Why are Redditor guys so mean about my appearance?

[CoolCatMar1]

Everytime i post it just gets worse and other girls don't get that much hate ONLY compliments on the subreddits i post. Also not every beautiful woman is a VS angel even if she is as attractive as them

Also i am not from America and Can't afford America sooo yeah byeee😎

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3 mo

Y'all who claim i am rude to other women are delusional af.

Not to mention hiw many times i have given compliments to girls on this site. Stay mad

[lightbulb27]

If you take a work of art and put it in bad lighting, it won't look so good, maybe look completely different. Point being... the light cast makes a difference in perception. I'm not only talking about the light in the photo... I'm talking about the light from within that comes out.

I'd bet if you found a way to project your inner self in a better light, you'd get much better comments, probably 8-10. As it is, you project some kind of modeling "stone face". If you are really feeling hopeless at heart and disillusioned, then it's coming out and I suspect they see that.

We don't see ourselves very well, there's reasons for that, there are all sorts of distortions for what we see is a projection from within. That's well studied, want to know about it more, lmk.

There are average women that go from average to high quickly. Some that are physically stunning go from high to mid or low based upon their emotion.

Advice: seek Jesus inside, go from there. Patient heal thy wounds. at a minimum, smile.

You are not what has been thrown at you, you are more so... what you believe.

[CoolCatMar1]

Actually i have a serious face because i am a serious person smiling while walking would make people believe i am some Psycho LMAO

[CoolCatMar1]

I don't think you see People walked in around with a smile

[lightbulb27]

Depends... some women I know wear an RBI (Resting Bi$ch face) and they talk about it.. it's a deterrent. Can switch their emotional expression in a second. Some do, and some don't, it's personality. if you want people to judge you with an RBI, not going to go well.

You are young. I was told quite few times when I was young how ugly I was. Later in life, I get complemented in many good ways including how young I look for my age. For long time... I didn't believe it, it didn't match how I felt. You are opposite, you are getting "down side" opinions and you don't believe them. You aren't seeing what they are seeing. You have a stronger sense of self. That to me says you have a larger ego and thus... you are hard headed... e. g., hurt from early childhood.
There is nothing wrong with your look, there are women making lots of $ with less looks than yours. Your emotions though... how you really feel... another story. You fix that, the world is your oyster. As it is, you look angry and hurt.. like shooting arrows... e. g. "hate". Either your expressions are lying, or deep inside, there's something up.

[lightbulb27]

If you believe that to be true, then the question becomes what do you do. Everyone wans to put on a mask of makeup or medication. That does not work. When you have a good internal outlook, that shines outwards. Your brain will make every positive and wonderful chemical you need, you just have to give it the right stuff to allow that. It's a reward system. As I said, you are young. At your age, I knew nothing. zilch. you might as well start there and open your heart and mind. Life in general begins a-new many times, about every decade.
I'm here to help people and pass along what I gained as wisdom. You can take it for what it's worth, pick it up as a precious stone, or throw it into the abyss. It's your life. I wish I had listened to people earlier in life, but I was too hurt. Would have gotten me to a better place faster. But I got there anyways, thanks to Christ, thanks to my wife. I was one hell of a fight! Our hearts/minds seem to hear like layers of an onion... ready to hear at different times.
And so I'll ask this... what emotionally meaningful events have occurred in life so far? Those... are the things to put back in order and reconcile.

[CoolCatMar1]

I actually get compliments irl even with RBF i am just pretty that's it not everything is that deep lol

[Slapmynuts]

You're gorgeous! I'm sure those guys are just messing with you!😁

[bobalife]

Well everyone is entitled to their own opinions and honesty. You asked a question on how you look, they’re being honest or maybe they’re also incels trying to put you down. But if you know you’re attractive and confident, you don’t need a lot of validation from random strangers online unless you just want ego boost and some to most men can say anything to simp/hope for something sexual eventually. If you feel like Reddit has only made you feel worse, you can remove yourself from that negative platform by not posting about your pics or asking what they think of your attractive level. It’s more important to give yourself validation than seeking from others esp from random/weird strangers online lol.

[CoolCatMar1]

Actually none of them will ever have a chance with me and they know it no need to simp

[mandyfire98]

It's hard to tell because you have some men that if they see a picture of an attractive woman they will feel the need to immediately criticize the person because they think it'll hurt her pride and take her down a peg or two. There are ridiculously beautiful actresses and models that get the same treatment on Instagram or twitter.

You are always very pretty.
Don't let people get to you. They're mainly trolling you because they don't like that you posted a pic of yourself.

[CoolCatMar1]

Exactly not to mention on an am i ugly subreddit 💀

[CoolCatMar1]

Tbh the People who DM me say they are incels or People who like to drag people down

[mandyfire98]

Well there ya go. If they're admitting in DMs they are incels then they have an agenda. You gotta remember those people are the most pathetic people on the internet. So don't let them get to you. They're attacking you because they think you are pretty but know they'll never have anyone like you. That's how incels act.

[CoolCatMar1]

Yeah i understand

[CoolCatMar1]

Could u text me. pls

[mandyfire98]

I can

[EnglishArtsteacher]

Because you asked the question on a Subreddit titled r/amiuglyBrutallyHonest, so the people on there (both guys, and girls) are going to be brutally honest.

