Why are Redditor guys so mean about my appearance?

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Everytime i post it just gets worse and other girls don't get that much hate ONLY compliments on the subreddits i post. Also not every beautiful woman is a VS angel even if she is as attractive as them

Also i am not from America and Can't afford America sooo yeah byeee😎

Why are Redditor guys so mean about my appearance?

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Y'all who claim i am rude to other women are delusional af.

Not to mention hiw many times i have given compliments to girls on this site. Stay mad

lightbulb27 · Accepted Answer

If you take a work of art and put it in bad lighting, it won't look so good, maybe look completely different. Point being... the light cast makes a difference in perception. I'm not only talking about the light in the photo... I'm talking about the light from within that comes out.

I'd bet if you found a way to project your inner self in a better light, you'd get much better comments, probably 8-10. As it is, you project some kind of modeling "stone face". If you are really feeling hopeless at heart and disillusioned, then it's coming out and I suspect they see that.

We don't see ourselves very well, there's reasons for that, there are all sorts of distortions for what we see is a projection from within. That's well studied, want to know about it more, lmk.

There are average women that go from average to high quickly. Some that are physically stunning go from high to mid or low based upon their emotion.

Advice: seek Jesus inside, go from there. Patient heal thy wounds. at a minimum, smile.

You are not what has been thrown at you, you are more so... what you believe.

Slapmynuts · Accepted Answer

You're gorgeous! I'm sure those guys are just messing with you!😁

bobalife · Accepted Answer

Well everyone is entitled to their own opinions and honesty. You asked a question on how you look, they’re being honest or maybe they’re also incels trying to put you down. But if you know you’re attractive and confident, you don’t need a lot of validation from random strangers online unless you just want ego boost and some to most men can say anything to simp/hope for something sexual eventually. If you feel like Reddit has only made you feel worse, you can remove yourself from that negative platform by not posting about your pics or asking what they think of your attractive level. It’s more important to give yourself validation than seeking from others esp from random/weird strangers online lol.

mandyfire98 · Accepted Answer

It's hard to tell because you have some men that if they see a picture of an attractive woman they will feel the need to immediately criticize the person because they think it'll hurt her pride and take her down a peg or two. There are ridiculously beautiful actresses and models that get the same treatment on Instagram or twitter.

You are always very pretty.
Don't let people get to you. They're mainly trolling you because they don't like that you posted a pic of yourself.

EnglishArtsteacher · Answer

Because you asked the question on a Subreddit titled r/amiuglyBrutallyHonest, so the people on there (both guys, and girls) are going to be brutally honest.

With that being said, most Reddit males do tend to be hateful towards women, because many of them are mad about the fact they're single, and not getting laid. It's sad, but true. I would doubt if most of them were in your age group because males your age are assholes for the most part.

I'm sorry you have to endure this. You look fine! I would recommend staying out of that Subreddit.

JustinTheGreat · Answer

Well first off, you’re in a Reddit that’s literally called “am I ugly, brutally honest.” So that’s what they’re doing…they’re being brutally honest with you. Thats what you signed up for. If you can’t handle the heat, get out the kitchen.

And second of all, if your attitude on that Reddit is anything like it is on here, that’s not helping your case either. You tend to bring down other women to lift yourself up… always commenting on other women’s appearance cause you view yourself as more attractive.
So maybe their comments is what you need to humble yourself a bit…

jennifer_bloom · Answer

You look perfectly fine in your pictures. I think some people are threatened by popular woman and look for excuses to lower their value o they can equalize their sense of fear around you. I’ve met people who tried to lower my social value after I rejected them cause they felt I robbed them of access to me.

brightpapaya · Answer

Girl you know you're conventionally attractive, why do you need a bunch of strangers on Reddit to validate you? That's what's unattractive.

Levin · Answer

Come on man. You know how it works, you upload a picture to the internet, someone anonymously says you're ugly. Gotta take the rough with the smoothe. If you want to harvest compliments, you're gonna have to accept some negativity will come with that.

Veles · Answer

I wonder if there's a single day when you aren't begging for approval from other people for your appearance.

boggboss · Answer

I'm confused u are posting on a reddit room asking people to be brutily honest then getting upset that people find u avrage?

Wallythewalrus2 · Answer

You are so arrogant and stuck on yourself, I think I might be falling in love with you! We’re so much alike, it’s frightening. I just needed to say that.

KittyKat90210 · Answer

I don't think they all intend to be mean, they just have no tact when they try to give an opinion. Some of them, though... they're just idiots. :p

LazerBean · Answer

Because it's reddit lol you don't need their opinion on your looks anyway, leave them alone.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

They want to make you feel less of you so they can easily manipulate you into liking them. Insecure women are easy to control.

Phoenix98 · Answer

It's reddit lol that should really tell you all you need to know right there.

Sevenpointfive · Answer

truth be told. if you aren't getting naked for them then your ugly asf until you do.

Ashley1993 · Answer

Um honestly I don't think they are not that mean.. they are just giving their opinion... at least compared to people who really give mean comments just with the intention of hurting you

OtterMan68 · Answer

South Park did a whole episode on this: a guy who loves to troll and make people feel bad just because he can.

SereneScribe3 · Answer

I don't think they were that mean.. They didn't say you're ugly/unattractive or called you names

Keith469 · Answer

Because those guys are superficial assholes. It's about them, not you.

Squatting_Slav · Answer

Just bitter men who aren't successful with owmen lol

Nice222 · Answer

Well I never liked Reddit and not a part of the negative culture it has. But I think you are quite beautiful , and you don’t need America.

Asad1ONE1 · Answer

Maybe they're jealous! Don't pay attention to those guys you're stunning 😲

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

Actually for Reddit that is pretty nice.

gorydetails · Answer

lol, why do you care? This reeks of a massive insecurity to seek validation from strangers.

Zestyassmf1997 · Answer

They’re not. Also, this attempt to seek validation is itself very unattractive.

BLP11520 · Answer

Forget them dear you are beautiful

AngryCarl · Answer

Reddit is full of assholes. Who knew?

TiaNour · Answer

At the end of the day, it’s Reddit sooo

MarkPayne · Answer

You're beautiful, that's it

RedInnocent68 · Answer

Well, you are technically trolling…

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