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"Well, just because we have the intelligence to be able to use are voices rather thgen are fists"
LOL, nice spelling there xD
Really, as if there's some kind of intellectual reasoning behind screaming... >_<
Being good at talking doesn't justify being crap at fighting... The two have nothing in common.
Besides, according to whom is shouting and arguing to the point which neither of you have any idea what the other is saying the smarter decision? (That's what I've observed when women reach the same level of rage that would lead to a man fight another) Not to say that fighting is a good decision... Personally I find the psychological damage more harmful than the physical damage males cause each other when they fight. It lasts...
The difference is that causing psychological damage isn't frowned upon by the law/society as much as fighting is. Allowing women to do it a lot more. The level to which the fight is taken to will obviously differ... Like not all men are cold blooded killing machines... and all women aren't psychological bullies...
"Girls fight psychologically" shouldn't apply here anyway. It says "after witnessing a few girls fighting [physically]". I mean, you don't get physical unless you want to do damage... Especially if it's with someone you hate. As if you wouldn't want to hurt them or something...
To me there's no middle ground when it comes to fighting. I'd only ever fight if I had the intention of knocking the guy out (whether or not I could do that is another story). A last resort if you will.
Thus far I've kept a clean record :)
well you know already girls and especially women spend lots of effort and money maintaining their looks, men are so different in that, scars on our faces can look attractive sometimes and we don't have to be visually perfect, while women would be extremely sensitive about anything barely noticed on their faces, or even their bodies, it's just the traditional culture and stereotypes. So you see, they've got to be careful... an angry girl knows if she did something to the other girl's face she will get the same, while we guys don't care that much they give it a fast and exceptional and an expectational thinking. Their claws are so are deadly and they know that, it's like you're fighting with a guy that holds knives and stuff in his fists, would you want to go any further with him?
Another reasons is that, women can be destroyed only with "words", telling a secret loudly when others are around, saying something bad about her or just mentioning something that she has a complexity about, and so on... it gets extremely dangerous when it's about their reputation or behavior, so we can say they will try to look and behave classy ESPECIALLY when the alikes of you and me are present! you simply won't have the chance in your life seeing 2 women fighting aggressively because they don't want to look like that in front of the opposite sex, and they know, the other girl might start spitting out secrets or bad stuff to affect the other girl's reputation...
I know this is an old question, but I came across it by accident and just had to answer. =P
First presuming that girls suck at fighting is completely wrong. I think you forgot the word
"some/most". Most girls suck at fighting... yes =(
I'm a girl and I dedicated myself to martial arts at young age and stuck with it until now. I'm generally a peaceful person and I don't like beating someone up, which goes for most girls but for some men too. I simply love the mind peace, concentration and physical condition, my training gives me.
I can take down any guy at my level of kung fu (martial art I practice-wing tchun, wu shu, tai chi chuan...), not saying I'm the best, sometimes I can lose too. But our rivalry stays in the dojo!
But... I beat up two men... =( First time the guy was on the ground and backed away quickly. Second time I broke the guys arm and was punished by my shi fu, for not controlling myself and not only trying to pin him down, or at least not braking anything. My shi fu believed my side of the story. My lack of skill to determine my opponents condition was punished, otherwise I would have been thrown out of the dojo.
So the bottom line is: Not all girls suck at fighting. Hitting with fists hurts less then hitting with words, but we should avoid both. And why do girls suck? Because they don't train martial arts and don't have good physical condition to trow a decent punch, so pulling hair and slapping to a person like that seems like the easiest way to inflict pain.
PS. I know guys who fight like that. =P
I grew up in the hood so I had to learn to fight at a young age. I've gotten in fights with girls when I was younger and beat them bloody. I got in a fight with one girl when I was in junior high and she has a long 5 inch scar on her face till this day. When I used to get in fights I'd take my earrings off and tie my hair back and that pretty much eliminates 60% of the attacks most girls use anyway.
But fighting is really lame unless you are defending yourself or your family. No one should be fighting past 18.
Women have perfected the art of psychological warfare so we mainly stick to that. Ruining a girl's rep, making no one like her, and destroying her socially is much greater and long lasting emotional damage than a few bruises that will go away.
I've always wondered this as well. Although, I've never fought anyone other than my sisters (and I don't want to inflict serious harm on them!) While fighting is cathartic, I don't think women's objectives are to break bones or cause any permanent damage; unlike guys who may break a nose, crack a rib, or lose a tooth. We prefer more of a psychological warfare aspect. Catfights cause minimal damage, but inflict lots of emotional pain and embarrassment.
Besides, how many dad's teach their daughters to fight... well, other than mine. :D
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If it's a serious "so p*ssed I'm going to beat you f*cking bloody and f*ck how pretty I look" situation, with girls whose only thought is that they want the other girl dead, they can fight. I've seen girls slam each others heads into lockers, break noses, kick, punch, elbow, go for the throat, all that. It's scary, especially when they don't know when to stop. You're probably thinking of girls who just flat-out have never fought before and thus don't know what they're doing; obviously they're going to suck. Don't generalize off one situation.
