I think my husband would be happier without me?

[Anonymous]

When he text which is rare its short and when I text him it is always short replies back but some how when everyone else text him he always replies back with long drown out answers why is this?

[Wondahwoman]

I find that the ones we live with we tend to text less frequently. Because more likely than not we are going to see them later. A few texts throughout the day are always nice, but the technology age makes us almost expect them now. I prefer to only text my
Boyfriend a few little cute things during the day since we moved in together. I feel it gives us more to talk about when we get home and see one another face to face. Td easy to take those who love us for granted. To stop doing the little things that show we care. Guys tend to because they figure we already know that they love us, that they think we are beautiful, and sometimes it can hurt. Have you tried iniating cutesy texts with him? Like how's your day going I love you?

[Asker]

Yeah but all I get is short answer like OK and nope or sweet cool that it

[Wondahwoman]

Have you tried mentioning how it makes you feel? He could be oblivious to it. Remember it's all about dilevery. I like to use the classic compliment sandwich with my boyfriend. I start by saying something I like, I address the problem in a kind constructive manner, let him know how it makes me feel, and then I end with something else that I like. For example: "I know that you always try your best to make me happy. You do a great job and I love you, but it hurts my feelings when you make fun of an outfit I'm wearing. I'm sure you probably don't mean to me mean, and you know I always want you to think I look good, but I liked what I was wearing and you can tell me you don't like it in a different way. Blah blah blah by the way thank you for putting coolant in my car for me this morning. It was very thoughtful

[MissNowhere]

If that's the only thing that makes you think like that... jeez.

[Anonymous]

Lol you're basing your marriage on text message lengths?

[AleDeEurope]

It's just his texts? How does he acts when he's WITH you? Does he look happy when you're both together? That's what matters, not some text messages.

[Asker]

Sometimes yes and sometimes not and he does weird things that make no since to me and when I call him out on it he just says I'm a grown ass man and I know what I'm doing

[AleDeEurope]

Hmm, that doesn't sound good. I think you both have to sit down and talk about this. It's worrying you, and that's a problem you guys need to solve, maybe he's not aware of his behavior.

[AlexCab]

how long have you been married to him, and was this always like this?

[Asker]

Three years and no it hasn't always been like this

[AlexCab]

Have you confeonted him with this?

[Asker]

Yeah but he thinks I'm a controlling bitch

[AlexCab]

how can you be a controlling bitch if you're wondering if you should leave him alone?

[zorro8888]

Well as we all know, a man's happiness is derived from the length of his texts -_-

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[Asker]

I don't want a divorce I just want it fixed

[Anonymous]

Oh, he'd be happier without you?

Ugh, nothing like melodrama.

Sure, I've no doubt he'd be happier without you sulking over something as brainless as fucking text messages.

[FirmSteam]

Honestly this is a problem and you need to talk to him about it face to face. You need to know how he is thinking xx

[jacwat25]

I really couldn't tell you it sounds like you might be right, but it could be that he's married to you and may feel he doesn't have to explain himself to you!

[Anonymous]

don't divorce of stupid things that can be resolved by communication, counseling and love

[Asker]

He says he doesn't feel like talking but he doesn't mind talking to other people I don't know I feel worthless all the time

[Opinion Owner]

have you considered counseling and maybe trying to go to church

[Asker]

We go to church sometimes when I can get him to go I don't know if he has someone else or not but it would deviate me

[Opinion Owner]

ask him just plainly communicate how your feeling if he's a good boyfriend he should appreciate that and try to fix it I will pray for you and I hope all turns out well

[happyday29]

If possible try to talk things out. Otherwise, this will really bother you a lot and makes you think a lot. Talk all out ASAP.

[subzero007]

weird though very weird

[Anonymous]

It sounds weird maybe