Was I molested?

[Anonymous]

When I was about 5-6 years old I was in the backyard playing with my older cousins, they had a little shop and a bread van came, I remembered the bread man asking “where are the girls?” and my aunt told him “oh there back there”, when he was coming I saw my cousins running up the stairs so I start running too they close the door and I was left outside I only made it 3 steps he was already near the stairs so I spit on him then he grabbed the back of my pants and pulled it leaving my butt exposed I start screaming and crying then he said “say you’re sorry and you’re not going to spit on people again” so I had to repeat “I’m sorry and won’t spit on people again” while crying then he let me go and I ran up the stairs and then my cousins open the door. Every time I see that bakery van I get scared.

Yes

No

Maybe

I don’t know

[MemeSupreme]

i don't think so bc he did nothin sexual (i think) but it doesn't mean that wasn't like a scary or traumatic thing. you have every right to feel whatever you do.

i just can't tell if your pants going down was like an accident or he was debating spanking you. your cousins running makes me wonder if he like was gonna yell at them for something or if he was like known to be a creep. the whole story is weird and idkk what his intentions were

[MemeSupreme]

you could ask your cousins or aunt if you feel comfortable enough by the way

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

He was older and bullied you, but he knew better, so I would just leave him alone but never forget what he did. Maybe get some counseling on this matter. I'm sorry this happened to you. :(

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Thanks for MHO :)

[ColHathi]

Hmm, I think you could argue that it's bordering on child abuse maybe, but based on the story, it doesn't sound like it was anything sexual 🤔 Still, that sucks.

[Anonymous]

No, but he had no right spanking you in the first place.

[SweetDripp]

What? Who said anything about spanking?

[zagor]

Weird, but nothing sexual.

[InspireGlow678]

Yes, in sorry. That's terrible

[strateguy632]

2nd,