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How do I get into the friend zone with my ex girlfriend. We ended real badly? (Page 2)
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Find someone else as "friends". Don't bother with your exes, it's pointless.
Why are exes pointless to be friends with
They want you suffer. Do you really want friends who just wait for the moment to backstab you?
Yeah maybe you're right.
It isn’t worth it. I did that for awhile and it was just avoiding the inevitable of her eventually moving on to someone else. It was only a temporary fix. 🤷🏻♂️
You need to cut your losses. She's moved on and so should you.
Chalk it up to experience and avoid treating another person that way again
Don't bother, If you ended the relationship, you didn't get along enough to be friends.
I think you ruined your chances with her, if I were you I'd cut my losses and move on and learn from that situation.
You just have to be kind and friendly and basically just befriend her
Just let her go! Fk her.,
Only one lady in a man’s world gets all the special treatment.
Well you keep on having sex with her. This way she will understand your intentions and accept you for who you. It's the only way mang
The best thing you can do is not to make the matters worse. Try to forget her
You dont.
You are also still acting like an ass, you dont care what she wants or how she feels all you think about is what you want.
Grow up.
Umm no, you couldn't be further from the truth
lol
Whatever dumbass.
Lol, alright 40 year old virgin
Thing is, my comments about you are based on objective reality, you are just talking shit because you didn't get your way again.
Keep crying.
QQ
Leave her. Let she live in peace
I don't believe exes can be friends.
u wrong m8
How so?
It certainly isn't common, but it's possible. My first ex is a very good friend of mine now (though we have been good friends since childhood and only dated briefly in high school). To me, it depends on the feelings between the two and how things ended. With my ex and I, there are no longer any romantic feelings and although things initially didn't end well, we made up years ago.
Cause I'm friends with my ex right now. She's an amazing human being and we'll probably be friend for life.
@Jouth dd u end on good or bad terms
Good terms. It is possible to befriend an ex for which the relationship ended on bad terms, but it's not easy. You need a paradigm shift that completely changed the nature of the connection.
Okay, that's good for you. But that's one in a million cases
I was trying to talk the asker out of it since they ended badly..
Maybe you're correct. A lot of people delete their exes off Facebook. I was just thinking this might be different since it was 15 years ago, but it appears not lol
Can I ask, why do you want to be friends again?
I dont want to be friends as in hang out. But I want to be on good terms, because I know I fkd up a lot with her , and we went through a lot of big events e. g. I was her first, friends suicide, big wild party's. And this one ended real badly with heated arguments.
What makes you want to be on good terms? I want to understand your motivation.
@Jouth because we ended so shitly at the time and went through a lot as I just stated.
But what do you hope to achieve?
@Jouth I guess a bit closure and piece of mind.
Hmm. I can feel that. Has she blocked you?
@Jouth basically she said I've had a massive negative effect on her and she feels sick when she sees me. I dont want to be viewed like that by someone I was close with. It sucks.
Yeah I mean that shit really sucks. I can see why you feel that way. Did she block you tho?
@Jouth yeah lol, on Facebook messenger, I think either blocked or ignored. I was hoping to explain some more things. I sort of apologized for my actions, but I didn't apologize for the stuff I didn't think I should have and sort of blamed her for some of the stuff she was accusing me of. I won't apologize for things I dont think I'm to blame for.
Oh damn man, no she's gone. If she's started to block you it's beyond fixing. If she wants to talk, she'll reach out.
I have an ex I tried to get back. Once she said no, I accepted it, but after I tried to regain a friendship, things soured. She was polite and then she just started ignoring me. I held on longer than I should have and I'm pretty sure I frightened her and I hate that. I hope somewhere, she's really happy, surrounding herself with people that build her up and fill her with life, but unfortunately that's just not me anymore. If she ever reaches out to me, I'll ask if I can call her one last time just to clear the air, but I think that's pretty much impossible at this point. At a certain point you have to let her go. I should have let go a month after she broke up with me, it was stupid and self destructive of me to do otherwise. Let her go, man. This isn't good for you. Exhale. It's done.
@Jouth if I was you I would try and contact your ex when you have the perfect excuse to if you want to clear the air. I contacted mine because I wanted to ask a question about a sub division ( she worked for council) but at the same time I knew I could find out some more info. It sucks talking to someone u left on bad terms , you have no idea how they will react. And in my case it was a lot worse than I thought.
But at least I know this stuff now
I mean if I were to contact my ex, it would scare her. I don't want her to think thay I won't leave her alone if she wants me to.
Dude, move on. It's over.
You can't. You fucked up. Deal with it.
You want to have sex with her again
Leave her you going to have to beg
The red pill take it and walk away
You don't.
Why? She is an ex.