Was my girlfriend a virgin?

[Adyy_adyy]

So one day she invited me to her house to talk and spend some time together. She showed me her house and turn out of the blue she said that our relationship went to another level and she wanted to make sex. I tried to refuse her because as she told me I knew she was a virgin and I thought she may not ne prepared to have sex... She insisted and started to kiss me. I had a vad feeling and I was turned on pretty slow... The weirdest part was when she opened a pack of condoms. Tbh If was a virgin I think she should let me but one. I mean all my past gfs/girls I had sex with were really shy about this and they never had condoms with them. Ok we got into the action, yet she didn't bleed. She was kinda tight but not very tight... And IT didn't feel too good. I think she lied to me she was a virgin. What do You think guys?

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Sorry for the grammar mystakes but English isn't my native language

[Alistar88]

When you went inside of her did it look like she was in pain? Normally when you have sex with a virgin you have to go slow or it will hurt you much. Sometimes the body doesn't make someone bleed so just because there was no blood doesn't mean she wasn't a virgin. At some point in time in her life she could have broken her Hyme by herself on accident which would of caused the blood

[Adyy_adyy]

Uhm. She enjoyed it the time we started. She didn't told me it hurt also she wanted more and was pretty experienced in sex positions..

[Adyy_adyy]

I know that some virgin girls may not even have a hymen. I've made sex with another virgins. All of them were really tight (except one of them who lied to me and was loose...)

[MecheD]

Well I don't know completely but truly she may have been but trying to get the “virgin card” token away to you and 8/10 the more your not into then sexually sometimes will be a turn on. But besides all that maybe she is different as far as why there was no mess.

[kittycat119]

I had condoms the first time I had sex. I knew I wanted to sleep with the guy so I bought some in advance. And I didn't bleed my first time either because he wasn't rough and I was wet enough. None of the things you are saying is a clear sign or virginity

[Adyy_adyy]

Thanks for telling your opinion. I'm confused cuz all the girls I've slept with weren't that desperate as this one. She kinda forced me to have sex with her and that made everything pretty weird... I like her but i hope she didn't lie or anything

[kittycat119]

I was kinds forceful my first time 2. I knew what I wanted. And so what if she lied. Virginity is stupid anyway

[Adyy_adyy]

True. But I really don't like to be lied with anything.

[Adyy_adyy]

I've had sex with a girl who lied to me about her virginity and she was loose. Yet I've also slept with a girl who was like: "i fingered myself I don't know If i should be considered a virgin" yet one time when we were having sex my condom almost remained in her (She was that thight)

[kittycat119]

Seriously? You're one of those people who thinks having sex makes you "loose"... that just makes you seem like you've never got laid because that is just not even remotely true

[Adyy_adyy]

Yeah I'm. Cuz then why bitches are all loose? I know there are condition that make the vag ne loose. But i don't think that a girl can be loose at a young age (for example 16 y. o) without fucking too much or with too many guys.

[kittycat119]

Lmao all I get out of when dudes do this and claim this they've never gotten laid... because this only comes from virgins and dudes who hate chicks who've fucked someone b4 them. Never an in between

[Adyy_adyy]

Oh look someone got angry.
All the guys I know who even went one time to the whores said that they feelt almost nothing because they were loose. I guess You just want to believe your vag will never get loose

[kittycat119]

No. I know how the vagina works. If that was the case then all my friends shouldn't have bfs or at the least their men shouldn't feel anything since I hang out with very promiscuous girls. And yet their vaginas from what are hear aren't loose. Only thing that causes any little bit of looseness is having a baby. And that barely cause a difference

[Adyy_adyy]

Uhm. Still ghete are girls with looser vags maybe even naturally cuz not all vaginas are the same. U know a roman or girl or whatever can make exercices to her vag tight. But in my countries whores are loose. Every man I know sais that.

[kittycat119]

Yeah because they're retarded... men here say the same shit. There's not a difference they can tell. They make it up in their minds because they think they look cool. And they wanna shame other girls for having ever had sex b4 them. It's basically men being dumbasses and women also who spread this retarded notion

[Anonymous]

She could have sex toys that she's been using on herself until this point, which could explain why she knows what she likes and why she didn't bleed. Would still make her a virgin since she didn't have sex with another person.

[kittycat119]

You don't always bleed your first time. That's a misconception

[Adyy_adyy]

@kittycat119 True. One of my past gfs told me she didn't had a hymen yet she bleed the second or the third time we made it lol. A

[Adyy_adyy]

Yeah I know. But the way she was acting was really weird. She was desperate and kinda forced me to have sex with her. But She wasn't that tight. Like how big the toys to be? Or maybe that's the way her vag is... I hope so.

[Avicenna]

She probably did lie to make you feel more comfortable.

[PrincessGrail]

What difference does it make?

[PrincessGrail]

I mean, you obviously weren't a virgin...

[Adyy_adyy]

I don't like to ne lied to. If she wasn't a virgin she should tell me the truth. All the girls I had sex with were shy about making sex even If they weren't virgins...

[PrincessGrail]

Some virgins are horny. You should be flattered.

Not every girl bleeds. My bff popped her cherry riding her horse when she was 12.

[Adyy_adyy]

I know. Some girls are even born without a hymen and some just break it doing daily activities. And hormons do make you horny. But she was acting weird. She almost forced me to have sex with her. Her vag wasn't virgin thight. I mean I didn't even touched her to make her horny or anything. And I quite wanted to initiate the sexual contact.

[PrincessGrail]

Guess she was really horny. You could've said no...

[Adyy_adyy]

I tried to reject her. Because maybe she will regret losing her virginity with me (If Something bad happens between us and If she was really a virgin) cuz maybe she was really horny

[PrincessGrail]

You did the right thing. But when we (girls) are really horny, we're hard to hold back lol.

Like fighting the tide...

[Nachowedgie]

Yeah she wasn't a virgin