Girls, How does it feel to be a woman?

[insteadfew]

As a male i am highly fascinated by women and girls. Like wow you people are so charming, much more aesthetically pleasing, attractive. Everything about your behaviour and physical appearance seems way angelic and better than a male's.

I even wonder if women are also humans... just different gender... and feel same pain, emotions, hunger/thirst , pain /joy etc... or they're pure Angels.

So tell me as a woman how do you feel about being a woman/girl...

Also your thoughts/feelings about and towards men/males?

[Apulu_Imback]

In my eyes, both women and men are equal, just women are more soft and sensitive due to rush of hormones compared to men and men are physically stronger. For you, we look like angels (by the way thanks for your sweet words) and for us, men look like kings. Opposite gender attraction thing you know. I also wonder how men are so strong, physically and in the deeper side mentally too. Yeah most men won't admit it but they are kings!! (ignore the weirdos like rapists and ignorant fellows, I'm talking about men, not boys. True men). Girls are also villains under mask, they may look innocent but they can have the most evil thinking too. Overall it depends on person. Due to men (my dad, best friend, cousin) I stand to what I'm today. Just like behind every successful men there is a woman, behind every successful women they is a man too. With your sweet words and respect to women I can't deny that you are a true man! Your personality is really curious and you are really sweet by nature. No one is better than anyone but everyone is better in their own way.

[insteadfew]

Aww thanks for your kind words and thoughts. by the way what makes you feel men are "kings" and not ugly messy beasts?
Looks wise don't you think that women are superior.. more aesthetically pleasing and soothing than men?

[Apulu_Imback]

See there are two kinds of women and men both. One is Angel/King and other is beast/Witch. There are women who are bad too and trust me, when a woman becomes evil, she is more wicked than a bad man. As women are sensitive (biological reason is their hormones circulate a lot), small things may make them happy but small things can bug them too. You never know that all the small jealousy building up in her maybe creating a Satan with Angel wings. Not saying that there aren't good women BUT don't ignore there are bad women like Elizabeth Bathory (she is one of the worst serial killers of all times). So that's my views from personality wise.

Coming to looks. I will share you examples.



Take a look at this women, she looks really pretty doesn't she? Actually she is known to be one of the favorite daughter of king of Castile. It is known that she melted her cold father. The king of Castile was extremely bad, basically a beast as you said but when this lady took birth, her held her in arms and thought about how many kind people he tortured looking at the innocent face of his daughter. Yes you are right, women are aesthetically pleasing from looks.

[Apulu_Imback]

But wait wait wait!!! Everything I said in first reply is made up. In true story is that she was the queen of Castile and one of the worst queen world have ever seen. She is responsible for death of over 100,000 people because of her own religion beliefs. Now take a look at her with the eyes that say she is wicked. Aren't you filled with disgust looking at this racist?

[Apulu_Imback]

Look how ugly she is, her nose looks really weird. Her eyes as if she was punched.

You see all these thoughts come after you come to know about her personality. So knowing about personality influences how we look at them too.

[Apulu_Imback]

It is the same for men too. For you women are good looking, for women men are good looking. Look at my explanation from that point of view and you will understand.

[insteadfew]

In general i guess men are uglier looking than women... and have messy ugly physical traits than women

[Apulu_Imback]

Maybe for you because you are a man and you are SUPOSSED to be attracted to women because you have testosterones (male hormone you can say). For women, men are more attractive because they have estrogen (female hormones). That's why it is said that hormones were disturbed when a person is attracted to same gender. If women were more attractive then more than half of the women would have been lesbians.

[insteadfew]

But isn't it true that more than half of the women are bisexual or at least bicurious? And that's because women are more beautiful than men

[Apulu_Imback]

NOOO!!! that's not true at all! That's some stupid rumors spreaded my weird BiSexual ladies. It's quite opposite in real life.

[Apulu_Imback]

*by...

[insteadfew]

at least bi curious? Since women are more pretty and aesthetic than men?

[Apulu_Imback]

No, not at all. As I said women attract men and men attract women.

[insteadfew]

I hope that's true... and women are equally attracted and aroused by men the way men are towards women

[Apulu_Imback]

Yes that's true. However their ideal type may vary just like men have different ideal types of lady which varies from person to person.

