Is it normal to love being pregnant?🤰❤?

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I know a lot of women say they hate being pregnant but I really love it! My son is only 4 months old and Im hoping to get pregnant again soon. Is it normal to be this way about pregnancy considering that so many women seem to hate it?

Draumus · Accepted Answer

No higher purpose or responsibility than that of a life in your care, hormones change, body changes.. ups and downs.. most women get a glow about them like a nuclear plant in winter may emit when it's running full throttle like a woman's body is at that time.. oftentimes the first pregnancy is the most extreme in its uncharted experience.. so it can be exiting or scary if faced alone... or with lack of any experienced wisdom.. dreadful.. but if your ducks are in a row and it was talked about or planned to some degree it makes it a lot more pleasant experience than to be unprepared and.. for lack of better description.. unplanned.. which tends to really mix it up for those mothers who are getting "you've been chosen to bring life into the world!" Joy and feeling the oneness with the universe.. and "I am so screwed.. how.. why.. WHAT am I going to do.. I can't let my *whoever* find out!..". and thus the bitter sweet feeling of right thing done the wrong way.. or right place.. wrong time. If that is someone's situation.. take a breath and let go of the worries. . just do it... parents aren't going to kill a mother and unborn child 99% of the time. And though you may feel alone.. you have the most valuable asset in the world.. especially to State, county.. and you have an army of individuals and a almost limitless supply of support , funding, resources.. at your disposal. that helps if used correctly set you off better than without the unplanned life change.. I think over all what makes it enjoyable is if the 2 parents are on the same side and love is on both fronts.. confusion and doubt.. always makes it confusing but love.. leads to trusting.. leads to security.. stability.. and success.. which makes the crappy things like jobs sickness bills. etc.. easier to manage.. and always keep honesty no matter what.. If both sides aren't on the same page.. then it's bound to crash and now there's an innocent casualty.. so be forgiving.. patience is must.. and never look to any advice from anyone that is one-sided.. it will flip the boat and that all said... best to anyone reading this and expecting.. I've had 6 kids 3 different moms..3 never made it to 5 and 3 are well established. Instincts will guide you and it's been done for centuries.. you got it... and as far as getting knocked up.. it can happen same day of delivery.. there are cases.. breast is best and get plenty of rest trust in God your partner and Instincts for all the rest.

Bluemax · Accepted Answer

I think most women who *want* the pregnancy and who do not suffer adverse health effects love it. I had a friend who had morning sickness so bad she actually *lost* weight during her pregnancy! It was a very serious condition. Suffice it to say she did *not* love being pregnant, even though she loves her son, wanted her son, and was happy to have him.

However, what does it matter if it's normal or not? You love it! It brings you joy and happiness! That's awesome. I wish you and your child all the best. Should you choose to get pregnant again, may you be as happy as you are with this one!

theothersider · Accepted Answer

it was alove hate relationship for me. I mean there is the obviousely motherly love you feel with your babies growing inside you... but growing a nother human being inside your body is really friggin hard. the worst was the mid to late stages when everything is swollen and getting around feels like a real chore. my second son toward the later stages turned him self in such away that every time he would kick... he would kick me directly in the bladder causing me to literally uncontrollably piss my self. the little things no one really tells you. inspite of it though my husband and I are trying for out 3rd baby currently and i am excited to be pregnant again even though it does have its suck... it is kinda awesome to!

Alwayreckles93 · Accepted Answer

Pregnancy is a blessing and a beautiful thing. Say enjoy as much as you can , Other mom's don't get to experience pregnancy pictures and baby showers. Both of my two pregnancy were completed I had to stay in bed rest with my first pregnancy I had to stay in bed rest later I had preclemsia I had to get an emergency c section with my second pregnancy I had deabetes and stay on bed rest I was cramping a lot and went to hospital also a c section. Yeah I don't see myself having baby number 3 in the future he if I ever get remarried.

The_Shadow_Dweller · Answer

My mom loved being pregnant.
But I am the only one she's had.

When I asked why, my dad said, that my mom was going through lots of trouble and labor during my time, so much so that she was not able to conceive another one.

When I asked my mom, she said that she was completely fine and it was my dad who was not home much. Even when she's had a C section (scissor cut?), she was really fine.

I really don't care what was happening between those two at that time, but all I wanted was a sister. That's it. Not a brother, but a sister.

Seinna · Answer

Wow I can't believe how negative some people in the comments are o. O It's not even their baby or their problem yet they're trying to turn you away from it.

Yes, it is absolutely normal. In fact growing up I was always told it's a blessed state and the best thing that can happen to a woman... then I came to this "progressive" country and all I hear is how bad children are and that they're the end of your life. Ok, but who will pay for your retirement then? We kind of need them and if we don't get our own then some other country will dump theirs on us and change our cultural composition. It's just stupid to me.

