The Type of Girl im seeing based on show she watches?

[CVNT5]

Hello Ladies and Gentlemen,

i am currently getting to know a beautiful gal
(she is very beautiful to me) that LOVES this show called "Yellowjackets" she dresses like a tomboy and says she is a "They/Them". she has green eyes and kinda golden brown hair and tan eyebrows. she is 5'4" and kinda pale with freckles on her face and I ADORE HER SO MUCH🤤💕 but i don't wanna scare her off, so i am getting to know her very slowly. i already saw potential in her as a lifelong partner (or i could be my imagination going wild). she has a degree in Anthropology and was playful with me when i met her. i send her messages on discord and she responds but does not respond to all my messages and sometimes she just stops responding. so based with all your collective experience in this internet of things, what kind of gal do you think im about to date, should i stop or keep going?

should i ask her out?

should i keep getting to know her?

should i stay clear?

Other? add your opinion here.

Updates

1 mo

My fellow Users, thank you for answering my questions, she just told me that she was seeing someone and that she is lesbian. she wants to be a good partner and i told her i truly wish her the best. mabey she might change later and i hope she comes to me but , thats just to much to ask. im heartbroken. i thought i really had a wife there😔💔

[_Maya_]

I wouldn't base much on what show she watches. It does sound like things are going well in general and you certainly like her. That is very evident by how you talk about her. So not sure why you should stop pursuing her. Just because she doesn't answer right away sometimes doesn't mean much. She's got a life and maybe she is busy some days. Have a little patients when she doesn't get back right away. That could just be a busy time for her. Just ask yourself if you think she would waste any time at all responding to you if she didn't have an interest. I know that I wouldn't.

[RavenBear0]

If you "adore" them maybe start by calling them "They/them" instead of "She/Her" they'd really appreciate that, I know it can be a little hard to get used to at first but I know when I first got used to calling my ex They/Them they actually got extremely affectionate so maybe start with that

[CVNT5]

I don't know i feel weird about it. like im pretending when there is a girl in front of me.

[RavenBear0]

While that may be true and I genuinely don't really understand it because I personally see gender as what's between your legs not what you feel like it is confusing to me, however I do know they will greatly appreciate it and it'll definitely increase your chances

[CVNT5]

she just graduated from a liberal arts school this year she is 23, i know she's gonna change as a person later because what she studied did not work out for her. i want her to be my wife in the future 😍💕

[RavenBear0]

Yea well if that's what you really want then try calling them by the pronouns they have chosen for the time being and if they change it later call them by that and they'll see it more as you respecting who they are and see you more as someone who cares about how they feel, so just try it, I know it's hard to adjust but yea, if you don't they'll end up seeing it as you being disrespectful and could even end up resenting you for it

[TheSpaceGnome]

Too early to tell, its best to be friends first, then see where it goes. If you get an "inseperable: situation just being yourselves, then you can start looking at them as a romantic/sexual/marriage prospect.

[Avicenna]

There is a lot more to a person than what some show they watch may say about them

[Iron_Man]

Keep working with her

[strateguy632]

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