Random thought: when a girl says, "I have more guy friends than girl friends because girls are too much drama," is that considered a red flag? (Page 2)

[AdithyaR]

That sounds like serious "pick me girl" vibes and that's ared flag for me.
I don't agree with putting down your own gender in order to look good yourselves, it comes off as shallow and fake to me.

[Gorge95]

Everything lately is a red flag. People can hang with whoever they want to for whatever reasons they wish.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Not necessarily. She might just get along better with guys.

[NorthAfrican]

Usually those girls are pick mes. So yes it's a red flag.

[Flower7]

It depends on how you feel about her being around other guys all the time.

[Anonymous]

No, not a red flag at all. Some of the best women I know relate better with men than women. My wife is one example. One of the reasons I love her is that she has more in common with me than with most females.

[_lost_soul_]

Well, congrats 👏 to you for snagging one that can remain loyal despite having more male friends. Sadly, we all are not as fortunate. There are other factors that come into play that cause this to be a red flag. The woman's personality, upbringing, values, level of attention, etc. The list goes on. However, there are common factors, and one of the biggest ones is the woman's appeal to men. If she is found to be attractive and approachable by a lot of men, then she will be presented with various options. Just to be clear, I'm not saying your wifey isn't appealing to a lot of men. Like I said, there's a lot of factor to take into consideration.

[Opinion Owner]

Ummm, okay...

[Adam1978]

Yes expect to just be one more in her collection of men.

[Uptowngirl88]

Yeah because men aren't any better. They love gossip and drama. a lot of times it's 10x worse from men

[_lost_soul_]

Haha. I guess. Personally, I'm not much for gossip. In what way do you mean men gossiping is worse than women?

[exitseven]

No, unless all her guy friends are guys that she used to have sex with.

[TsAubreyKate]

You don’t have any girl friends because you are the problem not them

[_lost_soul_]

I am the problem? Without knowing the full extent or any other details, you say I'm the problem? Interesting. Ok.

[TsAubreyKate]

No I was talking about girls who say that it’s definitely a red flag

[_lost_soul_]

Ohh.. gotcha. That's my bad 🤦‍♂️.

[Anonymous]

Yes and no. Some of them are “pick me” girls and some GENUINELY like having male friends.

[Anonymous]

It could be or it could mean that she has a better idea of how men interact with each other so you don't need to walk on eggshells around her.

[AskInGirl94]

I’ve had multiple friends who were female and the majority of their friends were males.

[ShatteringRedGalore]

No, I think that is totally normal to have more guy friends.
Girls can be drama

[Iron_Man]

Absolutely 100%

[Raperonzolo_Viv]

No, I am like this..