Is it normal to love being pregnant?🤰❤?

[Apple1996]

I know a lot of women say they hate being pregnant but I really love it! My son is only 4 months old and Im hoping to get pregnant again soon. Is it normal to be this way about pregnancy considering that so many women seem to hate it?

This is normal

This isn't normal

[Draumus]

No higher purpose or responsibility than that of a life in your care, hormones change, body changes.. ups and downs.. most women get a glow about them like a nuclear plant in winter may emit when it's running full throttle like a woman's body is at that time.. oftentimes the first pregnancy is the most extreme in its uncharted experience.. so it can be exiting or scary if faced alone... or with lack of any experienced wisdom.. dreadful.. but if your ducks are in a row and it was talked about or planned to some degree it makes it a lot more pleasant experience than to be unprepared and.. for lack of better description.. unplanned.. which tends to really mix it up for those mothers who are getting "you've been chosen to bring life into the world!" Joy and feeling the oneness with the universe.. and "I am so screwed.. how.. why.. WHAT am I going to do.. I can't let my *whoever* find out!..". and thus the bitter sweet feeling of right thing done the wrong way.. or right place.. wrong time. If that is someone's situation.. take a breath and let go of the worries. . just do it... parents aren't going to kill a mother and unborn child 99% of the time. And though you may feel alone.. you have the most valuable asset in the world.. especially to State, county.. and you have an army of individuals and a almost limitless supply of support , funding, resources.. at your disposal. that helps if used correctly set you off better than without the unplanned life change.. I think over all what makes it enjoyable is if the 2 parents are on the same side and love is on both fronts.. confusion and doubt.. always makes it confusing but love.. leads to trusting.. leads to security.. stability.. and success.. which makes the crappy things like jobs sickness bills. etc.. easier to manage.. and always keep honesty no matter what.. If both sides aren't on the same page.. then it's bound to crash and now there's an innocent casualty.. so be forgiving.. patience is must.. and never look to any advice from anyone that is one-sided.. it will flip the boat and that all said... best to anyone reading this and expecting.. I've had 6 kids 3 different moms..3 never made it to 5 and 3 are well established. Instincts will guide you and it's been done for centuries.. you got it... and as far as getting knocked up.. it can happen same day of delivery.. there are cases.. breast is best and get plenty of rest trust in God your partner and Instincts for all the rest.

[Bluemax]

I think most women who *want* the pregnancy and who do not suffer adverse health effects love it. I had a friend who had morning sickness so bad she actually *lost* weight during her pregnancy! It was a very serious condition. Suffice it to say she did *not* love being pregnant, even though she loves her son, wanted her son, and was happy to have him.

However, what does it matter if it's normal or not? You love it! It brings you joy and happiness! That's awesome. I wish you and your child all the best. Should you choose to get pregnant again, may you be as happy as you are with this one!

[Apple1996]

Losing weight in the beginning is very common. Happened to me in two of my pregnancies

[Bluemax]

She lost weight in the second and third trimesters

[theothersider]

it was alove hate relationship for me. I mean there is the obviousely motherly love you feel with your babies growing inside you... but growing a nother human being inside your body is really friggin hard. the worst was the mid to late stages when everything is swollen and getting around feels like a real chore. my second son toward the later stages turned him self in such away that every time he would kick... he would kick me directly in the bladder causing me to literally uncontrollably piss my self. the little things no one really tells you. inspite of it though my husband and I are trying for out 3rd baby currently and i am excited to be pregnant again even though it does have its suck... it is kinda awesome to!

[Alwayreckles93]

Pregnancy is a blessing and a beautiful thing. Say enjoy as much as you can , Other mom's don't get to experience pregnancy pictures and baby showers. Both of my two pregnancy were completed I had to stay in bed rest with my first pregnancy I had to stay in bed rest later I had preclemsia I had to get an emergency c section with my second pregnancy I had deabetes and stay on bed rest I was cramping a lot and went to hospital also a c section. Yeah I don't see myself having baby number 3 in the future he if I ever get remarried.

[Apple1996]

Sucks that you were on bed rest. I also had pre eclampsia and but never had to do bed rest or anything like that

[Alwayreckles93]

With your first baby or second. Yes it sucks oh and the morning sickness. Did the doctor perform an emergency c section?