Yeah, I know what you mean... its kinda sad sometimes,
and its not always a matter of fighting but even self defense. Girls suck at it unless they are REALLY experienced at fighting with boys, (growing up with brothers, ect.) or have had training.
Many of the girls I know, I could easily pin down, tie up and drag away...Im a 115lb, 5'5" 17y/o...not exactly a buff guy...and if I could do it...whats to stop a guy who really wants to hurt them from doing that?
I see this and I'm VERY protective of the girls I know and often worry when they go out alone or with people I don't know or guys I find "questionable."
Now being as small as I am I have people picking fights with me all the time, many of whom are much bigger and stronger...I usually win... so if I can do it, then a girl the same size could, they just need to get over the idea of being frail and do it...
Were you watching girls actually fighting, or were you watching girls "fighting"? Because there is a difference. If girls are actually trying to seriously hurt each other, they will punch and kick and actually try to injure each other, but if it's just some stupid attention whore bullsh*t then they'll do things like what you described.
fighting is almost completely pointless unless your trying not to get kidnapped or something of that nature. guys fight differently because they generally have more brute strength and are more or less raised that way. either way, no matter whos fighting, your gonna get in trouble because of the spectacle you're making. if you don't wana get in trouble, don't fight. but lets say for some reason you had to fight because some one was going to try to kill your family...in that case you don't fight, you kill them.haha but you have to be quiet and logical about it. don't tell anyone or talk about the person at all, kill them in a situation were there will be minimal struggle (so they don't f*ck up your idea) and don't leave anyone with a grudge or witnesses. but you'll still probably get caught.haha hope this helps :)
I saw a recorded fight once that was one of the most scary things I've seen, the first girl didn't do much meanwhile the second girl was completely out of control.
The girl was punching her, roughly pulling hair to force her down and when she fell down the girl started to kick furiously towards her face.
I felt real sick after watching it, terrifying, I've never seen such fight before and maybe for guys it was definately something that you don't expecting girls to do.
Girls should not fight.
I know surely that girls are more into humiliating those people they don't like, especially other girls, usually playing their psychical games all the time to show whos the better one.
Guys aren't like that, we prefer to keep it simple, and when we get it over, the problem is gone.
I think it's because the fight is more psychological. Many girls instead of physically hurting each other are more likely to go out and destroy each other until the other girl has broken down and started crying. Ruining their reputation, making them social outcasts. Lol, think of Mean Girls, that movie did have some grains of truth in it. =)
The girls who get in those kinds of fights are stupid drama queen p*ssies who don't know what they're doing. If they actually wanted to hurt the other girl, they would just punch them. All they want to do is mess up their opponent's hair and make her even more angry. If a girl p*sses me off, I won't hesitate to give her a good punch in the face. And if she pulls my hair, she's just asking for more trouble.
Girls and guys are different. They don't grow up idolizing fighting nor do they have the same self gratifying tendency to show off and beat someone up.
I saw a girl fight once and the one girl grabbed the other girl's hair and slammed her head into the wall so hard she dented the wall.
I just thought I would share.
girls don't have the discipline or ability to focus in a fight naturally, they bring to much emontion into it
the second you bring emmotion into it, your really hurting yourself
that being said there a probably a few girls at my gym who could kick my ass or at least bring the noise, its something that is learned I think
When girls fight it's normally in response fo being hurt emotionally. A lot of girls bottle up their feelings untill they explode. Some girls cry, exercise, listen to music or "talk it out". Others yell, b*tch, or fight. It really depends on the person.
Firstly girls are not naturally fighters like guys are, since evolution has made us their protectors. Also most girls just don't know how to fight so they naturally look ridiculous when in a brawl. Having said that I don't mean to say girls cannot be good fighters with excessive training, but naturally they are at a disadvantage compared to guys.
Wow that's a fierce generalization.
Okay, some girls aren't that good at fight but not all of us suck. I've 2 seperate fights where one of the girls put the other's face through a procelin sink. I personally thinks more harash than more than half guy fights.
Stop being a douche, and stop sterotyping people
In my high school, the best fights are the girl fights. They always last the longest and have the most blood. Maybe that is just my school, but they are never a disappointment in the end. The guys have one punch and they are done or just sit on the other punching the kid on the ground in the face.
bcuz well, we suck at punching it wouldn't do so much and wouldn't p*ss them off as much as pulling their hair and messing it up, making them brake a nail, and slapping really hurts lol.
um, why would you want girls to fight "properly" as you say? what is the point here? yeah, violence is the answer *rolls eyes*
the kind of girls that have catfights are stupid sluts, that's why.
You obviously haven't seen the girls at my school fight.
But have you seen those body-building women? Damn.
I wouldn't lay a finger on them. Unless they made me...
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The question is, why do you want women to be ferocious?
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