Why do guys get angry when we 'friendzone' them? (Page 2)
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seems obvious to me. Rejection hurts... especially for the uninitiated. You don't have to "feel" anything. The point is when you fail at something, it sometimes burns, especially something close to the heart
Because they think they're entitled to sex and that we owe them something just because they're "nice"
Exactly! This one guy tried to ruin my life and break up my realationship in middle school because I didn't like him
Perhaps it happens to them a lot and they are just disappointed/fed up.
I understand that. But, seriously I shouldn't become a bitch just because I don't want to go out with you.
Lol believe me I totally get that... I get it a lot.
Guys who do this have issues with entitlement and emotional regulation.
Well why do girls get mad when they get friendzoned? rejection is never fun
Because they didn't know that friendship is the first step towards a relationship.
No that's the worst. They become friends and then start pushing for more. Don't do that. Why can't they just understand and respect that I either don't like you that way or I don't want a relationship.
Ask yourself this: If they pressures you into doing something you don't want, Then are they trully your friends?
My definition of a true friend is someone who respects you, someone you can trust. Someone you feel comfortable with.
That's how most relationships begin right?
Right, but, I've never had a guy just want to be friends. They say they do but, after 1 week it's pushing for more. I do agree though if a guy could respect my wishes to just be friends, there's a big chance that'll it'll turn out to be more when I'm ready.
Yeah then those aren't your real friends. Plain and simple.
I dont get angry, just depressed, unless they have an awful reason for friend zoning me.
Could you give me an example of an awful reason.
Maybe if you did it because of something or someone he couldn't control, like if a friend or family member was weird or was too busy to see you for a few days etc .
Because when it's friendzoning, you're essentially saying "you're not ATTRACTIVE". I like you but I don't think you look good. It's insulting. You wouldn't want to be friendzoned by a guy you find attractive, right?
You just assumed that's why I'm saying it and if it is, accept it. Yes I can accept the fact that not every guy will find me attractive.
No, I don't think you can
Wtf? You don't even know me. I'm sure there are guys that don't find me attractive and I'm chilled with that.
I don't care if I know you or not, you wouldn't like to be friendzoned by the guys you find attractive, right?
It's hurtful but, you get over it WITHOUT being angry at the guy. Am I supposed to be angry at someone because of the way they feel? That's just stupid.
Yeah, because you find them attractive... it hurts when they don't feel the same way
Personaly id not mind. Nice to have you as a friend! XD
I just stop talking to them I dont get mad but honestly its been a decade since I've last been rejected.
The last girl that told me she only wants to be friends was say I don't know eight months ago. I just started kissing on her and rubbing on her then we had a three month fling and I got what I wanted.
its kind of part of the process.. first you are shocked, then you feel empty, then you get sad, angry... some can´t deal with it.
It's the fact that you put us there is hurtful some guys get really attched to the girl he has a crush on.
I'd only get irritated if I felt like I've been lead on.
Yeah I think this one causes the most angst, which is understandable in my opinion.
@DodgersGM and sadly it happens quite often.
I have to disagree it happens "quite often." I think miscommunication happens more often than being led on.
Some guys just can't take rejection. Don't feel bad. You don't HAVE to go out with someone just because they have a penis and a pulse.
Getting led on, hopes up and then annoying disappointment maybe?
I don't get angry, just don't get angry if I don't want to be your friend either.
I usually don't want to be their friend either. I just don't know what to say.
Just say I don't like you, get lost.
Then I become a bitch.
That's their problem not yours
"I don't like you, get lost."
Perhaps you could leave off the "get lost" part.
Well do you make a good friend though? And are you interested in male friends or you misunderstand them?
I'm open to have make friends as long as they don't push for more. But, that's never happened so I can't answer your question.
LOL! Cuz they can't get to score u xD
Funny isn't it huehue
The 'NICE GUYS' get angry. They're expecting your love in return for their kind acts