I believe women should look for balance. Look for a man who shows he has great leadership skills, is a provider, and can take care of you and your children if you have any. He doesn't have to have all the money in the entire world, you just want balance. Men also need to do the same thing, don't just grab any woman just cause she got a cute face, and big butt, sure that's a plus but does she have the skills to be a wife? Is she a great fit to be the mother of your children? Can he be a great father figure/role model for your kids? Can you both admit when you're wrong? Can you both handle the stress when the other can't for whatever reason? The problem is that it's unbalanced when it comes to looking for a partner, we're either looking at someone's outer appearance or what they can give us materialistically. I'm not saying you have to get with someone you're not attracted to or get in struggle love type relationships, but I am saying look for more than just one quality. Looks and money will not keep a relationship together, it might bring you together but if there's nothing more than that if the both of you are not complete, not whole with yourself, responsibly, mature mentally or emotionally. Then no matter how fine she is or how rich he is isn't going to make the relationship work.
I would think that person that told me that has wrong values... I mean I was really poor at one pint in my life. Now i earn plenty. When it comes to men I dot care about their income, id even support him if he was in trouble, but only for a little while, Im not supporting some useless bum. Its just important that he has ambiton, drive and is trying his best to be successful person that can provide for himself and his family. Realizing id even support a guy for a while made me really get to know myself better and how much i dont are as much about money, while actually fully knowing how poverty feels like. I just think if you try really hard its impossible to be poor your whole life.
Those parents love status more than their child, and should be rebelled against 😡 Real parents want their daughter to marry a man she loves... and maybe hope they become rich together, that would be fine 💍
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A stranger once told me that I should. Said I'm very attractuve that a rich man would want me. I told that person straight up that I have no desire to be with man just because he is rich. I know rich men personally, and I have never actively went after them because they have money. Hence why some are my friends or were my friends at some point in life. In fact, I find rich people intimediating. Plus I would tell them to mind their own business.
Unless I was also rich, I would not want to be with a rich guy again. At all.
I had a boyfriend that was stupidly rich and I could never give him anything he wanted because he already had everything he could ever want. Whenever he got me expensive gifts I felt insanely guilty, and I always felt indebted.
My grandma snarked one time when I was 12 and she old me I needed to marry a rich man because I wasnāt interested in cooking.
My mom told me to tell her Iād be rich and a man will marry me. She was closer to the truth than my grandma.
I'm building a successful career now that will help me to become a woman who is able to provide for others. I'm completely independent now but want to be able to financially care for a support my own future family. I don't care about a man's riches and wealth because I make my own happily but wouod still support a man's ambitions if we were partners. He'd be a part of my life by pleasure and not necessity.
First off, my parents always adviced me to never marry.
Secondly, they adviced me to never marry rich and taught me to never depend on anyone in any way.
I'd never want to be with someone who makes more money for multiple reasons.
I am way too proud to deal with that.
Where's the one 'right' option - I marry for love. He/we may or may not be rich, but the money was not the deciding factor in who I married.
Nobody has ever told me to marry rich, but itās something Iāve always kind of wished for. Being broke sucks. Working a 9-5 sucks. I donāt really have any career goals. Marrying rich seems like an easy pass to the life Iād rather be living.
Well tough luck for everyone involved because I'm not attractive enough to attract a man who happens to be rich anyway. They can afford to be with any woman they want and they wouldn't go for a plain Jane like me. I wouldn't seek to go for a rich man specifically but if he happens to be rich then my chances are probably lower than usual.
I live in South Florida, so you see older dudes to ancient with younger women 20s-40s a lot. I know a guy almost 80, his girlfriend is 30. He bought her a house, a new Lamborghini etc. I mean why not right?
My parents want me to marry someone with the potential of becoming rich. I think it's a reasonable desire. Nobody wants to see their children struggle financially.
I mean, if I can find a good man who happens to be rich that would be cool but I wouldn't chase someone just because he's rich.
Letās just say Iām well off and donāt need his money.
My parents encourage me to marry the man I love and want a life with, and Iām all for that and thatās what I will do.
OML i can't believe so many girls voted for option B! This proves Most girls of this generation are gold diggers.
I'll marry someone that I click with. Rich or not. But if he does mange to be rich or have more status then me I'm not going to turn him down because that's what random men on the internet want me to do.
And oh, should I turn down a guy who looks better than me? Most dudes would say I should and how it would make me humble but my days of being a humble women are over. Sorry not fucking sorry.
I was, I did try but I didn't like those guys personality wise. So I choose someone who had the right mentality. I'm content but I have been looked down a lot for doing this.
At the moment, I'd rather be single but I would date someone who's rich but not because they're rich.
Feels like so many women are told that, a lot that I date, meanwhile they fell for a poor redneck and just ask me to not act broke around their parents/etc
I fully understand that having money is attractive, but to marry someone based on their financial status is extremely shallow. Not sure why that saying is normalized to be honest.
I would only marry someone I loved regardless of whether they were rich or poor
Isn't that pretty much every (especially poor) girl's Plan A?
I can understand the appeal, but certainly not the idiocy on insisting on it - then getting super scared and intimidated when she meets a guy who is rich - and likes her.
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