Like when you overhear someone call someone “ugly” or “unattractive” or maybe you’ve been called “ugly” or “unattractive” have you ever questioned, not over focused on what they said but questioned, what made them call you or consider you ugly or what made them call that person ugly or unattractive? Who we are and what we do and say is usually shaped by our hearts (our soul) and since we all have been raised up differently as far as parenting, cultures, understandings of life, morals and values, what our eyes see is based off of that. So depending on what you were taught or told was beautiful or what you saw around you that made others around you go “Oh My. He/she is so handsome or so pretty.” Then when you see someone outside those standards you will think that person isn’t unattractive naturally so, even if that isn’t really the truth.
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No such thing as soul, it's only little subjective but most people finding models attractive.
https://www.youtube.com/embed/3viB3hk04V8It’s ok. This user will ask the same question next week
She asking the same questions every week? yea I saw that question before.
To a degree. Some is objective.
Hmmm how do?
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Like if someone is obese, objectively they are not as attractive as someone who is healthy and in shape
If someone is missing limbs, then objectively they are less attractive than an able bodied person
Well with that, see society made that a beauty thing but all it really is a health thing. They could truly be beautiful but you’re gonna see that person as the exact opposite of that not simply because he or she is overweight but at the mere thought to why they are overweight and still choose to be overweight. You’re gonna see them as lazy. You’re gonna see them as someone who could care less about their own self care and as someone who neglects their health. That will make you see a person as unattractive even if they aren’t. That’s why when overweight people lose weight, people see them totally different. The obvious reason is the weight loss but the tue beauty which makes them glow so much brighter and appear much more beautiful to the world is not the weight loss but the effort they put into losing the weight. Now, you know who they are and what they truly desired and it showed in the work they put in to lose the weight.
Thank you for agreeing someone is more beautiful when they lost weight
Yea I do agree I just don’t agree someone is objectively ugly because they are overweight because I see them being overweight from a different perspective beyond what I see with my worldly eyes.
No worries. You and I would see an obese person as not being desirable and attractive. Right?
Because if we can’t agree one something as being objectively ugly with our eyes.. that means everything becomes beautiful and then beauty no longer has any value
yes totes