Why would she lie to me about her plans to go to a concert this weekend?

[Anonymous]

i had asked her about it last week when i saw her at her work , there is this large country music festival about an hour away and i knew she went to it the last time they had it before covid. i had asked what her plans were for the summer and she claimed to just be working

i mentioned the concert and she just sort of avoiding saying much of anything and so conversations shifted to other things

yesterday i was talking to one of her close girlfriend's about the same concert and she told me that she is for sure going and has been planning to go for some time with some girlfriend's she knew from college ( who i don't know as there not from here )

so basically she lied to my face about the whole thing which makes no sense as i've never even gone to this concert before , don't have a ticket and even if i showed up is like 10,000 other people so doubtful i'd see her

and i though we were friends so why would she not want me to know she was going to a concert with some girlfriend's for the weekend? it makes such little sense on any levels

[Guy13]

She does not want you to meet, for whatever reason, her college girls. Perhaps, she thinks she is protecting you from the Witch and Bitch Consortium... If she told you the next comment question would have been "meeting".

[Asker]

no i've never meet these girls , she had lived in a house near the college with them so there pretty close and partied a lot there.

still i don't see why it matter that i know she's going to this concert , a lot of people go its not a big deal she's going

[Guy13]

If you are at the concert then you would be at concert with her and girls. She doesn't want that so she doesn't want to encourage you to go. At least it's not a guy... Trust that she's got her reasons and in 6 months-after it is clear she is forgiven... it can come up with another concert, "I would like to go with you unless you prefer the girls" Just don't mention it or pout like something is wrong.

[art84]

Sounds like she wants to be with her girlfriends.

[Asker]

but why not just say she was having a girls weekend? is that really a secret