Yes it is I don’t know how I would feel if my girlfriend got an abortion without telling me. I would probably tell her I think she should get one anyway but it’s just the fact that I wouldn’t know
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I’ve done it , and I never told him. Cause end of the day it’s my body. Hardest thing I’ve ever had to do but it was the right decision
That would be a huge breach of trust, I'd be pissed.
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If you're gonna go through with it no matter what he says, then don't tell him. Is it wrong? Maybe. But telling him and then aborting it when he doesn't want you to is more wrong
Morally I would say it's wrong but the laws are all on your side so unless you are deciding to keep it then it doesn't really matter does it?
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I actually have a strong opinon on this but for your sake I wouldn't take too much out of what you get here. No one here can possibly understand soneone in your position and how difficult it may be. I feel for you. Take care of you and your situation. Dont put too much empahsis here.
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It's her body, and when she wants to have an abortion, she should go for it.
It's her body ! If he knocked her up and doesn't know that by now, it's still her decision
It depends on what her reasons for not telling him would be
Yes he should know its his baby too if a woman does some something like this to a guy she ain't shit in my book
Yes it is I don’t know how I would feel if my girlfriend got an abortion without telling me. I would probably tell her I think she should get one anyway but it’s just the fact that I wouldn’t know
I’ve done it , and I never told him. Cause end of the day it’s my body. Hardest thing I’ve ever had to do but it was the right decision
The father has a right to know, the child is equally his.
Unless this happened after a one night stand with a stranger, then I think he has the right to know.
I agree
Not necessarily "wrong," but it definitely depends on her reasons for doing so.
That would be a huge breach of trust, I'd be pissed.
If you're gonna go through with it no matter what he says, then don't tell him. Is it wrong? Maybe. But telling him and then aborting it when he doesn't want you to is more wrong
Many times. Yes it's dishonest to not tell.
There are exceptions. everything isn't black or white.
Even if you tell him, he can't do anything about it but try and change your mind. It's pretty harmless
Morally I would say it's wrong but the laws are all on your side so unless you are deciding to keep it then it doesn't really matter does it?
I actually have a strong opinon on this but for your sake I wouldn't take too much out of what you get here. No one here can possibly understand soneone in your position and how difficult it may be. I feel for you. Take care of you and your situation. Dont put too much empahsis here.
yeah its wrong.. Its your choice, but he has a right to know that he created a life.
Depends on why she feels the need to hide it and the extent of their relationship.
I think it depends on the situation but ultimately its her choice
People should use condoms, birth control pills or use the morning after pill, otherwise it's this question.
I'd say yes. At least tell him. Won't change the result but he needs to know. Unless he said that he didn't want kids.