Why would she start responding slowly?

[Anonymous]

I got connected with this girl via my cousin. We talked via DM for 4 days straight. Since then she started responding back like only once a day and its been harder to have a full smooth conversation. Would it be things I said, and is this a bad sign? Or should I just be more patient?

[AmandaYVR]

Be patient. It's only just begun.
Your expectations are a bit out of whack now because of the way it started. People notice change. But 4 days is really too soon to be drawing a whole bunch of conclusions.
But yes, hate to break it to you, but it's also a possibility you said something that put her off. Females are very sensitive. Still, don't let that make you lose all hope. Be cool. You an show enthusiasm, and interest, making your desire known somewhat. Beyond that, as they say, 'you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink.' So patience, my friend.

[Asker]

So I was talking via IG dm's. Could it be that I commented on a picture she posted in her story that "she looks beautiful 😊". She did respond with "thank you 😊". I'm a little lost... should I be apologizing,

[AmandaYVR]

Come on, you're not serious, are you? I can't take that as a serious q.

[Asker]

Lol its very hard to read girls... we are both at a point where we are both looking for marriage. I'm thinking that me commenting her looks is making it seem like I care more about her outside then her inside. Which is obviously not my intention.

[AmandaYVR]

You poor men, having to question your actions, and what they convey, to this degree. It must drive you all mad. (Girls analyze and analyze and analyze too, but I tend to think the list of possibilities in our head have a bit more rationality to them than all these silly things y'all think/have experienced girls getting made about. My god.)
You did nothing wrong on that, the "beautiful" comment. Don't you dare adapt your behaviour on this, in the future. It's positive. End of story. Really.
If you want to drive yourself crazy, you could go over every single thing you said, and look for signs of an adverse reaction. (Good luck with that.)

[Asker]

God damn why are you soo right lol!! It just haven't hard the best of luck with women recently and I really like this girl. I just hope that it works out. Can you pray for me lmao

[AmandaYVR]

🙏🙏

[Anonymous]

Maybe she's playing hard to get or doesn't wanna be seen as easy

[Asker]

Well my cousin connected me with her and spoke with her too about me being a possible match. And my cousin did emphasize that she is looking to potentially get married. I am on the same page as I wouldn't just date her for fun at this point.

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe she's busy or she lot interest completely. It's hard to know

[Asker]

There were really no signs of losing interest as she was responding to all my messages it was just taking her quit some time to respond. Do you think I should ask if she'd rather message via text over using IG?

[ShadezMcgee]

Too much too soon, man. Pull back and focus on something more important like a hobby, your job or your friends. You are showing her you have nothing better to do.