfriend treatment from. them both
It sounds like it, but 2 may just have been being wingman for 1.
How come two girls who are friends that are older would give this special treatment To a guy did they want to build me up or something feel like I needed some loving
Offer rides want pics with me find any excuse to be around me compliment
Perhaps, but then again they could well have been genuinely attracted to you from the start.
We're they fond of me
I would have thought so.
Now that they’re women not school girls would they still think of me and have me in their hearts and I’d be special to them or a special memory
It's quite possible.
Well how would they view me or remember me now that they’re women
With fondness.
How come this guy would say they were messing around playing games having fun with the little kid
I don't know, but it is also a possibility. The only way you'll get the answers is to ask one of them, but I don't suppose you want to do that.
Are guys thinking like that and saying it just assholes
No, they may just have that opinion.
Are they jealous or just anger hurt people
I wouldn't like to say.
What is It
I don't know, there could be many reasons.
Hey could you report Herelbes answer
Done!
Thank you
What did you report it for
Offensive.
Is it normal that I love those two girls and will never forget them
I think most people remember their first loves. Don't worry about it.
How come I grew to love them
Probably because they treated you nicely, when maybe other people didn't.
Did they act like my girlfriends
Not quite, but almost.
Did I get like the girlfriend treatment from both of them
It seems so. You have a lot of questions, don't you? What is bothering you?
I’ll never have it again and I don’t know why I love them so much and they take a special place in my heart
Was there anything wrong with how they treated me I thought they’re sweethearts to me
Well, if you feel that, then they didn't do anything wrong, did they? And it's nice that you have good memories of them.
Was there anything wrong with how they treated me from an outside view
Not to me. They sound as though they were kind and thoughtful.
I don't understand why they were on top of me though
What do mean by on top of you?
Give no space find any excuse to be around me
Hey you can walk with us sit with us
They maybe thought you were shy, and were letting you know that they liked your company.
Now that they're women how would they think of me and view me
Well, one of them has a boyfriend now, you say, so she may be more involved with him, and not think anything about you. The other one may well still like your company, but only you can find that out, by talking to her.
Was I like a big teddy bear to them like what relationship did the 3 of us have
I can't know the answer to that, you would have to ask them.
Say if they got bfs would they be pissed knowing about the 3 of us
No, everyone has a past, and they have no reason to be annoyed.
How come one would say “he’s 6’ tall with long legs ooh” then another say nobody else is as big as you and ask me how much I’m taller than my dad by
Again, I have no idea, you'd have to ask them. A lot of your questions are about things I couldn't possibly know, because I don't know you, or them.
Did it sound like they groomed me
How old were they, and how old were you?
14 17
No, I think they were just being nice.
Didn't I see you as this question already?
Either way, your phrasing is too convoluted for me to parse out exactly what is going on. It sounds like stupid high school drama.
A little late for asking this. Next time girls act this way around you, ask them out. Both. Togheter. The one interested in you will then probably ask you out next time.
How come they both were flirty and trying to be around me
Happens. Nothing so weird about. Maybe they even wanted to try a threesome. Maybe they're jocking. But until you didn't do your move, they stay away. Be more confident next time with girls.
What’s jocking
Sorry, i'm not English. I mean they are only making fun of you.
So how come they going any excuse to be around me flirted a lot and complimented
I gave you some possibilities. To know the truth, you must ask them. No other way.
Go for #1. That's why you labeled her #1 whether you consciously thought about it or not.
Y did they both treat me like that
#1 wants you, #2 is more moral support
Why offer me rides and find any excuse to be around me
How long do u want a girl to bask around you before you ask her out
I was asking why they both treated me that way
Maybe they liked you, or maybe you came off as flirtatious I don't know
I didn’t flirt with them I just joked around I joke with everyone
They don't know that
Like I didn’t hit on them or anything or say I think they’re hot
Now it doesn't matter they are with their man
No one of them got a boyfriend and wants nothing to do with me won’t try to get my attention
Maybe because they got bored of you not trying to get their attention
2 just acts like she doesn’t know me
How come she’s like that is it like she likes a different type of man now and I’m not that type
I would go with what Athena says
1 genuinely likes me
Are u askin me or tellin
Asking
Then what was up with her friend 2
Maybe it seems so
That I don't know
They figure I needed some loving lol
😂😂
I mean like attention to be flirted with complimented
Yeah got that!