With that being said, most Reddit males do tend to be hateful towards women, because many of them are mad about the fact they're single, and not getting laid. It's sad, but true. I would doubt if most of them were in your age group because males your age are assholes for the most part.

I'm sorry you have to endure this. You look fine! I would recommend staying out of that Subreddit.

[Asad1ONE1]

Sad but maybe true.

[JustinTheGreat]

Well first off, you’re in a Reddit that’s literally called “am I ugly, brutally honest.” So that’s what they’re doing…they’re being brutally honest with you. Thats what you signed up for. If you can’t handle the heat, get out the kitchen.

And second of all, if your attitude on that Reddit is anything like it is on here, that’s not helping your case either. You tend to bring down other women to lift yourself up… always commenting on other women’s appearance cause you view yourself as more attractive.
So maybe their comments is what you need to humble yourself a bit…

[CoolCatMar1]

I never brought down anyone here nor on Reddit if you view me that way i don't really care LMAO

[JustinTheGreat]

Maybe I’m hallucinating then because I definitely remember a few times you’ve been unnecessarily rude to other women about their appearance lol

[CoolCatMar1]

I never have been if you think that's rude u are delusional. Also it doesn't mean i am comparing me to them. You must be doing tuat if you think i do that LMAO gtfo

[JustinTheGreat]

I don't know girly pop lol
You come off as so cocky cause you “know you’re attractive” but you have to constantly seek validation from everyone. If you’re as confident with your looks as you claim to be, you wouldn’t care so much about strangers opinions on you

[Asad1ONE1]

Chill she just wants to know stop hurting feelings we are all people with feelings here. Chill 🤗

[CoolCatMar1]

Sorry for not glazing people's looks like everyone else does. Sorry but in my opinion those girls or men are not attractive lol. I just know what is beautiful and what is not. If yoy don't think i am attracive I don't really care but I DON'T GLAZE PEOPLE because i am not delusional to say eveyone is beautiful when they have a huge nose, asymmetrical eyes , bad posture and awful bodies sorry.

[CoolCatMar1]

If truth hurts and u hate me for being honest i don't give a damn adios

[JustinTheGreat]

You just care about physical appearance way too much. Both others and your own.
you're defending yourself and the way you judge peoples appearance but getting mad that others are doing the same to you even though you literally asked them too…it’s giving hypocrite lol

[CoolCatMar1]

Actually, the way they say it is obviously not the same as the way i say my opinion also their opinion is delusional. Soooo yeah. And like i said I don't compare anyone to me i am different they are different.

[CoolCatMar1]

I never said don't give your opinion the thimg is i mostly ignore the how do I look section because I don't like calling anyone mid soo yeah they could do the same thing instead of giving insecure and hateful vibes.

[jennifer_bloom]

You look perfectly fine in your pictures. I think some people are threatened by popular woman and look for excuses to lower their value o they can equalize their sense of fear around you. I’ve met people who tried to lower my social value after I rejected them cause they felt I robbed them of access to me.

[brightpapaya]

Girl you know you're conventionally attractive, why do you need a bunch of strangers on Reddit to validate you? That's what's unattractive.

[CoolCatMar1]

I will stop asking then thank u

[Levin]

Come on man. You know how it works, you upload a picture to the internet, someone anonymously says you're ugly. Gotta take the rough with the smoothe. If you want to harvest compliments, you're gonna have to accept some negativity will come with that.

[Veles]

I wonder if there's a single day when you aren't begging for approval from other people for your appearance.

[Wallythewalrus2]

You are so arrogant and stuck on yourself, I think I might be falling in love with you! We’re so much alike, it’s frightening. I just needed to say that.

[KittyKat90210]

I don't think they all intend to be mean, they just have no tact when they try to give an opinion. Some of them, though... they're just idiots. :p

[boggboss]

I'm confused u are posting on a reddit room asking people to be brutily honest then getting upset that people find u avrage?

[boggboss]

It just seems like they find u avrage over hot or ugly

[LazerBean]

Because it's reddit lol you don't need their opinion on your looks anyway, leave them alone.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

They want to make you feel less of you so they can easily manipulate you into liking them. Insecure women are easy to control.

[Phoenix98]

It's reddit lol that should really tell you all you need to know right there.

[Sevenpointfive]

truth be told. if you aren't getting naked for them then your ugly asf until you do.

[Ashley1993]

Um honestly I don't think they are not that mean.. they are just giving their opinion... at least compared to people who really give mean comments just with the intention of hurting you

[OtterMan68]

South Park did a whole episode on this: a guy who loves to troll and make people feel bad just because he can.

[SereneScribe3]

I don't think they were that mean.. They didn't say you're ugly/unattractive or called you names

[Keith469]

Because those guys are superficial assholes. It's about them, not you.

[Squatting_Slav]

Just bitter men who aren't successful with owmen lol

[Asad1ONE1]

Maybe they're jealous! Don't pay attention to those guys you're stunning 😲

[BoopBoopBeep]

Actually for Reddit that is pretty nice.

[CoolCatMar1]

They are still delusional af