Guys, why so little faith in women?

[AleDeEurope]

This is obviously aimed towards men with little faith in women. Men who think women are evil who just wanna use them for their money or who wanna harm them.

What is it that has made you lose faith in women?

[Kylesar]

I still retain some faith in women, as I'm still dating my current girlfriend, and of course this isn't all women. Just too noticeable an amount to ignore

They haven't exactly done much to raise men's faith over the years

The whole slut acceptance culture wants women to sleep around and for men to accept them

The fat acceptance wants women to stop keeping up with their appearance and for men to accept them

Ultimately, women want to do whatever the hell they want and then for Mr. six-pack, six-figure, 8-inch bulge to save them no matter how unappealing they are

The horror stories of divorce paints marriage as nothing more than a slave sentence for men, who will get thrown out with half their stuff literally at her word, with no fault and the court at her side

Gold diggers aren't even subtle anymore

Women want to abandon their traditional roles while wanting men to stick to theirs (chivalry, breadwinner, etc.)

The victim complex has made them more abusive and violent towards men with the whole "you can't hit me, I'm a girl"
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Then we have the ones online who any complaint about women gets brushed off and shamed as being a sexually frustrated virgin, which invites and reinforces even more negative stereotypes driven by feminism into their brains

They don't want to work. They want to be scooped up and saved, even when they have equal opportunity and a school system geared towards them

Then there's this rampant in society
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Men are being seen as tools. A woman's desire for kids apparently outweighs a man's choice to not have them
www.dailymail.co.uk/.../...babies-Selfish-men.html
www.dailymail.co.uk/.../...EMAIL-investigates.html
Men not becoming fathers are now selfish, despite the fact that the view is no longer "their" child but "her" child. Whatever happens, she gets custody

Next is shit like this:
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Which shows that women have no idea what their men really want in a relationship. So long as you give him a sandwich and a way to empty his balls, you're good

The shit ton of abused double standards

At the end of the day, they just bring a wet vagina and nothing else, which every woman has

But at the end of the day, I'll be brushed off as a sexually frustrated virgin, so why did I bother?

[AleDeEurope]

But don't you think this is just a minority of women?

[Kylesar]

As I said, it's a too noticeable amount to ignore
Too narcissistic and entitled

I still have faith in women, but it doesn't surprise me that so many men have given up

[Applefan1]

Because of the way most women behave and treat men. Always moaning, complaining and treating men like shit. I have hardly even to never seen a woman compliment a guy for something good he has done only bitch. I mean you look at how most women treat men when you approch them, they find the most nasty and evil way to reject you they can, women also lie a lot, they are so sexist and throw out so much misandry and then take not responability for anything. Why would you have faith in women when they act like this?

I heard of this guy that was asked for weeks on end what he did on his weekends, one week he said "I am doing this this weekend would you like to come" and the woman went running to her boss and said she was being harassed. The boss took her side, did not even listen to what he had to say I don't think and he got into trouble.

Now before any butthurt people post on here I know NOT ALL women are like this but there are a big number that are.

[Mustachekitteh]

Normally those dudes have just seen the worst women out there. So the impression isn't good at all and ends up being stuck in your head.

[Mustachekitteh]

@skeptic007 Because of BDSM?

[skeptic007]

hun women love money and themselves

[Mustachekitteh]

@skeptic007 Everyone loves money. Just some are more crazy about it than others. Everyone should love themselves just not to the point of going over board.

Still don't see the point since the internet likes to show only the nasty things to people. Since humans love to see the worst and then go around crying that those things are the majority.

[skeptic007]

they are the majority
I use too think the opposite, come to find out what I thought wasn't true

ohh I don't love money I don't even like it to be honest cause it's not needed
yeah but girls have this self awesome complex, so they put themselves down so they get more love , so it seems genuine too other people seen it happen so many times

[Mustachekitteh]

@skeptic007 and yet there are men that dump chicks that treat them good. Then go for ones that just use them and treat them like crap. Which those people deserve the hell they are getting when trading for something shittier.

You need money to live on your own. So if you don't need it then I guess you don't mind living in a box as a hobo.

Honestly I'm assuming you've just met a lot of shitty women. That you are looking at the worse place possible for them.

[skeptic007]

no you don't need money to survive you need too work but you don 't need money
if i work a field I can grow crops, if I work on cattle, sheep, horse etc I don't need money
if i build my own house I don't need money, there I have food and a place too stay all with my own hands the issue isn't making a place the issue is the government,

I believe you most men are crap that's a fact just like most women are but we are talking about women

no actually most of the women I meet want to do good, but don't know how too, they've been hurt or abused or something happen in there life that made them, the way they are

it's the same with men, everyone is hurt so NO one has trust

[Mustachekitteh]

@skeptic007 You could go live like the Alaskan bush people.

Then they are not that good if they are letting their past haunt them.

[skeptic007]

you act like you are any different don't try to separate yourself dumbest thing girls do
guys notice it and see it all the time

it's just dumb to do

[Mustachekitteh]

@skeptic007 majority of the dudes I have dated I was the one paying for the dates, transportation, etc.

