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That "young" probably meant inexperienced. Confidence beats all, if you are sure that he was considering you, i suggest doing a walk-up.
I see, but what do you mean by doing a walk-up? If a walk-up is what I think it is, I may have already done it. There was this one time we locked eyes during our 10 minute break, he was on his cellphone and I was getting ready to walk back into class, but instead I ended up walking towards him and I have no idea why I walked towards him. It's like he was telling me to come to him, so I did, but once I was a few feet within his range I got scared and did this 'never mind' sort of thing where I ended up walking away from him and sat with a guy who wasn't intimidating.
Thats not a walk up... you actually have to walk UP to him, not walk towards. There is always an intimidation factor (guys have this more than girls) but you just have to brush it off and walk up and start with a "hi"
Damn it... then I completely messed up. How embarrassing > . < but I'm not the type to just randomly go up to people and say "hi" so, I guess I'm pretty much screwed, right?
It seems no girl is.. but you have to understand, the same thing stop both genders, the fear of rejection. Thats why we don't do random "hi"s. You didn't mess up totally, luckily for you, you are a girl, this can be fixed, easily.
Really, I can fix this? Ahh, what a relief, so what should I do, if I ever run into him again?
re-enact what i just said you should have done last time... do a walk-up
It won't be easy, but I'll try! Thank you.
Its never easy when you have to do it. Its only easy to give advice. If its gonna make you buck up a little, send me a message, I will tell you what IM going through. If not, good luck.
Yes, yes I would. But people are different so it's up to him and our opinions aren't really relevant.
depends on to WHO he said that "too young" basically...;-)
Are you saying that he was trying to tease me?
wow, if you really heard him say "weird orphan child" then wtf are you still interested in him?
hmm. well, i know i wouldn't be too interested in someone who called me a weird orphan child.
As long as they are over 18, age is honestly just a number to me.
Depends what kind of girl you are. Most likely not due to life experience gap. I mean girls at that age aren't even legal to drink, a guy doesn't wanna deal with a girl who can't wait to party and drink at 21
I can wait. I've actually never 'partied' per se because it doesn't really grab my attention. I'm the type who rather focus on school first and then try to party once I know it will be worth while. Do you think that may have anything to do with my situation? Would I come off as boring and "too young" because I actually have goals in life?
That doesn't count. That's like a guy toting his virginity as a positive because he can't get laid. Tbh, as an almolst 23 year old post grad guy the type of girl I go for are the ones that had thier wild streak and came around of thier own volition. They know what it's like and made the decision that it's not for them. That's abstaining by choice not due to fear. There's always the chance that an innocent or straight edge girl will have "church girl syndrome" where at any point she could turn out to just be repressed and go do a bunch of crazy shit potentially ruining your and her life. Have fun gain experience, make measured thoughtful decisions based on experience. Don't deny experience in the name of maturity only as a disguise for fear.
It sounds like you're advising me to go out there and get laid first before I try and pursue a guy for a long-term relationship. Is that right?
It's possible. I once knew a guy who was 25 dating a 18 old year girl. It when well for them.
I would date a 19 yr old girl if I was 23 years old. Hell I would date one now if she can handle my age. But some guys like older woman. And he must be one of them.
The girl that i have a crush with is also 19... but in my case it's the other way around... She friendzoned me... :D actually age doesn't matter for me... just express yourself and try being as honest as possible to him... Good luck tho...