Haven’t heard from her in a week.

[LINKGT23]

Make a long story short I went to lunch with my Girlfriend her 2 kids and her mom on Sunday. We was being a total b!@# to me the whole time, supposedly it was because she was PMSing and was hungry, and tired. Then she said she wanted to go shopping but that the kids were driving her crazy. So I told her listen I will watch the kids while you go shopping. So she did and was still in a bad mood because nothing fit her right… So in the car ride she was feeling a little better but still in a bad mood. When I dropped the home she said to me hey in a few hours after I do laundry and put the kids too bed I will come over. I said OK as long as I didn’t make any plans, this was around 6:00. So at around 9:30 she texts me and tell me she wants too see me, I called her to tell OK but ill see you when I get back home because I’m going out with my brother. So then she says OK I talk too you some other time. I did this on purpose because she was being a brat and the whole week she wasn’t giving me any type of attention (this has been an on going issue) so I figured I give her a taste of her own medicine. Its be almost a week and I Haven't heard from her no text no call no email nothing… I’m always the first one to make contact after we have a fallout… and next week is our first year anniversary/my birthday on the same day.. if she doesn’t contact me up by then so I consider it over? Should I just make contact with her like I always do? should I wait it out until she contacts me? Is it even affecting her? I don’t know WTF IS GOING ON OR WHAT TO DO?

[Darkfairie17]

I think you need to not contact her. The best scenario would be for her to realize what she is doing and try to stop the behavior . Relationships are a two way street, she can't expect you to be the only one to make the relationship work.

If she doesn't contact you on your birthday (which is a huge deal, I would be so upset if my boyfriend didn't say happy birthday to me) then I would definitely reconsider this relationship. It doesn't take much effort to pick up the phone and call, or at least do something for you on that day or at least plan something on an alternate day if she can't make it out. At least then she is thinking of you. But no contact is just rude!

Wait a few days after your birthday and then ask her to come over so you can talk to her. Then explain how you have been feeling about how she has been treating you. Then tell her you want out if this is how it's going to be. Because you definitely deserve better.

I'll admit, I have my bad days as well. But I don't take that out on my boyfriend. I always try to be happy when I see him and give him the attention he deserves. I am actually having a similar problem with my boyfriend. He rarely ever contacts me :( So I know how hurtful this feels!

Hopefully she comes to her senses and realizes she is letting her relationship slip away and decides to do something about it!

[LINKGT23]

I have been been a good man too her and I know she is going though a lot but she has been putting me last... so I don't know what to do? like I said should the cut off time be my bady/annysery

[Darkfairie17]

I think it should. If she really cares about you and the relationship she will want to at least contact you for your birthday. No one should feel like they are last in a relationship, both partners should feel as though they are being treated right.

[Ladyluck28]

It will be on her mind even if she makes out it isn't I no you wanted to get your own back but playing games get you no where I would see it as this from what she has told you too have no issue even if her mood doesn't say this you can either wait for her to contact you and if she as stubborn as she sound her not calling you on your birthday will piss you off and you will have a bad day or just go around there she is your girlfriend sit her down and ask her what the hell is going on ( OK maybe not so harsh) but you understand what I mean let her no you care for her a lot but her not specking to you makes you feel she don't care about the relationship and she is pushing you away ( she a women and this will work) when I guy talks about how he feel we have to listen and take it in because its not done offtern

[LINKGT23]

But I always do that and its the same s!@#... And next week its my birthday and our one year annisery which I know she was looking foward too it... so I should just wait it out to teach her a lessson..

[Ladyluck28]

well I guess the best thing maybe to wait for her to contact you but in the back of your mind think what you may do if she doesn't but don't let it spoil your birthday

[bassman]

Okay...its very simple. If she has been nothing but a complete angel to be around during the past year up until last week when you say she was PMSing...then I might call her and see if she wants to go out on a date...without the kids. PMSing is no excuse I'm my opinion for her bad attitude. If a girl has very high interest level...she will be all smiles around the guy she's in love with no matter what. I'm willing to bet her interest level has been dropping for some time and now its near the point of no return. Its up to you what you want to do..but I honestly say its over.

[LINKGT23]

No she has not been an angel.. its been lending up too this... as a matter of fact she has been putting me me last... she says she loves me but doesn't show it..

[bassman]

Thats what I thought... Hopefully you now realize its over. Lots of Red Flags. Words don't mean a thing if her actions don't back them up. I know a guy who dated a girl for a month...she always told him how he was her everything...her whole world...blah blah blah...but every time he tried to kiss her...she would turn her head! The next time you see her...you need to calmly tell her you're no longer happy..and you're ending it period. No explanation...no blaming...no fighting.

[LINKGT23]

ok... the problem is I'm sprung... I just can't seem to do it.. you think she would come around if I do that.. I know its the wrong mentialty to have.. I guess I'm just hoping she could fix this.

[bassman]

You deserve much much better. Their are some very sweet women out there who will treat you as a king. This girl is clearly no longer in love with you man. She will never fix things..and there nothing you can do or say that will change her mind. You have to get out ASAP...or you're just going be more heart broke. I don't care what she says to you...its over. You've got to be man enough to leave...and go find a good woman.

[LINKGT23]

thanks...

[bassman]

Yep...anytime

[TylerMMA]

Stop talking to that psycho bitch.