Is this why a lot of girls can't have sex with strangers?

[RandomGuy1030]

They get a release of oxytocin. The same hormone they get after giving birth to bond with their baby. Hence some girls call you "baby" as a nickname. If they get that release with a stranger and they know they are moving on that feel good hormone becomes more like torture.

The solution is to pretend you will call them back later

Yes

No idea

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And after a day or so, that hormone will have come down and they won't care you haven't come back

[Graci_e]

I mean I guess you have a point. I would never do it with a stranger or someone i wasn't dating cause I don't see the point. It's supposed to be special and it's supposed to mean something, not just given away to anyone. I don't see why it would be fun to find a random, have sex with them and then be left. They don't care about you or respect you, so how can it be good? Wouldn't it be better with someone you love, that you're comfortable with and you care about and you're actually sharing something special with? I don't see the point for it if it's not for emotional connection.

[RandomGuy1030]

Because you want the dopamine. I dont see the point in forming a connection. Just means more headache and less dopamine

[misogynistic_pig]

Casual sex is associated with less depression for men and more depression for women. In light of what is known about female intrasexual competition, especially in maintaining a reputation for chastity and loyalty, it is conceivable that intrasexual competition evolved in whore-shaming among women and girls explains this pattern.

[pers0n]

The fuck is going on with people.

"The solution is to pretend you will call them back later."...

Stay far away from the people you don't like and find someone who is willing WITHOUT DECEIT.

[UniquelyBasic]

Don't guys release oxytocin too though? lol