Girls, Why the girl I like always looks down and starts playing with her hands while keep looking down, whenever she faced me, she did the same thing?

[Anonymous]

It took me 5 months to observe her character and everything else about her and I finally fell in love with her and now whenever she comes to my shop she sits down and keep looking down starts playing with her hands and she didn't even talk to me even once.

[PrettyPriya]

Ok, so you fell in love with her yet never spoke to her? That isn't love I am afraid. That is infatuation with her looks is my guess. Having never spoken to her, you don't know what type of personality she has.

Not knowing her personality, I wouldn't call that love. She could have terrible personality traits that you don't know about. She could just be a mean person in general. You need to get to know someone for a good while before you consider it love.

Just observing her as you state isn't enough. Now, to her behaviour you noticed. She could just be shy and doesn't want to make eye contact with others. Perhaps she has some bad experiences with guys hitting on her and avoids drawing attention.

Fidgeting with her hands is a sign of nervousness or uneasiness in some cases. I would not view this as someone that wants to be bothered.

[Asker]

I'm the type of person who doesn't really talk much and there is the thing that I don't really need to talk you or even observe you to read your mind, I can read the mind of each and every person around me automatically but when it comes to her, I always failed.
I can tell what a person is thinking and what he/she is gonna do and surprisingly 90% of the time I was right.
But I'm unable to read her mind, she is always looking down and my heart kinda melts for her,
I want to talk to her but don't know how to do?
Help me if you can!

[PrettyPriya]

You are going to have to find a way to start a conversation. Perhaps something you’ve noticed about her you can bring up.

You can’t expect to get anywhere with her just by observing her.

[PrettyPriya]

Thank you for the MHO 🙂

[kao118]

She’s the girl you like, not the other way around. If she’s shy, it probably means she might like you, but if she’s very outgoing and casual with others then it probably means she doesn’t really like you.

if this answer helped, please consider answering some of my questions too! It sounds clickbaity but I honestly need some advice :/

[Asker]

I'm new here, doesn't know so much.
You can ask here,