My girlfriend lied to me...What should I do?Forgive her, or leave her?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend broke her iphone screen like two months ago but the phone still worked because she showed it to me, but that same night she texted me from her sisters phone that her phone no longer worked and to text her text free app. But a couple days ago had a feeling she was lying so I called her phone, and found out it had line, and then she answered, but I hung up real fast. Then I had one of my friends let me borrow there phone to prank text her to c if maybe her phone only worked to talk and no texting, and again she replied all the texts, so that means she's lying. And I tried asking her but not making it obvious and she says she has no phone. I can't take this no more, I am planning to go to her house right now and make her tell me all her lies and tell me why she's been lying. I think this makes me so angry because she went to Reno supossedly with some "friends" even though I wasn't OK with it, and she told me that time she wouldn't b able to text me because there wouldn't be wifi for her ipaad, and know I know she had a phone all the time, and who knows who she went with and what they did.

[CrystalMinds]

Talk about it. She doesn't know what you know and she knows more about her "lie" than you. So if you love her and you wanna stay with her, go up there and talk! Just dumping her won't solve anything. Talking will, it will give you an explanation. If she can't give you a good explanation, ask her why she lied and if that is just BS, THEN you can dump her.

[NikkiAM]

I think you need to confront her, but do it in a way where she's not going to get upset. If you're really nice about it and do it in a way that makes it sound like you're not really angry, she'll be more honest with you. She knows you called her and that she hung up really fast. Bring that up to her and see what she says.

[DiEms]

I think you should definitely tell her that you know she is lying. If she willing tells you, OK I lied, I'm sorry and gives you a logical reason for lying to you (which I can only think of one or two) then you should forgive her, but if she does it again, give her the boot.

[Anonymous]

Yeah I would just really bluntly and honestly tell her you know she's been lying and ask why. See what she says and if it's somehow (I don't see how it could be though really) a good excuse, then maybe forgive her; if not, leave her

[PricelessPearl]

It just sounds weird to me.

Just confront her and if she continues to lie then you can't be in a relationship like that.

[Anonymous]

So...you want to dump her because...she thought her phone was broken? You sound really...*really* controlling. Like freakishly so. I'm surprised she hasn't left you yet.