trampled under the high heels, bleeding from the sharp words of every woman who ever gave him a chance
the ones that manage to pick themselves back up grow some backbone and a pair and get back out there, taking what they want. they realized that that's the only way they're going to get it.
No, the good guys are usually the ones that lack enough confidence to talk to women openly and comfortably. They get nervous because they have empathy for girls and are not just thinking about sex.
The problem is that girls don't find guys without confidence very attractive at all and that's why they never find a decent guy - because they're not looking in the right places.
I think there are good guys out there. I can't think otherwise or I'll never get married. I have seen what a bad guy can do to a family and to a woman and I never want to be in that position. I would rather be alone than with one of those guys.
yeah I find it hard to find any. I have always been hurt in all my relationships. lately I make mistakes but I learn. now I just filter or focus on myself. like someone said, they exist but there are few.
If I were hot, I'd still be a good guy. Some people just like to use what they can to their advantage, looks included. But some actually do care about people other than themselves, even the 'hot' ones.
If you were hot and had many women flocking to you would find it immensely difficult to turn them away - that's how men are programmed. What people forget is that women are programmed to find the strongest male. We forget we are animals and this is mammal behaviour.
I think it requires intense self-discipline for men to be good and faithful and likewise, for women to resist the bad boys, as that is how our ancestors survived. Awareness is crucial.
Not really. I know myself well enough to know how I would react in given situations. But thanks for thinking you know me better than myself. It isn't hard in the least for me to be a kind courteous gentleman and it would be no more difficult for me if I were more attractive. I do have certain types of women that find me attractive for whatever reason, so it isn't as if I'm completely oblivious to how it feels to have women 'flock to me'
And if women were programmed to find the strongest male, I'd have more women 'flocking' to me than many men in my area. Much of your theory is flawed for many reasons.
good guys are out there and MANY are very attractive. You just blow them all off because you find attraction in bad guys. That is all it is. Ladies cause their own misery this way.
Good guys exist, you just have to bypass your emotional responses and use some common sense. Then you'll see all the guys you passed on... for that bad boy.
wow... drummerdude25 is truly not just a good guy he is a real amazing man.. us girls do sometimes get with someone for the physicall reason of his social status with other people... I was like that, but I gave a guy that wasn't mr. popular and he is truly the most amazing guy ever!.. I suggest girls open their eyes and stop being shallow there is for sure good guys, because I am 100% sure I am one of the luckiest girls to be able to say I have a GOOD guy <3
im a good guy. I keep getting stept on because of it. but I don't care because that's me. they are so use to a-holes they would not know a good guy if it hit them in the face. its there loss.
this is not true... there are ALOT OFgood guys out there who are not only GOOD BUT GOODLOOKING! you just have to open your eyes really wide. they are fun!
yea, I belive there is a nice looking and nice guy out there...you just hafta find them...i know its like finding a needle inna haystack but...yes they ARE out there
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trampled under the high heels, bleeding from the sharp words of every woman who ever gave him a chance
the ones that manage to pick themselves back up grow some backbone and a pair and get back out there, taking what they want. they realized that that's the only way they're going to get it.
No, the good guys are usually the ones that lack enough confidence to talk to women openly and comfortably. They get nervous because they have empathy for girls and are not just thinking about sex.
I can agree to some of this.
The problem is that girls don't find guys without confidence very attractive at all and that's why they never find a decent guy - because they're not looking in the right places.
I think there are good guys out there. I can't think otherwise or I'll never get married. I have seen what a bad guy can do to a family and to a woman and I never want to be in that position. I would rather be alone than with one of those guys.
yeah I find it hard to find any. I have always been hurt in all my relationships. lately I make mistakes but I learn. now I just filter or focus on myself. like someone said, they exist but there are few.
@Reeses-pieces777 Approach good guys
If I were hot, I'd still be a good guy. Some people just like to use what they can to their advantage, looks included. But some actually do care about people other than themselves, even the 'hot' ones.
"If I were hot". This is the problem.
If you were hot and had many women flocking to you would find it immensely difficult to turn them away - that's how men are programmed. What people forget is that women are programmed to find the strongest male. We forget we are animals and this is mammal behaviour.
I think it requires intense self-discipline for men to be good and faithful and likewise, for women to resist the bad boys, as that is how our ancestors survived. Awareness is crucial.
Not really. I know myself well enough to know how I would react in given situations. But thanks for thinking you know me better than myself. It isn't hard in the least for me to be a kind courteous gentleman and it would be no more difficult for me if I were more attractive. I do have certain types of women that find me attractive for whatever reason, so it isn't as if I'm completely oblivious to how it feels to have women 'flock to me'
And if women were programmed to find the strongest male, I'd have more women 'flocking' to me than many men in my area. Much of your theory is flawed for many reasons.
good guys are out there and MANY are very attractive. You just blow them all off because you find attraction in bad guys. That is all it is. Ladies cause their own misery this way.
Good guys exist, you just have to bypass your emotional responses and use some common sense. Then you'll see all the guys you passed on... for that bad boy.
wow... drummerdude25 is truly not just a good guy he is a real amazing man.. us girls do sometimes get with someone for the physicall reason of his social status with other people... I was like that, but I gave a guy that wasn't mr. popular and he is truly the most amazing guy ever!.. I suggest girls open their eyes and stop being shallow there is for sure good guys, because I am 100% sure I am one of the luckiest girls to be able to say I have a GOOD guy <3
@HAPPYnLOVELY Why do you girls care so much about social status?
im a good guy. I keep getting stept on because of it. but I don't care because that's me. they are so use to a-holes they would not know a good guy if it hit them in the face. its there loss.
this is not true... there are ALOT OFgood guys out there who are not only GOOD BUT GOODLOOKING! you just have to open your eyes really wide. they are fun!
Exactly! Thank you.
Are you one of them?:)
Good guys = 80% of the male population, so yes...they do exist. My question is...why do you think they don't?
I guess it's because every guy I run into is not so good =/
In what way are they not so good?
i believe that they do exist but it not that many so it's really hard to find one.
and when girls do find one they don't realize what they have and throw it down the drain.
then they want to cry and say why can't I find a good guy.
@maya0406 Exactly. I hope you don't do this too.
There are just as many good guys as there are bad ones. Looks don't always have anything to do with it.
no! my boyfriend is fantastic AND very good looking. there are plenty of good guys who aren't unattractive! just keep looking..
I would concider myself as a pretty good guy. Don't really know how attractive I'm lookin, but I'm sure not looking like Shrek.
all the good guys are your friends whose shoulders you cry on when your 'bad boy' boyfriend mistreats you.
I think so, they do exist, but I think they are a dying breed.
That is true.
yea, I belive there is a nice looking and nice guy out there...you just hafta find them...i know its like finding a needle inna haystack but...yes they ARE out there
Well, ok.
Good natured women don't exist either.
they exist, I have prooof :)
he'll find you dw
mine did