She's married but dont know what she's trying to do?

[Anonymous]

Hello,

Use to have a crush on this girl for good 3 years, she also use to like me im guessing as she use to speak to me and touch my hand but we rarely spoke because i was too shy and nothing ever come with it also we have different religous beliefs so would be hard to get anywhere with this with parents anyway.

But recently after 5 years or soo not ever seeing her around she started to work at the same place different departments so never have to really talk to her which is good but seeing her brought feelings back, it has been good 2 years we haven't actually said hello or spoken to each other but she would come to the same room rarely like to use a printer, have caught eyes with her once and she smiled probably means nothing, what is she trying to do i think she got married as well last year obviously religious beliefs would mean nothing would ever work out anyway between us.

Would the best option be just quit this job so the feelings go away as she is married and also why would you join the same workplace or was it just by accident or was it because she saw my name on the website before she joined and what is she trying to do as i dont get it as she recently married?

Thanks

[SueShe]

You assume a lot in your descriptive. Do you actually know whether she is married or not or do you simply assume it?

I would say that there is no need to quit your job because you come across a person you had a crush on in the past. That would be very silly to do, just because when you see her again after 2 years.

Just act natural and don't think of what could have been. Assume she is married and happy and don't try to ruin this happiness because of a past crush.

How would it look in your curriculum vitae if it reads?

"Left my previous job because I came across a girl I had a crush on 3 years ago".

Concentrate on your job and not the people.

[Asker]

Your totally right but the reason for quitting is its totally playing with my head and just to add that this is just not all in my head, she even recently copied the same car and colour car i drive 🤔. See if i quit i won't see her again and much easier to loose feelings or whatever it is

[Anonymous]

I am sure you have asked this before and I still you are still overthinking.

[Asker]

Yeah it made me signup and didn't realise it automatically posted it, overthinking yes probably when your copying someone car etc makes it harder

[OlderAndWiser]

You barely talked to this girl years ago, you don't talk to her now, and she is married. There's nothing here.

[Asker]

Yeah probably isn't.

[OlderAndWiser]

More productive to direct your time and energy elsewhere.

[Fuentes]

Stay away from married women, theirs Karma in that.

[Asker]

I have thats why i have ignored and not spoken too her

[Iron_Man]

Let it go she’s married

[Asker]

Yes thats what im trying to do hence its actually looking easier for me to quit my job 🙃

[In_Trance]

You asked this already

[Asker]

Yes as first time round it made be signup to post the question but didn't realise it already posted it for me