I wasn’t like her ex who sexually manipulated her so she broke up with me, I wouldn’t fight her even though she would try to lure me in by hitting me in the head or having my back turned to pet our dog kicking me in the ass. She would also get in my face taunting me
if her relationship was in fact toxic, and she isn't just telling you that as a means to manipulate you and make you tell yourself you can ve her hero who shows her what love is supposed to look like, then her and the exs relationship most likely looked like this:
started out fun and and not toxic, over time, she likely did something which changed the dynamic and over time guy toxicity, his response to the woman's continued actions, grew over the course of time as well. However between moments of fighting, there were periods of time where it seemed they were good. But the bad followed by good times just continued to cycle.
At some point the cycle ended so depending on when you two met will play a significant role. If it was right away, it was to fill an emotional hole and could if ex knew about it, likely to invoke jealousy in ex so he comes back. If within few to many months, then she likely still had feelings she hadn't worked out, and she realized your just too much now and she tells herself she doesn't all this love so she resents you.
If yr (s), you had a good enough chance but it wasn't what she thought she wanted. Could have been a spontaneous thought, or could be something she contempled for a while and you weren't listening (via her actions) to what she was telling you
Not most. People that like or attract those toxic relationships is because they have most likely suffered trauma from their childhood and never healed so they think and deeply feel its normal and healthy to have a dysfunctional toxic relationship.
I know I don’t but I can’t speak on another woman but I well say I have seen some women stay in a toxic relationship
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Not most, but too many tolerate them because that's how they were raised.
She was abusive bro but you gotta move on from that or you'll be stuck forever. I'm sorry it happened to you and it wasn't fair. I feel for you bro
No. But most of these women don't know they're drawn to them like a moth to a flame. They're attracted to them, even if she doesn't like them. It's all she knows.
You need a hamster to comfort you.
ABSOLUTELY
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