Do u guys like to get postcards?

[Anonymous]

(Postcard is at the end)
So me and this guy we basically know each other since two years and we started talking more after my bu but we live in two different states. Thou we spent time together over summer and he ll come visit me during December i know that he s kinda attracted to me and he also finds me interesting and pretty but i am also aware he wants sex too. I m kinda determined to make him my bf but i am afraid it might backfire due to distance..

Anyways so i dont text like crazy but we talk once at least a week sometimes more. Sometimes less. I went to another city where we studied together as vacation and sent him a postcard from there. And wrote i miss him wish he was here and then put a cat pawn at the end since we both are crazy for cats. Do you guys think postcards are stupid? Do u think i did somethinbt stupid by drawing a little cat pawn? What might he think when he get the postcard?

[Username161195]

LOVE THEM! With a cute drawing, it will be even better! He probably send you back a postcard when he receives it.

[Asker]

Oh thanks. U guys made my mood better. Cuz i generally dont think of doing things at first and sometimes get crazy upset for no reason afterwards like this thinking if i did sth stupid

[chadsten]

Postcards are most certainly not stupid! They're incredibly novel nowadays, I think it's sweet.

[Asker]

Thank you! I dont want him to think that i am stupid honestly especially i noticed that stamp was too big for the place i left empty and a little bit f writing is covered with it and also because of my idiotic cat pawn drawing..

[chadsten]

I'm sure he'll find it cute, yes even the cat. Besides, don't think anyone receives a postcard and says "What's this crap? Just send me a text like everyone else!"

[Asker]

U made me laugh with ur last sentence. Thanks for making me feel better !!!

[Asker]

i have an update..
so he sent me a text yesterday with postcard's photo and saying that..
omg i didn't expect a postcard. thanks a lot i really liked it..
this was not the expression i expected..
does it mean he didn't like it?
or he didn't care i sent it?

[chadsten]

Hmm, sometimes guys don't put much thought into the phonetics of texts. In other words, maybe his reaction was more like "omg! I didn't expect a postcard :D Thanks a lot, i really liked it!"

At the very least he is telling you that he really liked it, so again I wouldn't worry about it being negative in any way, well besides his enthusiasm levels killing your buzz.