[Apple1996]

With my 3rd and no I had to be induced right away. They didn't allow me to leave the hospital since my blood pressure was so out of control. Ended up pushing him out when i was only 5 cm to avoid a c section

[Alwayreckles93]

You are so brave. Was it an emergency or the doctor made an order and send you?

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

My mom loved being pregnant.
But I am the only one she's had.

When I asked why, my dad said, that my mom was going through lots of trouble and labor during my time, so much so that she was not able to conceive another one.

When I asked my mom, she said that she was completely fine and it was my dad who was not home much. Even when she's had a C section (scissor cut?), she was really fine.

I really don't care what was happening between those two at that time, but all I wanted was a sister. That's it. Not a brother, but a sister.

[Seinna]

Wow I can't believe how negative some people in the comments are o. O It's not even their baby or their problem yet they're trying to turn you away from it.

Yes, it is absolutely normal. In fact growing up I was always told it's a blessed state and the best thing that can happen to a woman... then I came to this "progressive" country and all I hear is how bad children are and that they're the end of your life. Ok, but who will pay for your retirement then? We kind of need them and if we don't get our own then some other country will dump theirs on us and change our cultural composition. It's just stupid to me.

Of course it's normal, it's the most natural and beautiful thing in the world.

[Daniela1982]

Being pregnant is no fun after the sex part. You can't eat certain things, take medicine or not do a list of things. After baby comes it continues. Lack of sleep because you only sleep when baby sleeps. The rest of the time you are feeding baby and changing diapers. Anyone who loves being pregnant has not done it before. Plus few men chip in much to help out. It's a woman thing they think. So you still got to take care of the kids you already have. Did I say you hardly get any sleep?

[TRORT]

I'm sorry to hear that but I think it has to do with knowledge, my mother use to drink coca cola when she was pregnant with her first child to take away the sickness. And having child with the right guy he be willing to help with the night shift.

[Apple1996]

Ah I like the lack of sleep part since I have insomnia. It is fun to have something to do at night. My son has been sleeping through the night since 5 weeks old so already bored. This why I need another

[RealMarek]

The drive to have children is more natural than anything. However, during a civilization’s decline it is common for this to be disrupted and, in cases of collapse an extreme anti-natalism sets in. The population of Rome went from 1 or 2 million to 35,000 in just a couple hundred years. The people were not killed and did not flee, they simply stopped having children. When the trend began Rome had not even reached the height of its power. At the rate people of European descent are having children, there will be no Europeans left in 200 years. It happened before, it will happen again. Your love of pregnancy is normal, but you are living in an abnormal time and place characterized by cultural decay.

[NailPolishLover]

It's normal to love being pregnant. However, delivery is painful. So, 9 Mouths are great for you, until you push the baby out. Then, you have to raise the baby. You have get passed a year, or so of crying. Then, your baby talking, is fun after that. With him or her misbehaving after that, being the only bothersome thing after that.

[Apple1996]

I didn't think the delivery of any of my kids was painful. Pregnancy is more painful then birth in my opinion

[Chaneille]

I think it. Heck it's supposed to be like that. I mean you are nurturing another life inside you , you should enjoy that. Especially if your husband is giving you all the support in the world and you know how you are going to provide for that baby etc. I've never been pregnant but I'm willing to bet that I'm gonna enjoy it.

[DanaeAdam5]

Of course it is!

Honestly I've seen many pregnant women who miss being pregnant because of how more pampered they were from the people around them, and the fact that they had the closest relationship with their infant since it was inside their body

[Berethor]

Natural selection prefer women like you over women who don't want to get pregnant.

https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/NotWantingKidsIsWeird

[Lucy68]

It's normal, I know a lot of women who enjoyed their pregnancy and wanted to get pregnant asap. I've never been pregnant but when that day comes I'm going to enjoy every second of carry my little guy or baby girl

[xJayleenx]

I’ve heard that some women like the attention they recieve from it so I think it’s normal. Also you don’t have to squeeze in your belly anymore lol when I’m pregnant I’m going to wear whatever I want right now im afraid of tight clothes but when im pregnant in the future, I’ll probably wear that all the time

[sissyalexa]

I think it's perfectly normal to love being pregnant! It's such an incredible thing in all aspects! And I think it's wonderful when it can bring so much joy to people even before birth! 😊

Congratulations 😊

[TrueConfection]

I loved being pregnant too. The nurses in the delivery room were surprised when my husband asked me when we could have another baby and I wanted one right away. We started trying for the second baby as soon as we could and kept going.

