My lady friend says we are off better as friends but flirting and teasing me. Whats up with that?

[TheSpectre]

My lady friend says so.
But also teasing me, flirting with me.
She clearly said we are JUST FRIENDS and that i should not get attracted to her tho.

I swear you gals are confusing. 😅

Updates

+1 y

I dumped her. She shown me her true colors after a long conversation and now, she's gone. Thank you all for opening my eyes.

[Oliverlogan263]

Ughhh girls can be so confusing man! I feel your pain. On one hand she's saying y'all are just friends, but then she's flirtin and teasin you? What's up with that? Is she playin games or what?

My advice - you gotta lay down the law bro. Next time she's gettin all flirty, you gotta look her straight in the eyes and be like "hey, I thought we was just friends? so cut that flirty crap out then." Show her you ain't no pushover.

And if she keeps it up after that, then you know she's just tryna string you along when it's convenient for her. Don't let no girl mess with your head like that dawg. You deserve way better than some wishy washy maybe girlfriend.

Good for you for dumping her ass too when she showed her true colors. Takes balls to walk away from games like that. Don't waste your time - you'll find a girl who knows what she wants and ain't afraid to claim you, no doubt. Keep your head up homie!

[TheSpectre]

Thanks brother!
I cut her off completely.

So i am good. :)

[Oliverlogan263]

Aye good shit bro! Proud of you for having the self respect to cut her off once and for all. I know it's never easy to drop somebody, even if they treating you wrong, but trust - you made the right call.

Now you free to find somebody who's actually gonna appreciate a real one like you. Someone who sees your worth from jump and ain't gonna be playing games. You deserve a girl who makes you her #1 foreal, no question.

Don't even look back either dawg! Delete her number, unfollow on the gram - she outta sight, outta mind now. You keep shining king, the right one gonna see you for sure. Just stay focused on yourself and the people who really ride for you. You got this g!

[Still-alive]

this woman sounds like bad news and drama i would avoid her from now on. find another chick

[LaurenM1997]

I’ve been trying to tell him that but don’t know if he will listen to us

[TheSpectre]

You are right but i wanna be friends too. Not dating all the time.

[Still-alive]

no don't be friends either. this chick will keep messing with your feelings and shit and then go date other dudes while doing it. just cut her out completely

[LaurenM1997]

If you want to be friends with her then you gotta accept that she doesn’t have feelings for you first of all I’m afraid 🫤

[TheSpectre]

Gotcha. Thank you both.

[TheSpectre]

@LaurenM1997
@Still-alive

Okay. And i did listen to you both. You are right. Both of you. It's for the best for me to cut her ass off. :)

[LaurenM1997]

You’re welcome always here if you need to message me or talk ☺️

[TheSpectre]

Yeah? Cool, thanks Lauren 🙃

[LaurenM1997]

You’re welcome ☺️

[DishLady]

Not all of are like that. It sounds like she has an ego and is just trying to keep you on the hook.


Many people are like that (guys and girls). Personally, when there’s someone like that I either shove them very firmly into eternal friend-zone or (if they’re “just friends” and still acting weird they get a kindly “shove off”/“I lost your number” type of parting). They can’t have it both ways. It’s very draining on you and not fair to you at all.

[TheSpectre]

Sighhh. What if i developed feelings for her secretly even i am in friend-zone and she EXCLUSIVELY set the limit?

[DishLady]

No no, my friend. Like any other wound. These heal also. Move on. She’s playing you.

[LaurenM1997]

That’s called messing with your head I’m so sorry that’s happened to you

[TheSpectre]

We are talking on phone and i even desire to go to her city and visit her. Should i?

[LaurenM1997]

No she’s already broken your heart by saying you guys are friends I would leave it she already said to you not to get attracted to her

[TheSpectre]

Not really. She said it from the beginning. I am not actually "heartbroken" tbh and I don't know why.

[LaurenM1997]

I don’t want you getting hurt so I wouldn’t personally go to where she is

[TheSpectre]

Really? Speaking from experience, Lauren dear?

[LaurenM1997]

I’ve had my heart broken in the past by a guy it’s a long story

[TheSpectre]

Oof. Yeah, not me. Never had a date.

[LaurenM1997]

He cheated on me

[TheSpectre]

That sucks onions...

[LaurenM1997]

Thanks for the MHO ☺️❤️

[Lady_Heart]

She isn't confusing, take her word for it. You will find someone better

[TheSpectre]

Yeah imma let her go anyways.

[Hellur991]

I'm glad ur awoken my friend