Of course it's normal, it's the most natural and beautiful thing in the world.

Daniela1982 · Answer

Being pregnant is no fun after the sex part. You can't eat certain things, take medicine or not do a list of things. After baby comes it continues. Lack of sleep because you only sleep when baby sleeps. The rest of the time you are feeding baby and changing diapers. Anyone who loves being pregnant has not done it before. Plus few men chip in much to help out. It's a woman thing they think. So you still got to take care of the kids you already have. Did I say you hardly get any sleep?

RealMarek · Answer

The drive to have children is more natural than anything. However, during a civilization’s decline it is common for this to be disrupted and, in cases of collapse an extreme anti-natalism sets in. The population of Rome went from 1 or 2 million to 35,000 in just a couple hundred years. The people were not killed and did not flee, they simply stopped having children. When the trend began Rome had not even reached the height of its power. At the rate people of European descent are having children, there will be no Europeans left in 200 years. It happened before, it will happen again. Your love of pregnancy is normal, but you are living in an abnormal time and place characterized by cultural decay.

NailPolishLover · Answer

It's normal to love being pregnant. However, delivery is painful. So, 9 Mouths are great for you, until you push the baby out. Then, you have to raise the baby. You have get passed a year, or so of crying. Then, your baby talking, is fun after that. With him or her misbehaving after that, being the only bothersome thing after that.

Chaneille · Answer

I think it. Heck it's supposed to be like that. I mean you are nurturing another life inside you , you should enjoy that. Especially if your husband is giving you all the support in the world and you know how you are going to provide for that baby etc. I've never been pregnant but I'm willing to bet that I'm gonna enjoy it.

DanaeAdam5 · Answer

Of course it is!

Honestly I've seen many pregnant women who miss being pregnant because of how more pampered they were from the people around them, and the fact that they had the closest relationship with their infant since it was inside their body

Berethor · Answer

Natural selection prefer women like you over women who don't want to get pregnant.

Lucy68 · Answer

It's normal, I know a lot of women who enjoyed their pregnancy and wanted to get pregnant asap. I've never been pregnant but when that day comes I'm going to enjoy every second of carry my little guy or baby girl

xJayleenx · Answer

I’ve heard that some women like the attention they recieve from it so I think it’s normal. Also you don’t have to squeeze in your belly anymore lol when I’m pregnant I’m going to wear whatever I want right now im afraid of tight clothes but when im pregnant in the future, I’ll probably wear that all the time

sissyalexa · Answer

I think it's perfectly normal to love being pregnant! It's such an incredible thing in all aspects! And I think it's wonderful when it can bring so much joy to people even before birth! 😊

Congratulations 😊

TrueConfection · Answer

I loved being pregnant too. The nurses in the delivery room were surprised when my husband asked me when we could have another baby and I wanted one right away. We started trying for the second baby as soon as we could and kept going.

Creampiekarl420 · Answer

Lmao that’s like a females whole gimmick I don’t see why more of you wouldn’t that’s gotta be top 5 on best reasons to be a woman the ones who can’t have babies are very miserable and sad please don’t take your womanhood for granted women look much more pretty when pregnant anyways especially if it’s not yours

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I hear many women say that pregnancy makes them feel fulfilled, like they KNOW that this is what they are supposed to do and it makes them feel good.

PhenomenalQueen · Answer

Yes that’s normal, and you will always hear some people say they hate being pregnant because we’re all different. Lol this girl I used to be friends with told me she hated all 4 of her pregnancies because her morning sickness was super bad.

SkyCastle90 · Answer

It's normal to love our bodies, and what they can naturally do. Creating a life is absolutely beautiful.

Elliegirl · Answer

I enjoyed it for the most part, but was glad when it was over and I could finally hold my babies. And it kinda sucked with the twins sometimes because my daughter seemed to find it funny to kick her mommy’s insides at the most in opportune times.

exitseven · Answer

The peeing every five minutes and the stretch marks probably suck but I imagine having a new life growing inside must be pretty exciting.

Darine123 · Answer

I had been pregnant 2 times and both time not last longer than 3 month because first time I have abortion and second time I had miscarriage so I don’t want 3rd time to happen like this and would love to get pregnant!

odd1out_sask · Answer

I can't speak from the female perspective but when I'm with a girl who is pregnant I don't see them as fat or ugly like they fear. I personally think pregnancy is a thing of beauty. I am not drawn to women who have let themselves go and are obese as some are but when it has a purpose like pregnancy it is something I find attractive because it is a natural role of life and it is something to be supported and nourished.

bottomofastairwell · Answer

I would also like to add that it is perfectly normal to hate being pregnant. Some women love it, and it makes some women miserable.
I have a friend who absolutely hated being pregnant. She said it was the most uncomfortable she's ever been in her life and she was literally counting down days until her due date. And yet she has three boys that she just adores, because being pregnant is only a small part of having a child and she feels like its totally worth it

LovingLoverReturned · Answer

Depends, what type of work did you do during your pregnancy?  Were you treated well by the baby daddy? All that impacts the stress level of pregnant moms.