[Creampiekarl420]

Lmao that’s like a females whole gimmick I don’t see why more of you wouldn’t that’s gotta be top 5 on best reasons to be a woman the ones who can’t have babies are very miserable and sad please don’t take your womanhood for granted women look much more pretty when pregnant anyways especially if it’s not yours

[OlderAndWiser]

I hear many women say that pregnancy makes them feel fulfilled, like they KNOW that this is what they are supposed to do and it makes them feel good.

[PhenomenalQueen]

Yes that’s normal, and you will always hear some people say they hate being pregnant because we’re all different. Lol this girl I used to be friends with told me she hated all 4 of her pregnancies because her morning sickness was super bad.

[SkyCastle90]

It's normal to love our bodies, and what they can naturally do. Creating a life is absolutely beautiful.

[Elliegirl]

I enjoyed it for the most part, but was glad when it was over and I could finally hold my babies. And it kinda sucked with the twins sometimes because my daughter seemed to find it funny to kick her mommy’s insides at the most in opportune times.

[exitseven]

The peeing every five minutes and the stretch marks probably suck but I imagine having a new life growing inside must be pretty exciting.

[Apple1996]

I never had to pee often like that

[exitseven]

I would say you were lucky/

[Apple1996]

Its cause I did lots of kegel workouts to prepare for birth. This also helps keep the bladder strong

[Darine123]

I had been pregnant 2 times and both time not last longer than 3 month because first time I have abortion and second time I had miscarriage so I don’t want 3rd time to happen like this and would love to get pregnant!

[ObscuredBeyond]

Something they don't always tell you in advance: abortion can screw you up for life, making it near-impossible to have a healthy delivery. They'll make it so no man wants to take risks with you, nor or ever in the future. But they'll gladly take the blood money.

I'd love if the industry were criminalized again, and the penalty for the practitioners performing the procedure was that they suffer the same fate as Nazi war criminals. Then, everyone peddling condoms and encouraging promiscuous sex to kids would be next to dangle from a rope.

Parents in this country need to step up; and help their kids with how to keep lust under control. Otherwise, its flames will spread like wildfire, and youth will search any means they can to douse the flame. Even if it leads them down paths they are guaranteed to regret.

And judging by your comments, that path you took is one really regrettable one!

" 'Tis better to be married, even young, than to go through life burning with desire." - 1 Cor. 7:9

Sexual frustration can slowly kill you, or drive you mad. Yet, we seem to live in an age where ignoring someone's frustrations is preferred over being inconvenienced by the time it takes to address them. Where the frustrated dare not admit it out loud. Women with these frustrations, are immediately assumed to be sluts. Men are branded "incels" immediately, and then unfairly compared to serial killers.

Spineless political cowards will then use these sexual insults in a feeble and feeble-minded attempt to discredit such individuals' talking points, rather than argue the central point.

[TRORT]

Do you feel bad for killing your first child?

[Darine123]

@TRORT I feel bad , when I took abortion pill I felt so bad like I’m gonna die and I didn’t tell my parents. But what can I do? I’m not ready to raise a child if I didn’t do abortion my life would be messed up and I probably can’t give a good life to my kid if I have kid at 18

[ObscuredBeyond]

That's why hundreds of crisis pregnancy centers exist. And if you can't trust your parents to help you with saving a child's life and giving him/her up for adoption, then you can't really trust them with much.

Whoever told you that messing up your life like that was a "right," probably needs to be tied to a millstone and thrown in the nearest large body of water. Because abortion is a false way out. Not only is the kid dead; but you STILL have a messed-up life! You traded a life of some good and bad, for the worst of all possible worlds!

But I don't entirely blame you. I blame whoever it was that first planted in you the suggestion that abortion your only viable option, and that your parents were not to be trusted with the truth.

[odd1out_sask]

I can't speak from the female perspective but when I'm with a girl who is pregnant I don't see them as fat or ugly like they fear. I personally think pregnancy is a thing of beauty. I am not drawn to women who have let themselves go and are obese as some are but when it has a purpose like pregnancy it is something I find attractive because it is a natural role of life and it is something to be supported and nourished.