Well for me drama is -making something that's little huge -telling everyone about it (problems of stuff...) -keeping repeating something (like something that went wrong, problem...) -ignoring an issue and avoiding someone for it (you better talk it out if you wan't to get in a man's heart)
:) please just be cool and keep comunicating with the guy yuo like. and please don't do the stuff i said :D
@you better talk it out if you wan't to get in a man's heart)
Hmm, A lot of people think 'talking' about something' = making something little huge. how would you reconcile that? if she thinks something s important and you dont and she ties to talk about it, is it'drama' or communication?
in my opinion drama is not about content but conduct if you can communicate calmly and respectfully even if you dont both feel the same about it then i would not call that drama. i do think refusing to communicate causes drama.
Men like keeping things simple. If you want to emotionally bond with someone, just open your emotions to them first and they'll respond likewise. Don't worry about being dramatic or whatever, just make an honest effort at bonding and hopefully things will work out for you.
In my experience, drama often comes from an insecure or immature type. The drama also comes from not respecting the needs of your partner, nor respecting the differences between men and women. I recommend reading the Mars and Venus books to help keep the drama low.
Drama is when a girl /guy can't get along cause they always have conflict with their family or friends.Drama is when a girl/ guy make up lies to make their partner jealous my ex-girlfriend, Crystal was drama she would come back tell me stuff her step-dad or mother said about me such as i make poor judgement, when i tried helping her (ex) feel better when she had a ear infection all i was doing was trying to get her fever under control
Drama for me is not about emotions and communication, as much as it is about using these two wonderful parts of a relationship as tools for manipulation. Just ask yourself what your real motivation is for sharing and listening. If it is only to get something like a specific response, it's manipulation, a.k.a DRAMA.
Boys consider drama like when a girl is dating 2 guys at once, or when rumors with girls are going on in school. And every single person has emotions, all my life I have been strong but when I met the girl I really liked all she did was just ask about my life and I told her everything. Yes we have emotions, we just hide them because we think the girls like it... haha
Some do, some don't. I will have to ask my gf about that...
Drama, creating crisis. If you cause problems just because you are board, or don't avoid obvious issues because you don't care to, you are a drama person. Double talk, lying, and manipulating people are something that make me very turned off and unresponsive to others. If you are real, great, lets hang out, if not, best be moving on, and find some other dishonest people to hang out with that will put up with BS.
Drama is being a nuisance simply for the sake of being a nuisance, in an attempt to get attention. It's making a situation more complicated than it really needs to be.
ok in general us men will share a problem but a little trick for all you ladies! the first conversation is normally 10% of the issue so dont press or voice a opinion and the other 90% will follow in a short time.
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drama is irrational conflict in a relationship. how you get to a mans heart is simplicity and a girl who constantly shows and tells about her love, feelings and desires thats compatible and/or similar to the guys and how you get a guy to "open up" is when the girl opens up first
Personally, I define drama as exaggerating petty things as a means of expressing disappointment or displeasure with a much larger underlying problem they rather not address directly.
lies, deceit, talking about stuff not pertinent, anything to fuck up a relationship of someone else because you want that person who you want but dont want you and fuck up the other persons relationship for personal gain. but you dont want them. (yeah Im going through it now and it HURTS!!!)
Drama is when you make a big scene and overreact over something insignificant, so you have something to gossip about with your friends. We hate it but love to hear how you feel, especially about us!
I think when a girl shows her emotions its hot. Some drama is fine. Heated arguments can lead to some angry sex which is hot too... I miss not having a girl to argue with ;) lol.
Cook good, as far as drama goes don't ask the same question in a different way. Don't ask question after question. Don't freak out over the small stuff. Simple, be a women and think like a man.
Well tbh drama would be when women ober think things and blow it outa proportion. It gets ridiculous sometimes. So if your bf says he's gonna break up wit u dont get all mad sad and bent outa shape just keep goin forward like us and if we comeback den u b a little 2 suspicious on us and we get annoyed so yeah dats a oil bit of what y'all doo
Dont get mad or sad when they break up with you? Thats just fcking ridiculous.. Believe me, guys show those emotions too. Its normal to have those feelings when you like someone and they break up with you. What i dont get is when people dont move on, both men and women.
Way to a man's heart IS sex though. Same for a woman. The way a person performs sex is their personality at its purest and if you can't connect with a person during sex then you can't connect at all
Sex has two fulfillment levels. Emotional and Physical. Physically it's not a big deal honestly, people can get themselves off that way yet they still need the touch and emotion of actual sex.
There are guys that have tons of sex...and still watch porn? Why? Because they are 'hooking up' which means that sex hasn't actually fulfilled them emotionally, it was calculated and 'scientific' sex.
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Well for me drama is
-making something that's little huge
-telling everyone about it (problems of stuff...)
-keeping repeating something (like something that went wrong, problem...)
-ignoring an issue and avoiding someone for it (you better talk it out if you wan't to get in a man's heart)
:) please just be cool and keep comunicating with the guy yuo like.
and please don't do the stuff i said :D
@you better talk it out if you wan't to get in a man's heart)
Hmm, A lot of people think 'talking' about something' = making something little huge. how would you reconcile that? if she thinks something s important and you dont and she ties to talk about it, is it'drama' or communication?
in my opinion drama is not about content but conduct if you can communicate calmly and respectfully even if you dont both feel the same about it then i would not call that drama. i do think refusing to communicate causes drama.