TCredo · Answer

Not easy to define "normal" but I definitely know many women who love being pregnant. I am sure there is research showing what % of women love it - but my gut says it's a decent %. I enjoyed having a pregnant wife during our 3 trips of joy :)

Cubus · Answer

It's called baby fever. Nature made us this way, so we would survive as a species. And yes - it's normal :)

weysally · Answer

my husband says a pregnant woman in love radiates beauty, so more than normal

Sour-rose · Answer

From what I've seen, no. I've seen a lot of mothers put on a happy face but when that child of yours gets heavier... where's that happiness now?

Tiptoetamm · Answer

Being pregnant is beautiful. Something I haven't experienced myself. As long as you and the baby are healthy that's all the matters

Guy13 · Answer

Is Baby Momma Producer for the Gang fielding this question…recruiting maybe ⁉️ 😏. Teasing of course

SnakeBoop · Answer

some enjoy it. a lot who do turn to surrogacy for that reason.

Grond21 · Answer

I think it's very normal. It's built into us to be mothers and fathers. It may not be very popular to be a mother these days, but that doesn't take away from the fact that it's very natural

Anonymous · Answer

Yep <3 Although I got nipple dermatitis :(

scooogy · Answer

Hunny, you know I love you to pieces... but how many children do you really want?

Charliefretz329 · Answer

The last trimester seems to be the bad bit. Most women do ok if they don’t have morning sickness

Deku2009 · Answer

Yesh it’s normal. Make sure to space out your children

TallAnon · Answer

Animals often pretend to be pregnant for the attention as well

annabananna · Answer

I don’t know how! I’m hating being pregnant! I always feel bad and keep throwing up. The only think I like is the little kicks.

katiesmuff · Answer

Mostly I was happy, but there were days I sure questioned it!

SamIam96 · Answer

Sounds like a completely natural, instinctive feeling.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm 20, studying and not having kids anytime soon. But being a mom has been literally my biggest dream since I was around 14. I'm happy for you and your family, congrats!

dustybiker · Answer

I’d be good if the man wanted to (and could) carry.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Yes, some women feel better pregnant so it makes sense I think that makes sense too and it's normal for sure.

clampfan101 · Answer

No experience,(obviously. rofl), but I can easily see pros outweighing the cons. That lovely lady looks so proud to be giving life to her future child.

kellytheman · Answer

I think more women maybe love it more than you think. They might hate being but the love it when they give birth and want to get pregnant just to feel that feeling of giving life

AviatorTom · Answer

You have a strong mother instinct, which is normal. Not all women have that.

Nice222 · Answer

Of course it is normal. This is how the human race survives.

Massageman · Answer

Considering the changes already happening, and the even more up ahead, the miracle of life, and I would feel that most women DO like it.

Anonymous · Answer

No, it's normal. I've lost count of how many mothers who have told me the same thing.  Some women just love to complain about being pregnant because it supports their victim narrative.

Anonymous · Answer

I hated it. I felt horrified feeling something grow inside me, plus the sickness and fatigue that came with it: NEVER AGAIN.

motownplayer2000 · Answer

It’s something women are supposed to be.. of course it’s not for all women. But the women that want kids.. that’s important

jasco · Answer

Some women love the fact that they have a baby growing in them and having kids while others do not. Some simply see it as fetish

Likes2drive · Answer

It’s normal for many women, creating life is a special thing and I guess you’re very nurturing so it’s natural for you

Southcoastradwolf · Answer

Speaking from my own experience when my partner had our kids. So loved it and felt sexy. I found her incredibly sexy throughout and loved making love in all the different stages of her pregnancy.

Nigjt · Answer

I can honestly say as a Man I have meet many Woman who feel the same way as u are feeling so I think it is normal to have such feeling's. God Bless

jshm2 · Answer

Its only your first and youve not carried it full term yet either. A bit premature of you to claim it as something you are fond of.

AydenHazor · Answer

It friend on the individual, dinner people love it, others hate it.

lovedejj_xo · Answer

Sure it is ….. I like my body and definitely don’t want to get pregnant to each it’s own.

Jouth · Answer

hey I will volunteer as tribute. If you need a sex man to pump a baby into you, I will take one for the team.

OpenClose · Answer

That's extremely normal. Like, I feel like that works on much the same mechanism as post-partum depression.

Imsmurter1 · Answer

I thought it was a drag but you make it sound nice.

Guido · Answer

For those women that really want kids then it is normal.

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