How come they’d both treat me like that
They're girls and girls can be complicated that's why
Sound like because you’re extremely attractive to be intimidating
What do you mean intimidating
Like you’re beyond too hot they scared to ask you out think you’re too good for them if they make the first move you’ll more likely reject any of them, they believe you can get any girl if you wanted to. And the ones that lose interest see you conceited even though you’re not. You’re probably seen as a ladies man.
Did they like me and were they fond of me
I think they like you. Also they can not always be around you like a shadow
No this was a few years ago and basically 2 wants nothing to do with me and acts like I don’t exist
Sounds like a girl crush but 2 probably wants to only ne with her boyfriend and 1 might still be available to this day
Why did 2 act like that
Girls are weird af bro i grew up with some girls who liked me back in HS n they won't even follow me back on IG but will accept my follow or readd me on fb once i made new acc as if i did something to them i almost think it's jealousy because i got a lot of nice stuff and agood job and one child & no longer live in that crumby state but who knows so... Im like pffft unfollow fuck that
Find any excuse to be around me and offer me rides
Possibly 2 is butthurt but 1 likes you.
Best I can offer for now...
Why would 2 be butthurt
You said that after they flirted with you 2 avoids you while 1 tries to get your attention. You said that the girls aren't friends anymore since they flirted with you and that 2 unfollowed you and 1 on ig. To me that suggests that 2 thought you preferred 1 to her and the feeling was mutual.
Did they give me like the girlfriend treatment both of them
Girls tease the boys they like just like boys tease girls. It's immature but of course you are still children anyway.
Wdym tease
Seems like 1 has always liked you and 2 just was flirting for attention/fun
How come they both just found any excuse to be around me
Offer me a ride
Want selfies
Compliment
Smile a lot
I stand by what I said. Also can you please answer my last question on my page? :)
2 going any excuse to be around me
Yeah actually she probably liked you, but still not as much as 1
Now how come they both showered me with attention flirt
Smile s lot ask for selfies compliment me a lot
We’re they fond of me or figure i need some loving
Girls never flirt when they feel sorry for someone!! I'd say 1 was head over heels and 2 was just attracted to you.
How come they’d both do this to a younger guy do they both like wanted some younger guy to flirt with
What Type of relationship was it between the 3 of us
I personally don't see dating younger guys as a bad thing (probably because of my current situation hahah) so they probably just feel the same as me. I'm guessing 1 had a crush on you and then 2 got jealous and tried to win you over. Kinda messed up but that's girls for ya
How come they’d compliment a lot
Offer me a ride
Find any excuse to be around me talk
Want selfies with me
Smile a lot
Everything
They figure I needed some loving
What else do you want me to say? I told you that they definitely didn't just feel sorry for you. No girl does that
Now they’re women
Do they still think of me and was it like a special friendship we had
I think 1 would think about you a bit and possibly still really like you, but 2 would just see you as a normal friend
Would they always have me in their hearts as a special guy
They’re women now not school girls
How would they view me now
TLDR;
If you want to know what women do what they do - read Game by Roosh V.
Sounds like she liked you.
There were two
Sorry, to clarify the first one, the other one may be for moral support (I have noticed they (girls) do that where they get really excited when a friend is crushing and try to match make).
So they push crush to friends
Basically if one has a crush, the other gets excited and push it yes.
Why does she do something to flirt with me every time I talk to her
Again, she probably really likes you. I mean why else would you flirt with some one and seek them out and try to get their attention all the time unless you where interested in them? Doesn't sound like something some one would do if they didn't want to interact with you does it?
