"You're very nice and a great person." - Meaning in guy language?

[Anonymous]

I went out with this guy a couple of times and now he told me that I'm "very nice and a great person". What does that mean in guy language? Is there any chance that he's still interested or is it a clear sign that he just friendzoned me?

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He has made a move on me in the past and I know for sure that he is or at least was very attracted to me.

[RexCatholicissimus]

By "guy language" do you mean English?

What would you have prefer he say to you? "You're so hot let me fuck you and stay with you forever"?

[Asker]

I just wanted to know if after this comment I can forget about any further romantic involvement.

[RexCatholicissimus]

Well, honestly I think what @Xelebrum and @theccanyon said is probably the case.

It's there, and maybe he 'can' start liking you in that way, but for now at least it just seems like he'd have a bit more fire to the wording.

It's weird how the difference between what he said, and just saying "you're cute" can come from two very different thoughts, at least from a guy's perspective.

[Xelebrum]

It is most likely that he isn't that physically attracted to you but doesn't want to be an ass and still wanted to compliment you.

[Xelebrum]

That's assuming he isn't shy. If he is, then he probably just didn't know how to flirt with you without sounding creepy and/or awkward.

[Asker]

I know for sure that he is or at least was very attracted to me and he did make a move on me in the past. He seems pretty shy with girls or at least with me, but he should be over that by now.

[Xelebrum]

Well maybe he just didn't know what else to say at that moment. Sometimes us guys have brain farts when we're with a woman we're attracted too and the compliments we manage to give don't come out as smoothly as we imagined them.

[theccanyon]

@xelebrum - exactly.

@asker , unfortunately, yes, you have been friend zoned. Unless he's very socially awkward and was super anxious and shy when he said it, using such blandly complimentary language leads me to conclude what @xelebrum said - he cares, but not as more than a friend.

[Anonymous]

He meant exactly what he said. I don't think it's a clear sign of friendzone.

[Drednaught]

What's guy language? If he's truly being honest, then he simply means that you're very nice, and a great person.

[Asker]

I mean if there's any indication if he's still romantically interested or not or if there's no such indication at all.

[SuitAndTie]

It means you're very nice and a great person. I don't think that's a clear sign of him friend zoning you.

[Anonymous]

you know guys never cheat like girls by telling you are a nice guy but i dont love so he means what he said.

[Asker]

What do you mean by "cheat" in this sense?

[Opinion Owner]

say you are so lovely and nice but and i would like to spend with you but it is not love

[dudegrt09]

It means "you're a very nice and great person", we're not aliens you know.

[HankH51]

If he has not made a move on you and is not shy, i hate to say it, but you have been friend zoned.

[Asker]

I know that he is / was really attracted to me and yes he has made a move on me, but before saying that.

[HankH51]

i think he was just complimenting your personality because he thinks that's what girls want to hear. you can always just ask him, guys are very simple.

[Asker]

Hmmm... so you mean it doesn't *necessarily* mean that he's not interested anymore?

[StickStickity13]

Deep down he's not sure how you feel about him

[Asker]

Why would he not be sure about how I feel?

[StickStickity13]

You can never really tell what they're thinking

[Anonymous]

He is not attracted to you.