[Della_Skate8]

As a woman, I do feel the need to point out it can put you at an advantage in certain situations. Although I'm not too fond of stereotypes I do try to use them to my advantage. I mean... when in rome! When a superficial man gets in my way I often use his own beliefs to bash him without him even knowing! Alright, nobody said it was right but it's too fun not to do that when you come across a superficial man. About us being angelic... I see where you are coming from however, that's just because of the stereotypes society has put in place. Since the beginning of womankind we all know and hate women have been lower in rank but higher in beauty. Beauty gives us influence! This crushed the women without "beauty" because they had not even the influence that some of us had. To get influence over anything you had to be "beautiful" and if you weren't, you were tied down for the rest of your days. Well, that is until modern women come in! HOORAH! Honestly, I like to use what I can and at the same time work on what I don't! I absolutely love being a woman and couldn't see myself being a man. Thoughts on men you ask? They are okay beings, but sometimes I too question if women are human simply because of how different we are. They often lack the maturity that women develop in their teens. I'm fascinated by our differences and even how we are alike and can't wait to learn more!

[insteadfew]

You are more attracted towards men or women? And why

[ccs884]

there are some good parts. but there are a lot of bad parts. lack of rights, viewed as overly emotional, viewed as stupid, objectified, sexual assault, etc. most of the causes of female problems are from men, however, i don’t hate all men. i hate the men that treat women like shit and think they are better than us when they don’t know even know what 5x2 is. i do think there are good men out there, even tho there are plenty of shitty ones, but the same can be said for females too. i feel pretty indifferent when it comes to men as a whole. i like to focus on the individual, u can’t judge everyone j by the actions of few.

[insteadfew]

I totally agree... all the problems of being a woman are because of males and male dominated society... and not just because you are a woman.
In fact nature made women way better than men and that's why men are intimated by women and hence they try to supress them

[ccs884]

i wish more people viewed it that way

[insteadfew]

Isn't it true well

[Rania05]

Aww, this is sweet of you 🥰
I feel amazing being a woman, I like cute but simple things in everything, songs has to be a bit poetic though or at least has a point.
Thoughts on men? Some are cool and nice with their politeness, some other are annoying. When I act like a lady I don't necessarily expect a man to be a gentleman with the same attitude, but at least bring positive air by being either cheerful or being sensitive to the atmosphere. Men aren't bad, it's just education, do I believe in genes playing influence in their character? Not much, upbringing is everything. So I prefer someone smiliar in character to me but not the same vulnerability as I (like my social anxiety)

I seen too many people cursing women as b*tches for trivial matters and men's own lack of understanding, so I'm flattered 😘

[insteadfew]

And how do you think about men and male body in aesthetics and other ways?

[Rania05]

I prefer a bit younger men, lively, high EQ, shorter than I, polite as much as blunt, lean body no need of muscles. I don't feel safe when men have bad boys characteristics but feel replused so it's best if they never smoke or it can only end to being friends, I expect some quality of lifestyle from my partner and any common negative traits should preferably be solved together. As much as I want to trust men, I don't leave my drinks or food with them, I keep the basic wariness even if it's my uncle or cousin. A chubby boy is cute too, once I did diet to lose weight and encouraged my male friend too while I was at it (his buddies thought it's unmanly to diet). Like I said muscles isn't a requirement to men, it's optional I respect their bodies just as I do to women. I just hope from men, some less sizing up glances when my breast line shows when I lower my head (sometimes I just point out that I've seen it from the corner of my eyes. Alas, it's usually followed by really distrubing remarks if not speechless silence, I never got an apology other than one time, a very quiet one, from a cashier in McDonalds after I whispered it to him). Real attractive guys in looks are usually too popular and girls don't gets much security regardless of personality so I'do avoid them to get less annoying whispers that shame me, polite guys gets friendly treatment from me and my friends, a boy in same class as me last year, girls greets him each morning without fail and protected him from being discovered coming late to class (they didn't help other boys in covering their absence) and he was super kind to us, if boys gets less bratty we'd be nice to them too 🙂
Well, sorry but it's really all about personality for me. A super hot boy is a turn down for me, I'd appreciate their face and forget about the episode the next second. I thought it's normal but not long ago I figured I'm asexual with a couple of friends... So the body of a man don't attract me but only gets a like or an 'Oh' 😂

[insteadfew]

Why do you like men shorter than you? How tall are you? And why like smaller men?

