Why do some guys mistake being nice as flirting? (Page 2)
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because I don't know if you've heard this coined term that explains the vast majority of guys in this world;it's called a fuckboy and they suck
The vast majority of guys are fuckboys? What's that mean?
@cavmanier do you know what a fuckboy is? it's basically a douchebag who doesn't care about anyone but himself. he's conceited, he doesn't respect women, and probably wears Nike socks-(not a bad thing just a trait they seem to all possess), the fuck part is because they walk around in life looking for anything l stick their dick into. their minds revolve around sex.
there are still good guys out there no doubt they are just getting harder and harder to find.
*checks socks* mine are gold toe lol :D That sounds like a guy that just wants a friends with benefits or casual sex. Yeah that's become more common. When I was your age 👴 *points cane* I never heard of a friends with benefits
@cavmanier hey quality socks! but ya I'm in high school and it's bad 😂😁
If guys doing that keep getting called a fuckboy maybe they'll start to feel shameful similar to how a girl may feel which can I think think would lead to men acting like sluts less often.
@cavmanier I think after all the things they've don't to be labeled this they honestly don't give a sh*t only because girls still participate in their tricks and games. where there's douchebags there are sluts it's kind of inevitable unfortunately. it's just sad to see
Because when guys are nice it means they want to fuck you. They assume it works the same way for girls.
Generally it's cause I was treated like shit most of my life by the majority of people so if someone was nice to me I didn't really understand why and assumed they like must be flirting with me
Girls mistaken this too. Guys being nice to them and they think that dude loves her.
Those are people who have been infront of the computers in the basement for far too long.
Girls do it as well, yo.
I don't know how to flirt, what flirting is, nor the difference between being nice and flirting.
I just assume that unless she comes right out and says it, she doesn't like me.
The same thing happens to me! Just in the opposite way!
We're treated like shit all the time, so the rare occasions we're treated nicely feel special -- which then get confused for more, since it's so rare.
Plus, hope.
Because most girls aren't nice to guys. When a girl actually carries a conversation and asks questions about yourself they just assume she's interested because most girls don't do that.
hmm so asking about the guy will automatically send an interest signal? what do u say most girls do? or expect them to talk about. just curious..
They won't automatically think that. It's just rare that a women will actually come up to us and initiate a conversation with us without the guy doing anything. Normally the guy has to talk to the girl first or else no girl will talk to him.
True man but I had a girl initiate conversation with me and it was just her personality she liked attention and she was never interested in me to begin with. A rare personality trait.
If you don't want attention from the male gender, I suggest you go live in a cave.
And what's wrong with that... don't you want it to be special?
What if the guys just "being nice" with you too? :D
Yeah, tons of girls are give the impression of rude and mean/ hard to get. Its sad that being nice is mistaken for flirting in this day and age.
'Wishful thinking', says my wife. :)
you tell me when you get the right answer.. lol
I usually just assume women are being friendly and nothing more.
Happens to me all the time...
because they probably have different point of view
Because if you tease or compliment and smile ear to ear it's more than being friendly