Guys, when it comes to love: why would you rather argue with your girl than her giving you the silent treatment?

[Anonymous]

Like you know she is upset with you and instead of communicating with you about it. She gives you the silent treatment. So why would you rather take the argument than the silent treatment?

[Кураж]

Because that's what adults do.
You communicate so that conflict can be resolved.

If you don't seek resolution and merely seek to punish each other for subjectively perceived grievances, your relationship will be going down the toilet real fast.

[NamerOfStars]

Because the silent treatment doesn't SOLVE anything; it just delays the argument and makes sure everyone is mad, instead of just her. If there's a problem, bring it up, discuss it, and come to an answer. Doing otherwise is just immature.

[SnakeBoop]

Silent treatment is unhealthy and toxic. Anyone who does it is a fool.
Talking about issues is how to sort them.

[jahaims]

Both are immature. If she needs to have space to calm down and have a rational discussion that is reasonable. Ignoring someone to try to make a point just shows me how immature you are.

[Dragonstarterplus]

Because men are problem solvers so silent treatment does nothing to solve the problem

[Zlantur2]

It's worse. By being silent she hides everything together and at some point she will unleash everything together.