[Rania05]

Well... I just find it cute and I'm 176 cm, it's because of my complex for never getting a younger brother or little male cousin when my maternal aunt was pregnant additionally to separating from my best friend (also a younger boy and door-to-door night) in first grade when he moved away, I just like younger men and it's already engraved in my subconscious when I noticed it ( not to the point of over 5 years younger, I'm not raising a son)
Despite my period coming late my breath developed fast and I was scared by the scanning glance of some older men when I was young and became a bit restrained and vigilant, younger men let me relax for some strange psychological reaction
Ideal type is constantly influenced through growth but mine has always been like this since I decided it

[insteadfew]

So how much shorter do you actually like your men?

[Rania05]

About 4 to 12 centimeters

[insteadfew]

Even 12 cms short? That's huge difference, no?

[Rania05]

It's fine with me, even my first crush was around 8 to 12 centimeters shorter than me

[insteadfew]

Glad there are tall women who don't mind and even like short men... or else it would be so difficult for short men

[LilyoftheLake]

Have you met a girl on her period? We're very VERY human then... We bleed, hunger, thirst, get horny, angry, and cry.

Frankly men seem to just be so... rough. It's like the fabric of reality is physically trying to crush them. And they... just deal with it? It makes me think of the tale of Atlas.

From an art perspective, long hair and curves deflect tension, make everything emotionally softer in the painting. Men don't have any of that - everything is hard lines, rigid and immovable. It's... powerful. And intimidating.

Suits enhance that rigidity, and frankly, it's what I find attractive in men.

[AmandaYVR]

Wow that is quite the answer. 🎯

[insteadfew]

What exactly do you mean " Frankly men seem to just be so... rough. It's like the fabric of reality is physically trying to crush them. And they... just deal with it? It makes me think of the tale of Atlas."?

[LilyoftheLake]

It's kind of hard to describe. They're rugged, and they have grit.
A friend once told me about grit. Essentially, when things get down to it, for example, in a fight, there are two responses that can happen every time you take a hit (a REAL fight, not just martial arts or MMO). 1 - You surrender. Stop fighting. Run. Any of those things. 2. You hit them back harder.

As a fight goes on, it becomes more and more intense along those two lines. It's a bit like a game of chicken, with your physical health and life on the line. The longer you stay, the more damage you take.

I don't know how much grit others have, but from what I've seen, men seem to have more. The moment I get hit - and I mean SLAMMED - I stop. I freeze, I stop fighting and hope that it doesn't happen again. Men seem to fight back all the way to their death.

[insteadfew]

So it means men are more violent and more beastly... that's negative thing

[LilyoftheLake]

Look, a beast can protect me when things get down to it. If he was just sweet, pretty, and soft, then when something arises - any sort of threat - he'd run or crack down. Having someone to fight for me is an incredible feeling.

[insteadfew]

But do you realise who that threat is? That's a man... so if all men were sweet innocent and kind there would not be any threat to you or a woman

[LilyoftheLake]

Not from people, no. At least, not from MOST women (some are kind of scary tbh).
To get to this point of prosperity, historically speaking, we relied heavily on men to protect us - not just from other men, but from the environment and predators.

[AmandaYVR]

Here's one woman's take. Quite interesting.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/Myzz4DeiPuU

How do I feel about men? Here's two mytakes I wrote on that.

Here's What I Like About Men

Here's What I Like About Men, Part II

[insteadfew]

Oh i do understand all that. But that's all because of men and male domination society. I guess it's because men have always been intmdated by women their charm their intelligence and hence dominated them and curbed them...
But naturally what are the bad and good things about being a woman? I guess being a woman has more good pretty and aesthetic things than being a man

[shaysh87]

honey, I will tell you something:

Women might seem angelic, feminine, bubbly, cute, caring, attentive but the reality couldn't be farther from the truth. Its just a cute act women put on. I work in nursing. This field is filled women very catty, jealous, gossipy, two faced women who would be sweet / bubbly to your face but then later on turn around and talk shit about you behind your back. There is so much bullying in nursing that there is a very old saying "nurses eat their young". Women very easy get jealous over absolutely anything and they can become very malicious. You just don't see this as a man because you aren't very social amongst female groups. Women tend to be nicer to men than other women.

[shaysh87]

Its very easy for a man to believe in the stereotype that all women are angels.