1likes you. Go for it... you never know...……………….
What about 2
Because they were just messing around with someone who was obviously a kid. Being tall with a deep voice fools nobody.
What are you saying
What makes you say that
From the behavior you describe, it's damned obvious. You're a kid, you haven't seen enough to figure that out.
What were they doing
They were having fun playing with the little kid.
How playing games and messing around
You're so clueless that I can't help you.
What about what they were doing finding any excuse to be around me
You know you haven’t spoken a single thing of positivity I think you’re just a lonely hurt man who’s been through much and you’re an asshole that was hurt so it affected your head.
I think you’re just an angry person who has been hurt and you’re just an asshole. You must’ve been hurt so you think with only negativity and think you’re not good enough and people are having fun and playing games with you. You’re an asshole displacing you’re on insecurities shortcomings on young adults online. It’s one thing for you to be like in your teens or 20’s doing this much being in your 40’s saying dumb shit to people online. I just think you’re a hurt angry man and I feel sad for you. You haven’t given me any proof or anything you made blanket statements how can I take you seriously. I just think you like to hide behind your phone saying catty stuff to people online because someone hurt you and you think you’re not good enough.
*your own
I think you’re talking out of your ass and just like to put others down because of your issues. You know there are 13,14, and 15 year olds on here and they act more like adults on here than you. They don’t go on their phone and go out to hurt people and say bad things to people online. You’re middle aged man doing that
It’s ironic for you to think of me as stupid and undermine me yet all you’ve done was make blanket statements with nothing to back it up. You say this pessimistic crapola yet you don’t know what you’re talking about you just want to shoot others down instead of bring them up and it’s low.
You’re the 46 year old man harassing people and saying catty stuff to people online!
I’m pathetic, there are kids who act more of adults than you on here. You’re on here patronizing people and talk yourself above people. Kill your ego. You really don’t want people to have want you don’t have. The way you’re acting is not even half your age. You’re a middle aged man insulting people online for no reason. I know you think you’re all that and a big shot but you’re a hurt little boy deep down. It’s one thing for you to be talking down to people your age but young adults. You think you know everything.
I’m not going to make comments about your age. That’s not cool, not going to hit below the belt. But you’re on here trolling GAG acting like you’re a big shot patronizing young adults when kids 13-16 don’t do anything like that. You’re a man child. I know you think you’re a genius.
You're stalking me around this site posting on zombie threads. That should tell you something, little boy.
The bar is set low if you’re comparing yourself to young adults and that’s how you build yourself up. I’m not making any threats. I don’t think you’d be talking to me like this in person. I’m 6’2” built like a brick wall. I don’t think I’d be so little when you have to look up to me. You’re still commenting on here yet you act like I’m a child you can’t take seriously so that should say something. This site is about helping guys and girls understand each other. Not angry middle aged men going around talking smack. Why are you even on this site in the first place. I bet your wife wouldn’t too thrilled that you’re on here talking shit to young adults. I bet your wife is impressed. I know in your time kids got their ass smacked for being disrespectful. You’re overdue. Instead of your parents doing that go up to someone and start talking like that if you have the balls. I know you think you’re bulletproof and can hide behind your phone.
I'm not comparing myself to anyone, little boy. I'm just snarking because I'm bored and you're so pathetic that you stalked me on this site. Who DOES that? YOU do that.
I TRIED to be nice at the beginning. I told you SPECIFICALLY AND EXACTLY what happened, but you refused to listen. They were NOT looking for anything serious. They were just wanting to toy with someone. You thought you were SOOOOOOOOOOOOO mature merely because you're tall and have a deep voice. That fools nobody. I told you the plain truth. You used it as an excuse to get butthurt.