[nalaa]

I think a lot of guys have terrible taste in women and instead of taking a good hard look at themselves, they blame all women for it

[nalaa]

@skeptic007 why on earth would you send me a link to porn site?
Porn is made for men, what are you trying to say? That they choose women that resemble porn stars?

[skeptic007]

no you women love money
that's the truth especially once you get older
and it's not some but most women are like this,
they will do porn, humiliate themselves for money, yet this guy wants me too have faith in women lol

exactly porn is made for men, cause women will do anything for money so we take advantage it that's a fact

[nalaa]

@skeptic007 you know that women who do porn are not in the majority, right?

[skeptic007]

you sure tell that too ever girl on my phone
or ever video I made while fucking them
like I said there's very few girls in general that are actually good

don't worry its the same for men we just have different buttons
that's the only difference

[nalaa]

@skeptic007 and you pay them to do that?

But I mean, thanks for proving my point. It goes without saying most women don't have sex for money, but choose to the ones who do and then say all women are whores

[skeptic007]

hun have you had sex yet?

[nalaa]

@skeptic007 I have not, but I don't see how that matters

[skeptic007]

I promise before you have sex with who ever it is
that person will waste money on you, he or she will put some investment into you
it's a trade it always is at least 90% of the time anyway

[nalaa]

@skeptic007 so what you're saying is all men want is sex and then they're upset when women want something in return?

[skeptic007]

noooooooooooo lol!!!
that's basic tradition hun, my issue is with this guys statement is why did men lose faith in women

I mean it's obvious, it's all over the internet, how women act, how women think they are better than us, how women make fake accusations and people just believe it lol, I mean the list goes on, basically

women are greedy and abusive end of story, I mean I have a female family member who just got married she doesn't like him, she likes his money though lol dumbass

and than when you girls do like a guy, he's an asshole, who treats the girl like crap and sometimes beats her, but hey he's cute right lol

women are fucking retards, I see it happen all the time it's not anything new go ahead ask some of these guys they know the truth

[Raymond_Reddington]

@nalaa the exact same thing can be said about women! ''I think a lot of girls have terrible taste in men and instead of taking a good hard look at themselves, they blame all men for it'' because that's basically what you're doing. you've met some horrible men, and now you're saying all men are like that. you completely countered your argument with your own argument.

[skeptic007]

@Raymond_Reddington
dude men aren't that different we have different buttons but men are just as bad as women honestly I never separate the 2

[nalaa]

@Raymond_Reddington he was asking about men, specifically about men, hence the answer. And yes I think the same can applied to women who think all men are bad.
And actually no, I haven't any horrible men, ever. The only reason I know that men think low of women is from this website

[ElissaDido]

I think it's two sided, both genders are losing faith in the other gender. It's as if we're in a gender war or something...

[AleDeEurope]

True. I asked this same question but aimed to women a month or so ago, here it is if you wanna check it out.
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1849039-girls-why-so-little-faith-in-men

[QuestionMan]

Well I don't think women are evil I just think that I'm extremely stupid for always falling for those same shitty girls.
The ones in this video are a clear example. They're attractive but have shitty personalities and subscribe to selfie culture which I abhor.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kdemFfbS5H0

[AleDeEurope]

I dislike selfie culture too, well, the social media culture, which is basically filled with conceited people that just want attention and validation.

[QuestionMan]

It's a big problem for me personally since these girls are hot but they're so freaking stupid and have nothing in common with me. Then I see a girl that's awesome and attractive and she has a boyfriend. There's also several cases when average looking girls with decent personalities crush on me but I don't like them back. So yeah I have my reason to be pissed but I don't act like a bitch about it.

[aggressivebunny]

Because everything that I've done right in the past, has been taken as wrong. I got a good job, own place and financially stable yet they leave me for a wannabe thug and have kids with them. Im beyond jaded tbh.

There are still good men that are financially stable and have what it takes to be a great dad, but these guys are losing faith on women everyday. They might not necessarily turn evil but will use their resources on prostitutes instead. Whatever being happy means to them.

[AleDeEurope]

But isn't a girlfriend much better than a prostitute?

[ImNotCreativeEither]

No, is his point.

[ImNotCreativeEither]

Sorry asker I meant to reply to your comment.

[ImNotCreativeEither]

Ok either I keep hitting the wrong reply button or something is wrong with my phone or this site.

[0112358]

I don't think all or even most women are evil.

But I don't have faith in women being good either.

I without question had a more positive view of women as a group when i was 20, when i probably did think most of them were great. Now? Lots are great, lots are terrible.

I also don't have great faith in the 'oh you can pick good ones' thing. There are signs early on that there are problems, but if you're inexperienced, it's really hard to pick up on those signs. And to a large extent we brainwash men (and in some ways women, though in others we overreact the other way) to just do everything to please others in a relationship and expect nothing back.

It's pretty hard to read the signs accurately if you haven't been through multiple serious relationships.

