I didn't wish my ex on her birthday but she wished me on my birthday (my birthday is after her bday) ?

[Anonymous]

So, my ex-girlfriend and I broke up more than 2 years ago. A few months after the breakup, she engaged in contact and we talked once in a while. She made it clear to me that she was still attracted to me during this period. However, I didn't make a move as I was not ready to get back with someone who just broke my heart. So, a few months back around march and April, I tried calling her as usual, but she wouldn't answer my calls nor reach back via text. I called 3 times over a span of 1 month and all I got was dead silence and basically, she ghosted me all of a sudden. So, I gave up and stopped trying to contact her and basically gave her what she wanted and got busy with my life. After a couple of months of this, I didn't wish her on her birthday, but I got a birthday wish from her on my birthday (which I didn't expect at all) which was around 2 months after her birthday. Why would she do what she did? Ghosted me. I gave her what she wanted, I didn't even wish her on her birthday but she wished me on my birthday! I mean WHY? Does someone have an answer?

[PrettyPriya]

Only she knows why she did that. All we can do is guess. My best guess is that she it popped into her head and so she sent the birthday wishes because of that. I would not overthink this too much.

With all the reminders I get on my phone these days, that may have been what happened. I don't think there is anything wrong with it. Just as much as I don't think there is anything wrong that you did not send her a happy birthday.

You are exes, so it isn't necessary to do so. It is nice that you can get along and do that sort of thing, but I would not look at it as meaning anything other than her just trying to be nice.

I doubt she blames you one bit that you didn't send her a birthday message. If she did, she wouldn't have sent one to you after she already had her birthday. Again, don't overthink this. Just be happy she did and was nice.

[Bethany22]

She probably felt bad about the way she treated you, so she's now looking for reassurance that you're not mad at her.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Not reading yet... but I'm like what, she's still on your social media for what reason? Now I'll read.

So you tried to get in contact with her... isn't it obvious she doesn't have time for you when she has a dick she's probably sucking on? She wished you a B-day back despite you not doing so.

Dude, just attribute her sudden willingness to communicate at all as a fight with whatever dick she's been sucking. Pay it no mind and ghost that shit back at this point.

[Asker]

Yeah, left her on read

[D_Bone_Steak]

Good. Always remember an ex is an ex for a reason. You let them sucker you back in and it will just be more of the same. The same reasons she's an ex for a reason.

[Guy13]

Send her a birthday card and simply sign your name. Never make reference to it. She might even tear up with implication of Sorry, I was not thoughtful but just wanted to do... Try it for fun and see what happens.

[Avicenna]

She may be confused or have guilty feelings. A lot of people can't do a mea culpa.

[In_Trance]

You'd have to ask her