Well you call me a loser and want to talk down to me yet you’re on here just to snark because you’re bored. You make these claims yet you have nothing to back it up. You think you know everything don’t you. You like to say stuff like that to tell yourself you’re the smartest guy in the room. You’re ignorant. If I’m such this little pathetic boy that you didn’t take seriously and you’re this big man why keep going back with me at a timely manner. I wasn’t the one going around commenting nasty things insulting people on the internet for no reason. Your ego is bigger than Donald Trump and Kanye combined. So you go on here to say negative insulting stuff to people anonymously online because you’re bored? How are you any better. And you’re the one who started this in the first place.
You put all these labels "Little boy" "loser" and so on. How does your wife feel about you going on this site to troll people and say catty stuff. I'll just keep calling you man child over and over because all you have done was repeat yourself. You know you don't exactly answer or respond anything you just repeat the same thing. I am really pathetic and such a little boy yet you went back and forth with me for a day. How dumb do you feel for going back and forth with a little pathetic boy. Based on your own logic you stooped to my level. You're hovering over all of us aren't you. You delude yourself by saying you're being nice initially yet you just openly said you were snarking. You are fully aware of what you're doing. If I am a 46 year old man that has the maturity of a high schooler, just kill me. Lets look at the definition of snarking "make snide and sharply critical comments". You made a cutting critical comment and I defended myself. Most people would say it and ignore any reply.
Cause they liked you.
Really
Was I like some Elvis Presley to them
I don't know you would know.
why would two girls flirt with a younger guy that much find any excuse to be around him
they were close friends
Maybe they wanted to tag team you.
So it’s a big game two girls have a crush and want to see which one can win me over
Define tag team I thought it’s one after another
No maybe they both wanted to have you at the same time.
what were they both trying something at the same time doing own thing or both together
were they jealous
What do you mean same time
Do they sound like thots
Like they both wanted to get you at the same time for sex. Also no they don’t
Both trying to win me over or both in it together?
In it together
Do they sound like flirtatious girls
They were laughing because you weren't a black man
Lol I wasn’t a black man
exactly. you need to learn your place when it comes to dating. step aside and let black men play with their fucktoys (white women)
They clearly had a thing for you dude
We’re they grooming me
Basically from what you described, they either both had thing for you or 1 had/has a huge thing for you, and 2 was trying to put you two together. That's all I can tell you. Something probably happened between them now so who knows. Best way to know is ask 1 if she's into you.
Why would 2 want nothing to do with me once she got a boyfriend
I don’t exist anymore
I have experience with that and it turned out it wasn't her decision. I can't tell you why she won't speak to you since I don't know either of you but the best way to find out is ask 2 what the deal is and that's it
Is she hurt or something
I don't know dude
Hey does it sound like a flirtationship we had
I don't know you have to ask them
You know she broke up with a guy when meeting me and then started doing that stuff
Then yea probably had a thing for you
She dated this guy who was my next door neighbor
She won’t say hi or anything
Then I don't know dude. I gtg now
1 likes you, 2 was her wingman
How come 2 wants nothing to do with me now
May have something to do with her boyfriend being controlling or something, making her unfallow all guys and stuff, that’s my best guess but it could be something else.
She wants nothing to do with me and had a boyfriend who lived right next to me and she never said hi and everything I don’t exist anymore to her
I mean you still got 1, I’d say 2 was just being a good friend to 1 and now doesn’t have to be
She wants nothing to do with me I don’t exist
Wait 1 or 2 doesn’t want anything to do with you?
2 wants nothing to do with me
What’s wrong with that? I don’t think she’s the one who liked you
I agree
This could’ve been taken as I was flirting with both of them
That ain’t good man
Is it taken as I was flirting with those two
Maybe? I just seen that 1 liked you and 2 was with 1
I saw her around and I made the mistake of staring at 1 without knowing and she caught me made eye contact and smiled and raised eyebrows and didn’t break eye contact
I did and didn’t look back
After that she had an attitude
Did she take it as flirting initially
I don’t think 2 is right for you if she’s like that
No this was 1
I’m confused, but I gotta go to bed, talk another time ✌️
Competition and drama yo