To forgive and stay or to forgive and go?

[Doc19873]

Girl I was dating came on to my best friend at the time (who was also business partner) and SHE was the one constantly going over to my friends place to flirt with him WHILE we were dating. Since he was lonely and depressed he was of course tempted. She broke up with me after she “had my friend in her pocket" and after the break up my friend told me straight to my face that He would be dating her now inspite of my recent breakup and me still having feelings. .. This girl was a total slut witch now that I look back. She had been wanting to fuck my friend since she met him and she was looking for excuses to break up with me… I decided to stay around my “friend" only because he had the guts to say it to my face before anything happened and after 4 months she dumped him because her exboyfriend found out about the new guy she was dating and she was ashamed to be seen with my friend…. Its been 7 months now since THEIR breakup and my “friend" still misses her and hasn't even acknowledge the fact that he hurt me to begin with….. I am about to end relationship with him next week if I dont see evidence of genuine regret….. A good friendship destroyed by a selfish stupid slut …

[Anonymous]

The slut didn't destroy your friendship, your "friend" did.

[Doc19873]

So she seems innocent to you even though she started it? I can't believe female logic.

[Opinion Owner]

Oh, OK. Let's examine male logic.
"Bros before hoes." You can blame the hoe all day long, but what about your buddy who put a knife in your back? You gave him a pass because he came clean about it?

[OldWorldOrder]

They clearly both have agency and are BOTH responsible for betraying OP.

Doc, I'm sorry this happened bro. It sucks. If you have other friends, lean on them a little bit. Make some new ones, go jogging or hiking someplace. That shit really does help, believe me.

Your life ain't over, man. Fuck that dude, fuck that stupid bitch, they can't break you. Moving on gets a little bit easier every day. You can do it.

[Opinion Owner]

It's blatantly obvious that it's both of their fault. But he didn't blame both of them he just blamed her. He gave this backstabbing friend to pass.

[OldWorldOrder]

Do you believe that a man can be manipulated into sex?

[bean2k21]

You should be more responsible for your sluts and train them properly.

[OldWorldOrder]

First world lawfare makes it impossible for a man to take proper responsibility for his woman.

[HopefulGuy94]

To come and to go back

[Guy13]

I would be out

[Guy13]

If she’s that nasty now, can you imagine what she will be like in position of power. In my hobby, I have a Business partner. All we need is some ho to destroy our rental thing.

[Guy13]

Honestly, in my opinion, that fact that you are entertaining this communicates something is wrong with you. if you’re going to let piece of ass do this 💩…

[Doc19873]

Thank you

[Anonymous]

Move on from this.

[Shamalien]

Both fucked