Was she actually hitting on me?

[Anonymous]

Well when i was at the gym late in the evening, all the other benches were free (as there were barely any other member) except for the one I was using. And then this girl still comes next to my bench and stretches quite close next to me for quite sometime. She then puts her legs on the legs of my bench for support for some more stretches. I just kept doing some work out and then when i got up to adjust my bench she came in my direction/way like it was an accident. And when I freaked out and smiled/blushed at her. She didn't even have a surprised look on her face and just got happy smiling like it was something expected. Then she was trying to tell me that she was not passing me by just walked im my direction to use a spot in front of me. Since her English wasn't very good I asked what was she trying to tell me but then as she was struggling to speak she just stopped and continued with her workout and i with mine till i was done and went into shower.

Yes

no was just a coincidence she was there

there is a high chance

[drakethibault1]

Dude, I dont know about you, but I dont mix sport with sex. I think you are thinking too much about this, whether you missed an opportunity. It is obvious, because at gyms men do not get a lot of attention from females, and they are happy when someone at least looks at them. Maybe she wanted to play some games with you. Where she was from? in you opinion?

[Asker]

I thought the same thing bro. But then why exactly is she shy and upset with me when I didn’t do a thing. It’s only after that behaviour it got me thinking.

[drakethibault1]

I don't think she was particularly upset or shy with you. Probably she was frustrated with the fact that she had a bad English and couldn't flirt with you on full scale. That all I can think of, from what you wrote on your post.

[Asker]

Well here in the UK there are loads of immigrants ( lots of Europeans) with bad English

[drakethibault1]

I see, but it doesn't make her any less woman.

[Asker]

So even if there are lots like her ( bad in English) she will still be very embarrassed when it comes to a guy she likes?

[drakethibault1]

You see man, we will never know what inside other peoples' mind. It could be anything. I do really think it is a most useless activity- figuring out what was someone's intention. She definitely wasn't shy. Most likely she was playing with you. But don't consider that as a missed opportunity, you will have a lot more of this.

[Asker]

Oh dude you just don't get it...

[Renegade_Sailor]

She was absolutely putting herself in front of you.

[tatianamay]

I think she was hitting on you

[Trish1661]

Honestly she might of hit on u but if she spoke not very good English seems to be maybe foreign she might just get that a lot from guys when she at the gym but don’t assume things when you don’t know the real reason

[tatianamay]

@Trish1661 I used the word "think" I was not implying that I was sure that she was hitting on him, I just said I *thought* she was hitting on him. I should've added "not sure" to it, but thank you for correcting me. I'll remember not to repeat my mistake in the future :)

[Asker]

@Trish1661 yeah but hears the thing after that day when she was working out close next to me I avoided looking at her and i could notice from my side view she's looking at me with an annoyed look on her face. And after that whenever we made eye contact she freaks out and hurriedly turns her head away. And once she was looking at me with an upset look on her face.

[Asker]

@Trish1661 oh and im not assuming. Because I don't know I'm asking you all on here