Why she said I have to lose weight then date you?

[Anonymous]

Okay I liked her she she has pretty face nice smile though she's not so much fat but she said I won't date you unless I lose weight , I don't like you're fit and in another level while I'm not!
I honestly I'm surprised. I told her you look fine for me

What's wrong with her?

[loveslongnails]

She's insecure !! She's afraid if she dates you, eventually you'll leave her for someone with a better body. But if she has that better body from the beginning, she thinks you won't want to stray. Basic point is, she's wrong on both accounts and she's GOING to be insecure no matter her body looks like, unless she address that point. Best you can do is help her address the root cause - the insecurity - and not the symptom - her "lack of a better body".

[TheFlak38]

typical female bullshit. just another poor excuse to avoid you.

[Anonymous]

She's insecure and feels like she not good enough 4 u