I never meant to hurt him?

[Anonymous]

i feel so bad that i never noticed what i was really doing,
there's this guy that i liked and i showed him interest but, i started having issues in my personal life, i couldn't focus on him any longer and also the more i liked him the more i got scared of the feeling and the more nervous and shy i became around him so i came of as aloof and cold, because i didn't want to seem weird or needy so i distanced myself from him.
IT HURTS ME SO MUCH WHEN I RMEBER BACK I can't EVEN SLEEP AT NIGHT KNOWING THAT I MIGHT HAVE HURT HIM. i never meant to act like this towards him when i like someone i would never want to see them upset especially not by me. so would he ever understand that will he RECOGNISE this fact or would he think i was just one of those girls that lead on and play games, I NEVER MEANT IT THAT WAY!! i

[Anonymous]

One thing you have to understand is that every guy in this world is different. So depending on the kind of guy he is, he could take it different ways.

He could just forget about you and continue on with his life. He could be hurt right now yet he'll eventually convince himself to forget about it. He could also grow cold to you in response to your cold attitude.

The list goes on. But either way, it doesn't look like it'll end well if things stay this way.

If you don't want a sad ending like this, then you have to take action. Simply find a time to talk to him and tell him everything. Be honest from the bottom of your heart. He might be skeptical at first about what you say, but he'll definitely see that you are serious about him.

[Anonymous]

It is better to talk and explain all this to him so he will understand
so you would not stress out thinking about it.

[andreaxo]

Talk to him? Tell him how you feel and how much you liked it. Tell him you didn't mean to hurt him intentionally.