So I feel like me growing up is a problem to her normal things like moving out at 23 with a boyfriend , starting a family then becoming engaged after 5 years she didn’t want that for me at all.
If me and my partner have had an argument in the past that I told her about her immediate reaction is to get him out my life or say things of that nature. Or to even ask if he is packing his bags over the smallest thing.
We had one rocky patch during our relationship in the pandemic. An she couldn’t of appeared more happier about it. She even would talk about fattening me up when I move back home. Under the assumption that I would return to her if things went sour.
She even spitefully behind my back suggested I am a bad mother and I couldn’t hack the single mom life just because I decided to work on my relationship and didn’t let it fall to pieces. Evidently what she wanted.
She controls the communication with me and my siblings none of us are close. She discusses our lives with each other and admits she likes to gossip. On the day I got engaged she will say the weather is nasty to put it off. Makes no effort with my fiancé and partner of 6 years. Seems threatened by him. Admits her marriage is sexless. She will fat shame if I eat something fast even tho I am slim. When she is obese. On days before bridal fitting she said weathers brr to try put me off going to try on. I still did anyway. An she said aw my baby’s growing up. I am 30 next year I said this to her yesterday her face all shocked. I have a near 5 year old son. She cried after a magical day of trying on my dream dress saying she misses me , but knows I am too busy for her. When discussing venues I tell her our numbers she comes back saying 90/100 for ceremony what do you think like it’s her day. When we went to view one she said oh I would of come. She wants to invite people we don’t know as a couple I said no. She said well she knows you through me. That’s still a no to me. Cont below…
If me and my partner have had an argument in the past that I told her about her immediate reaction is to get him out my life or say things of that nature. Or to even ask if he is packing his bags over the smallest thing.
We had one rocky patch during our relationship in the pandemic. An she couldn’t of appeared more happier about it. She even would talk about fattening me up when I move back home. Under the assumption that I would return to her if things went sour.
She even spitefully behind my back suggested I am a bad mother and I couldn’t hack the single mom life just because I decided to work on my relationship and didn’t let it fall to pieces. Evidently what she wanted.
She controls the communication with me and my siblings none of us are close. She discusses our lives with each other and admits she likes to gossip. On the day I got engaged she will say the weather is nasty to put it off. Makes no effort with my fiancé and partner of 6 years. Seems threatened by him. Admits her marriage is sexless. She will fat shame if I eat something fast even tho I am slim. When she is obese. On days before bridal fitting she said weathers brr to try put me off going to try on. I still did anyway. An she said aw my baby’s growing up. I am 30 next year I said this to her yesterday her face all shocked. I have a near 5 year old son. She cried after a magical day of trying on my dream dress saying she misses me , but knows I am too busy for her. When discussing venues I tell her our numbers she comes back saying 90/100 for ceremony what do you think like it’s her day. When we went to view one she said oh I would of come. She wants to invite people we don’t know as a couple I said no. She said well she knows you through me. That’s still a no to me. Cont below…
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1 y
I say a number and she contradicts like she knows best or has to feel in the driving seat. An then when she can see she can’t control she gets short and snappy with replies. She will say can I invite this person I have known her years. She’s never met me or my partner the day is about what’s personal to us. Not random people to party with so she feels she’s got her crew. Like she wants me a stranger on my own big day. Not happening. She tries to control and direct my parenting
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1 y
She thinks she’s got the right to judge my choices, partner , financial things, wedding etc. Tried to control who I had as certain roles in wedding. Had an opinion when I chose a maid of honour. Like she had right to question and control. If mail accidently went to her home for me she would open it. She’s money driven so she felt a card in her mail even though addressed to me she opened it. An even had the cheek to send a picture of the mail saying do you want it. It’s as if it said her name.