Men like keeping things simple. If you want to emotionally bond with someone, just open your emotions to them first and they'll respond likewise. Don't worry about being dramatic or whatever, just make an honest effort at bonding and hopefully things will work out for you.
Good luck!
In my experience, drama often comes from an insecure or immature type. The drama also comes from not respecting the needs of your partner, nor respecting the differences between men and women. I recommend reading the Mars and Venus books to help keep the drama low.
Drama is when a girl /guy can't get along
cause they always have conflict with their
family or friends.Drama is when a girl/ guy
make up lies to make their partner jealous
my ex-girlfriend, Crystal was drama she
would come back tell me stuff her step-dad
or mother said about me such as i make
poor judgement, when i tried helping
her (ex) feel better when she had a
ear infection all i was doing was trying
to get her fever under control
Drama for me is not about emotions and communication, as much as it is about using these two wonderful parts of a relationship as tools for manipulation. Just ask yourself what your real motivation is for sharing and listening. If it is only to get something like a specific response, it's manipulation, a.k.a DRAMA.
Boys consider drama like when a girl is dating 2 guys at once, or when rumors with girls are going on in school.
And every single person has emotions, all my life I have been strong but when I met the girl I really liked all she did was just ask about my life and I told her everything.
Yes we have emotions, we just hide them because we think the girls like it... haha
Some do, some don't. I will have to ask my gf about that...
Drama, creating crisis. If you cause problems just because you are board, or don't avoid obvious issues because you don't care to, you are a drama person. Double talk, lying, and manipulating people are something that make me very turned off and unresponsive to others.
If you are real, great, lets hang out,
if not, best be moving on,
and find some other dishonest people to hang out with that will put up with BS.
Drama is being a nuisance simply for the sake of being a nuisance, in an attempt to get attention. It's making a situation more complicated than it really needs to be.
ok in general us men will share a problem but a little trick for all you ladies! the first conversation is normally 10% of the issue so dont press or voice a opinion and the other 90% will follow in a short time.
drama is irrational conflict in a relationship. how you get to a mans heart is simplicity and a girl who constantly shows and tells about her love, feelings and desires thats compatible and/or similar to the guys and how you get a guy to "open up" is when the girl opens up first
Personally, I define drama as exaggerating petty things as a means of expressing disappointment or displeasure with a much larger underlying problem they rather not address directly.
lies, deceit, talking about stuff not pertinent, anything to fuck up a relationship of someone else because you want that person who you want but dont want you and fuck up the other persons relationship for personal gain. but you dont want them. (yeah Im going through it now and it HURTS!!!)
Drama is when you make a big scene and overreact over something insignificant, so you have something to gossip about with your friends. We hate it but love to hear how you feel, especially about us!
I think when a girl shows her emotions its hot. Some drama is fine. Heated arguments can lead to some angry sex which is hot too... I miss not having a girl to argue with ;) lol.
Because you are crazy.: p
Nah it just leads to good sex lol. And I like feeling like I can calm a girls emotions...
I understand babe. You are a Teddy bear. : )
Nothing wrong with make up sex!
Cook good, as far as drama goes don't ask the same question in a different way. Don't ask question after question. Don't freak out over the small stuff. Simple, be a women and think like a man.
Well tbh drama would be when women ober think things and blow it outa proportion. It gets ridiculous sometimes. So if your bf says he's gonna break up wit u dont get all mad sad and bent outa shape just keep goin forward like us and if we comeback den u b a little 2 suspicious on us and we get annoyed so yeah dats a oil bit of what y'all doo
Dont get mad or sad when they break up with you? Thats just fcking ridiculous.. Believe me, guys show those emotions too. Its normal to have those feelings when you like someone and they break up with you. What i dont get is when people dont move on, both men and women.
Drama is refusing to deal with your problems and instead going to the Norwegian wilderness and building yourself an Ice-Bitch castle.
Didn't like Frozen?
lmao
Way to a man's heart IS sex though. Same for a woman. The way a person performs sex is their personality at its purest and if you can't connect with a person during sex then you can't connect at all
You can improve your sex "skills" and learn new things but you can't change one's personality. So if the personalities don't match, then it's doomed.
Sex has two fulfillment levels. Emotional and Physical. Physically it's not a big deal honestly, people can get themselves off that way yet they still need the touch and emotion of actual sex.
There are guys that have tons of sex...and still watch porn? Why? Because they are 'hooking up' which means that sex hasn't actually fulfilled them emotionally, it was calculated and 'scientific' sex.
Too much drama is when someone don't let things go. Speak your peace and move on.Males and females.
Making anything unnecessary complicated... most men aaren't into "communicating", we want to get shit done as efficiently as possible.
Interrupting said process in any way is "causing drama".
communication is not drama. if you can't communicate in a relationship your specfically -not- getting things done.
unless you like to 'not be understood; and have people assume very false things about you and not get your needs mt. you 'like' to communicate.
Many men feel women at times want to "talk" too much about a task to the point it's frivolous and not needed to get the task done.