My boyfriend got really mad because I called him once and woke him up? -.-' he can't be serious right?

[miloz]

yesterday i saw this wedding dress i adored so i showed it to him and he was so sweet saying he already imagine me in it... then he was gone so i called ONCE to check on him so he texted saying am annoying and I woke him him up and he also said guys don't like girls who r being pushy. for god's sake i called once! is he normal? am really mad at him because i was so happy with his reaction about the wedding dress then out of no where he treated me really bad ( he said some really painfull stuff). i didn't talk to him since yesterday's night. nor did he. am I supposed to do anything? am still really mad at him.

i should talk to him?

i should wait till he talks to me and fucking appologize -.-'

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oh and by the way i did say am sorry for waking him up twice! yet he didn't care and he kept on being mean

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he called, appologized and asked me out. thanks you guys!

[ThisDudeHere]

Perhaps he was in a bad mood? Unless you call him too frequently, I don't know what would facilitate such an aggressive response. Something may have happened to him.

[miloz]

well he was actually fine and really really sweet and we were talking about the wedding's dress etc. he was 100% absolutely fine. i have no idea what happened. well i call him usually to check if he arrived home but its only after midnight. and yesterday i was out all day so i did not text nor call him

[DarkxAngel20]

I think he was overreacting, and he should be the one to apologize. How is calling him once being "pushy"?

[miloz]

he called me the pushy one because i called. but i only called once.

[DarkxAngel20]

@miloz Then wait for him to apologize. If he doesn't, then try to talk it out with him, and if all else fails, break up with him. He might be having a bad day or something, but it's hard to say.

[miloz]

okay. thank you so much!

[DarkxAngel20]

You're welcome, and I wish you the best of luck!

[linkywinky]

Excuse me you can't just interrupt something as magical as sleep.

[miloz]

loool you got that right!

[Anonymous]

We don't like pushy women, just like women don't like pushy men. You have a right to be mad, since we have rights to have feelings but what you do with those feelings is a different story

[miloz]

i know but usually i only call him after midnight to check on him if he arrived home or not... and as i said were talking and he was gona which is why i called. he didn't tell me he's going to sleep or anything.

[Opinion Owner]

He's a grown man, he can take care of himself

[miloz]

I know that but i feel better if i made sure he's alright you know

[Opinion Owner]

Like I said, he's a grown man he can take care of himself... sometimes, we don't get what we want

[Anonymous]

Well I would go for both... wait until u seem it's okay.. or else let him come and ask u sorry..:):)

[miloz]

you're a guy... would u get mad if ur gf called to check on u? :/

[Opinion Owner]

No I wouldn't..! I would think that she really cares for me so she checks on me...:)

[DarkxAngel20]

@miloz Of course I'd be pissed if she called me so many times throughout the day! I have a life too! But I'd prefer her to text me instead.

[miloz]

dear i was out the whole day and he was at work. we did not talk at all! i called him one single time at night.

[Opinion Owner]

@Darkxangel she told she only called him once that's not being pushy... well if she had called 4 to 5 times then she would be irritating me..!

[madhatters4]

did you call at a time you knew there was chance he'd be asleep?

[miloz]

we were talking and he felt asleep... i told him am sorry and that I didn't know he slept... but he kept on being mean anyway

[madhatters4]

wait so you didn't wake him up but he just fell asleep while on the phone?

[miloz]

we were texting... he felt asleep apparently and i called ( i ddnt kno that he slept) so i woke him up

[madhatters4]

you should talk to him and explain that you didn't know he fell asleep. explain that you weren't trying to be annoying or rude but just that he suddenly stopped the convo. sounds like he was just pissy cause he got woken up but he needs to handle the situation better and apologize

[AlwaysBelieving]

Both of you just need to "simmer down now!"