So messed up guys tell me your opinion on why men spoil other girls and not me?

[Anonymous]

I am a drop dead gorgeous girl who has it all wit, looks, and incredible body, I want to be spoiled, any time I tell a man that they do the exact opposite, call me a gold digger, a fake, a user, and none of them can do bare minimum for me, in fact they are asking me for money for sex and my friendship assuming I make all this cash, when I don’t, no one ever gave me an opportunity I had to earn it from the bottom. Makes me angry all the people I know just giving money and serving other girls... what the fu ck? ... being helpful. And kind gets you no where. They don’t deserve it, they just give lots of their money and time and love to other woman that don’t even look any where near my level they are not as pretty as me or don’t have a personality like me, In fact I have men asking me for money as if I was an ugly desperate girl when that’s nothing of me Ian classic example of them taking advantage of my kindness.. Worst off any time I ask them for help or money they leave me on seen. I am an idiot they would never do that for me if I ask for help the only thing I get told is not my responsibility, your not a queen your a whore? A whore of ducking what? Why haven’t you slept with me then? .. Men want what they invest in, how come no one is investing in me? Assuming I have all this money I don’t. I work my ass off and every job fired me cause the bosses hit on me and try to make it my problem or I backed talked Cause I didn’t like being disrespected and that got me fired. Any time I neee support men waste my time and get this ! I earn it I’m willing to earn it and they still fucking play me Wow, and here men are giving girls money without them earning it and these woman look no where near my level. I am so confused.

[Summeroflove]

Maybe those women are after more then being spoiled. There is some really beautiful women who are also just wonderful human beings inside as well.


I’m not saying you are. Guys who just want sex want sex…. So are girls who are like that.


To be honest. I just think you haven’t found the right one. If you’re a good woman I am sure you’ll find your soulmate all in time. You’re never going to be what all men want even if you are drop dead gorgeous.


You seem to be the one begging men for money though so you’re no better then the men begging you. I don’t know what some peoples problems are… I don’t but




Some men also…. They just give everything to a woman. Get nothing in return. But those men are so desperate for sex…. That’s all they get if even that sometimes. Those men are pathetic as the girls who use them are.

[Asker]

get this im not EVEN begging them... Everything i earn, with hard work and guts.

[Summeroflove]

Then keep working hard and when it comes the right time. The right guy will come around.

[Summeroflove]

Good I’m glad you’re working hard like a normal person

[Asker]

normal? not so sure about that part, i do talk radio shows, make original albums, mix and master my own music, make my own music videos, direct my own movies, create content, part time influencer, a out of this world artist, narrate books, 6 years of college, do theater plays , nothing was handed to me, i did it all by myself, there is no problem ever for setting my standard up there, i rarely have time for myself, you can see why i would like help.

[Asker]

And there is NO such thing as a "good woman" we are all flawed to a certain degree, and there is none that is good the lord says himself.

[Summeroflove]

Yeah we are all flawed. We aren’t perfect. But most of are are decent human beings

[Summeroflove]

I’m by no means perfect netkjer is anyone else I know. But the thing of it is…. They’re good people

[Summeroflove]

Well I’m glad you have worked so hard…. I think you would think that’s a good thing…. But if you’re just gonna complain about it

You can have high standards… But you can’t force a man to love you. They have standards too you know?

[Summeroflove]

I’m not telling you who you can or can’t date…. But they don’t have to date you. The same as you don’t have to date someone else.

You worked hard for what you have. Yet all you wanna do is bitch and complain about it. Many good men don’t like entitled women…. They just don’t

[ohsheeT]

When a guy ask you out and he starts dating you he wants to get to know you in detail the last thing that a man wants to hear is everything that you want and how you want to be spoiled let him figure out how he wants to spoil you it's his idea not your idea before he even gets to know you you're telling him how to like you treat you let it just happen you'll get a lot further

[Asker]

nah i believe standards from boths sides should be established from the beginning get go, that way you alleviate wasting your time and you both benefit from the relationship, i don't settle i only go for what i want, nothing less. imagine getting with a girl if you are secretly in love with another! you are settling, i would never do that.

[ohsheeT]

No I think I must read the question wrong no I'm the same type of person I will not settle when I was way younger I would settle just to get laid and that was the most stupidest thing I could ever do because I knew it wouldn't work it wasn't going to work but I did it just to get late and after that person you see somebody's eyes that are hurt you don't do that anymore but no I could not be with somebody either and treat another person with more respect or giving them gifts or something right in front of my girlfriend no way that is just totally wrong I would not put up with that if I was a girl even

[Anonymous]

Lol didn’t have to read more than the first 5? words of your post. Easy to see why you’re not spoiled by men.

[Asker]

gonna have to disagree with you.

[Opinion Owner]

Lol you can dis agree all you want the proof is in your question. Otherwise you wouldn’t be asking this question, you d be out there being spoiled by men but you’re not.