Your opinion will very quickly change when you will one day transform yourself into a very attractive woman with a hot boyfriend, with a job that pays very well. You will get loads of girls who wouldn't talk to you or will be very malicious towards you or set you up to fail.

[insteadfew]

Why are women jealous and malicious towards other women and act n behave nicely with men?

[insteadfew]

Sexually and aesthetically women are better and superior than men.. isn't it?

[shaysh87]

@insteadfew

because women don't see men as competition. Women want to please men.

I've had girls who had a problem with me existing in the same room as them because they thought I was too attractive.

[insteadfew]

Women in general like men? Is it?

[shaysh87]

Women would do anything for the attention of men.
Women have no reason to hate you.
what you don't understand is that women are more competitive with other women than men are to other men.

women would always compliment each other face to face. but behind their backs, they would talk shit about each other with other people.

[shaysh87]

rather than looking at how someone behaves , take a look at their actions.

do they volunteer? do they give to the homeless? would they go out of their way to make someone else's day better? how often do they sacrifice themselves to their strangers?

these are the biggest markers of compassion and kindness.

[shaysh87]

Most people can act kind but very few people can truly be kind.

[insteadfew]

Maybe women are jealous with eachother but in general they're kind nicr and non violent

[shaysh87]

you can't tell if a woman is genuinely kind. Just because someone isn't violent, it does not mean they are a good person. You're very inexperienced with life.

[insteadfew]

Yes very inexperienced with women

[LovingLoverReturned]

Personally, in most places I feel subject to men... that men have the power to either treat me like a queen or a prisoner. But I am satisfied with my gender and don't think it affects life except when interacting with other people... if I were to live in a forest wuth animals, it wouldn't matter my gender so long as I knew how to survive.

Do I seem like an angel to you, personally? 🤨

You mentioned emotions of anger, sadness, happiness... if anything women have more hormonal changes than men and feel those emotions more strong on average. That being said, yes we are very very human, lol.

[insteadfew]

But women have angelic physical traits lol

[Bee-Hatch]

"I even wonder if women are also humans... just different gender... and feel same pain, emotions, hunger/thirst , pain /joy etc... or they're pure Angels."


Fuck he's discovered the secret. Round up the sisterhood, we need to silence him before the secret gets out that we aren't human.

[insteadfew]

Why what

[Red-Blaze]

Its always hard to say how being what you always been is like, as it was just like that always
At times its painful and can be scary, at times it feels unfair, but in the end moat of it is not about being a woman and more about being in one place or outger I guess and how the xommuinity there treat you

But ya, just being a woman is a pain, for the period, for the birth, for not taking good care of all your mocing parts

[insteadfew]

How do you think about men?

[Red-Blaze]

What do you mean?

[insteadfew]

Your views and opinions on men.. physically and otherwise too

[Red-Blaze]

Depends on each one? each is there own person, and each have there own ideas and ideas
My over all option is that some are assholes, some are great souls, and many need to work on there self image
Physically they got a pecker..

Is that what you meant?

[insteadfew]

Many men need to work on their self image and self esteem? How so? Why?
And what do you mean " physically they got a pecker"?

[Red-Blaze]

Well physically what determines someone is a man is his pinnes/peaker

And because I meet too many man that are under estimating them self, or some that over estamate them self even that I do feel there trying to hide there insecurity with it

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Jesus this is gross. It feels like I've read the diary entry of the cringest nice guy who thought he was dating me because we were forced to share numbers for a school thing.

Women are people. Your delusions about them aren't helping you.

If you're very curious about what it's like being a woman, go talk to women. Just don't approach them like they're some weird ethereal alien.

They're people. Okay? Women are made of people.

[insteadfew]

But physically women seem so angelic... so smooth hairless skin
.. nice head hair... nice face and so shapely body... nice caring atitude and motherly Nature

[Smoke-n-Growls]

🤮🤮🤮

[insteadfew]

Why this?

[ZS007]

not everyone is drop dead gorgeous and everyone can have aesthetics, fashion, skin routines, grace, and elegance if they want. So if you want to be more aesthetic and stuff go update your wardrobe get some skin products, wax or not whatever you want and live happily ever after.

[insteadfew]

I am a male... i have way more coarse facial hair and body hair than a woman... it is the worst thing of being a male. It automatically makes men unaesthetic and ugly than women...
As a woman what's your opinion on men and male body?