lol, how did i know this would be a hot topic. Honestly, im still fairly chivalrous but it usually doesn't get you anywhere with women you are interested in, which is why guys dont bother with it
Some girls get insulted if you do that. You can't accuse guys of being sexist and then expect them to do random favors for you because of your gender basically.
Some are like that undoubtedly. Some believe in equality, but like that treatment because it makes us feel special and we treat the men in kind. It's not hypocritical... simply a preference.
I work as a IT-consultant, i am though to smile, look happy and be polite. meaning i also help old professors carry their papers. i open doors for people and generally just act happy. Know that we still do exist :)
Someone spread the rumor that women like A-holes. Then it actually worked for some people so blame your fellow women that get stuck in the "bad boy" phase.
Equality, isn't it wonderful, I fail to see the problem. Here, where I'm from, everyone holds the door for everyone, you got older ladies holding it for young dudes and vise versa.
I do it, but it seems like most women see it as a sign of weakness, or they are not attracted to it. This is why I get angry when ladies say there are no nice guys when there is...
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lol, how did i know this would be a hot topic. Honestly, im still fairly chivalrous but it usually doesn't get you anywhere with women you are interested in, which is why guys dont bother with it
There are some guys left who are still chivalrous, most of the boys I know are, but I think that has to do with Southern manners.
Some girls get insulted if you do that. You can't accuse guys of being sexist and then expect them to do random favors for you because of your gender basically.
It died cause it didn't work on women and men gave up cause it would fail.
It's womens fault. Most acts of chivalry are now seen as a guy trying to get some ass.
The power of the pussy has psyched you out.
im old fashioned and try to keep chivalry alive but some girls have that i dont need you to do this or pay for my meal attitude...
Some are like that undoubtedly. Some believe in equality, but like that treatment because it makes us feel special and we treat the men in kind. It's not hypocritical... simply a preference.
because people are starting to realise that women are capable of being independant. since i view women as equals, i won't give them special treatment.
Because this is an age of equality! You don't need help. You're equal to us.
Chivalry was something men did for ladies who had far less power and position than them.
I think it's contextual. Not every girl deserves chivarly in my opinion.
Ooh. I don't know about that. That's like saying you can pick and choose when to be a gentleman and a gentleman is one through and through.
Sort of. What about violent female psychopaths for instance?
Feminism and a breakdown in dating as sex is given freely. Bottom line, women to demand nor really expect respect from men.
Dont demand *
People started expecting it. And it didn't help guys get that far.
Sluts ruined it
Why should you respect someone if they don't respect themselves
And plus men tend to help girls they find attractive
So what's your point?
And just like lumos said do you need help to carry a pen? You're a women. You want equal rights? Go do it yourself...
Enough with the slut shaming already.
Lmao
Enough I say!
Why do you assume that sluts don't respect themselves? There's nothing wrong with a woman seeking sexual pleasure and fulfillment.
Slut shaming needs to end.
I work as a IT-consultant, i am though to smile, look happy and be polite. meaning i also help old professors carry their papers. i open doors for people and generally just act happy. Know that we still do exist :)
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Equality, so it depends on my mood. Somedays I open doors and hold stuff for anyone. If I am grumpy or in a rush then I just help the elderly.
Someone spread the rumor that women like A-holes. Then it actually worked for some people so blame your fellow women that get stuck in the "bad boy" phase.
I hate Aholes personally.
Equality, isn't it wonderful, I fail to see the problem. Here, where I'm from, everyone holds the door for everyone, you got older ladies holding it for young dudes and vise versa.
Some woman downvoted me LOL guess equality is only approved when it favors women.
its called feminism, we can hold the door open for each other, you want equality you got it
Well i don't think women.. need help with small things like pen and doors... i can understand about the heavy bag though...
There are tons of guys out there who are old fashioned you just need to find them.
I do it, but it seems like most women see it as a sign of weakness, or they are not attracted to it. This is why I get angry when ladies say there are no nice guys when there is...
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