She says nothing will happen, but notices when I don’t give her attention?

[Anton35]

A crush of mine and we are friends, when she’s been tipsy there’s soo much sexual tension.

I flirt with her but she never stops me or gets weird about it

And gives me weird answers that I feel show interest.

She broke up with her boyfriend recentish last few months.

When I try to progress it she says “nothing will happen between us”

She notices though when I don’t give her attention and checks on me when I’m down

I’m confused her answer is specific and I have to respect that

But the way she acts makes me feel like I should keep trying

What are peoples thoughts

[DaveJord]

First off, my man, you are 30 fucking years old... grown men do not crush on women, we either like her or he does not. So, remember that your 20's are gone, we are in grown up territory from here on out for the rest of your life. I say that not to be mean, or to insult you brother. But it's a mindset, you're a grown man, so think and speak like one or woman will not respect you as a man.

This sounds like a freindzone trap... and that does not happen to grown men, this is something every man learns with his first highschool crush, before he grows up and realized that is not how it should be.

Everything below this line I would say verbatim to this woman.

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Honestly, I would tell her straight out, look I appreciate you being my freind. But that is not something I am looking for from you, because I want more than just that. I honestly, appreciate you being honest and direct with me about your desire to be nothing more than freinds.

So honestly, I need to space to really think about if that is something I want, or if it is best for me to move on and explore different opportunities.

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So honestly, my man... if you keep acting like this is a school yard crush, then this mental torment you will be subjected to, and it's not her fault. It's not her fault in anyway, because it you are allowing yourself to be subjected to it. You will be like a starving man, glued to the store window looking at all the food inside, knowing you can never eat any of it. And she is the storekeeper that is more than happy to let you loiter outside looking in, until she finds a better customer to sell her goods to.

If you really want to date this woman, then you need to cut her loose and hope she comes back in her time. But if you keep giving her your friendship, for free, then she what are you really giving her to think about?

[Marklaw12]

Never do anything with her when she's tipsy mate. She's gonna claim sexual assault.

Don't wait around hoping. Go be with other girls then you might see her want you even more or not.


She's setting you up crush or not. When you gonna be with her make sure she's not drinking even water.

[WhitneySnow]

Just be respectful and wait for her to make the first move

[Zachgoat308]

Ask her to hookup (sex), then you will know the real answer


you seem like a nice guy who isn't ballsy enough

[KrakenAttackin]

She is grooming you for her simp/friend zone bench. Do not tolerate this.

[Elinnnor]

She seems very confused. You should find someone else😐

[Anonymous]

She might be changing her mind, or thinking about it.

[OlderAndWiser]

Does she act interested only when she is tipsy?