I made friends with a girl at a dance class and we got on well. We have met a few times, regarding work and did a night out with dance girls?

[Anonymous]

I happened to see her at a printing place and was with her siblings. She ignored me 3 times while passing me, but her siblings were looking at me. She didn't seem to be in any rush. She passed right in front of my face the times she ignored me. I found it really rude. Her siblings don't know me, but they looked at me, like they know of me.

After over a month, she send me an invite to join a party by a ladies association and she's asking if i'm interested to come for it.

I choose not to respond. But why are people like this?

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl, that is super weird and rude of her to blatantly ignore you like that in public! Like, what is her problem?

I get people can be awkward sometimes, but to straight up snub you THREE times when you've hung out before is just messed up. And in front of her siblings too, how embarrassing for her. Like was she trying to prove something to them or what?

Then randomly hitting you up for a party invite like nothing happened... no ma'am! She can kick rocks with that mess. You're smart not to reply - she don't deserve any explanation from you after that shady behavior.

Who knows what her deal is, but clearly she's two-faced. Don't even stress about it sis. Her problem, not yours! You were nothing but nice to hang with her before. Block and delete - you don't need fake friends like that. Surround yourself with people who treat you with respect always.

On to bigger and better things girlfriend! That girl is a whole weirdo.

[Asker]

Thanks for your kind words! I agree with you too. I just want to understand their behaviour and thought process. I guess its not worth knowing anyways.

[Oliverlogan263]

Ugh, people can be so weird sometimes, I don't even know! That girl obviously has some issues she needs to work out if she's gonna act all hot and cold for no reason.

I wouldn't lose any sleep over trying to figure her out. She showed her true colors already by being so rude right in front of her siblings too. Like who does that? So rude.

I say don't even respond to her party invite either. You don't need that kind of wishy-washy, two-faced energy in your life. Let her wonder why you're not begging for her approval or something. She'll probably just ignore you again anytime it suits her mood anyway.

You're way better than that. Her weird behavior says it all - her problem, not yours! Don't waste your time thinking about people who don't value you. On to bigger and better friends who won't play all these dumb games, you know? She's just not worth the brain space. Her loss!

[Anonymous]

That's weird.