[MyUsernameRules]

I don't think women are evil. I, however have no faith in them when it comes to approaching them anymore because if you're a brown or a dark skinned Indian guy, you literally have no chance with any girl, including none with Indian girls if you aren't either tall, rich, or buff. Unlike other guys like white guys, really light skinned guys, and black guys, we have to compensate either by height, money, or muscles at least to stand a chance.

[GlamFelix]

I think this can definitely go both ways. Sometimes people who have been hurt by a group end up making negative generalizations about everyone in the group. Not a good thing, but it can be hard to get past.

[AleDeEurope]

I asked the same question to girls a month ago

[GlamFelix]

Ah, I see! Neat. Interesting topic to explore, definitely.

[JRICHARDS1996]

I don't have little faith in women nor do I necessarily see them as malicious. Rather, I've simple come to view them in a utilitarian light. In other words, I no longer have romanticist views about women anymore either. I recognize that for better or for worse, girls like certain things in guys and have certain habits that really bother me. I am never going to be able to change them anymore than women will be able to change me, so instead I just have to role with the punches and be realistic.

[Kuraj]

A person who has faith in anything is just asking for their faith to be broken.
Sure not everybody is a complete asshole, but hell of a lot of people are.

Would you eat one out of 10 mushrooms knowing one of them is toxic?
Sure, the rest tastes really great but is it worth losing your life over it?

[VegasNewFallout]

When you become aware of female nature, it's hard to not hate them. These guys who are angry with women's nature are just in the anger phase, trying to figure it all out. Eventually they will just accept that women are women, that their sabotaging nature isn't malicious, and will learn how to deal with a woman's irrational, self-serving behavior properly.

[Trotters]

Being cheated on has given me a different outlook. Its made me more cautious, try to observe red flags, given me trust issues & insecure. Not saying all women obviously but that's what being cheated on does to you like it or not that's the way it is for me now.

[OrdinaryGentleman]

Mmm... well i don't think women are evil though there are some absolute bitches out there.

I have lost faith because both of my exes sucked. One was a cheater and the other was an egotistical bitch. Im just taking my time no, no need to ruin a character like me anymore until its worth it.

[Omar5881]

It seems that humaity now is torn up in some illusion, I hope we wake up and realise the jobs and benfits of men and women

[Omar5881]

A majority of us as men treats a women as an object literally specially in the west , people be in relationships for wrong and temporary reasons then men say women are devils and women say men are pigs

[AleDeEurope]

I don't think majority of men treat women as object, especially not in the West.

[Omar5881]

Maybe it differs in my concept what's your definition of objectifying women?

[AleDeEurope]

To me it's treating them like an object. Not letting them have the same rights, the same freedom. In the West they can do everything a man can... but it's not like that in the rest of the world.

[Omar5881]

The point you're talking about which I agree with is done for me, I mean it's women's right and should be done right now ( and yes women don't get their fully rights here in the middle east due to the law )
But I am talking more about like using women only for sex , be in a relationship with a women for their looks only, the idea that you every tv commercial must have a woman in it. thay what I was talking about coz women's right is something should happen already without thinking

[Dim_121]

That is kind of like asking why so little faith in humanity. People get hurt and lose faith/hope.

[AleDeEurope]

I know, and I wanna know why these people have little faith in women. I wanna know if it's abut personal experience, or just what they've heard and read.

[Girly1710]

I think they see a friend or family member get the worse deal in a divorce and then they assume all women would do that and marriage isn't worth it because no one can be trusted or something like that.

[sparkly-crystal]

Majority of the guys on gag are 30-year-old virgins who feel victimised by women for not dating them.

[AleDeEurope]

Well, that's the Internet, filled with bitter virgins who just hate the opposite gender because they get no attention xD

[astrOnaut01]

It's not that I have lost faith in women, but I have lost faith in relationships. Despite, funnily enough, never having a real one lol

[AleDeEurope]

Why's that then?

[astrOnaut01]

Most of my former romantic interests have betrayed me, and my attempts at being with them are shameful and embarrassing.

I just don't see how being in a relationship would benefit me, when I can achieve the supposed benefits on my own.

[jc1982]

i have faith in women that deserve it but to me there is a lot of self absorbed women out there that cause a lot of drama and mind games like they are still little pubescent teens.

[StickStickity13]

You see stories and statistics and it doesn't look very promising

[AleDeEurope]

But what about personal experiences?

[StickStickity13]

I have had bad experiences, but not bad enough for me to lose faith

[takumii]

Nothing against women in general, but being male you'd have a natural weakness against woman.

So why show our weak side which they are very well capable of attacking and exploiting.
Instead just go get what you want and then get the fuxk out.

[Bandit74]

I don't see why I should have any faith in them.

[AleDeEurope]

Why, though?

[This_is_my_username]

@Bandit74 jee thanks :/

[Bandit74]

I guess part of me just doesn't want to, I dont feel comfortable trusting them. Sure there are probably good ones but I prefer to keep low expectations rather than have high expectations and be let down. When you trust someone you give them the power to hurt you, thats not something I give away lightly. So by default I distrust until proven otherwise. GAG has probably made it worse with all the guys vs girls posts where everyone only says negative things about the other gender, posts where girls talk about seeing multiple people at the same time and being unsure which guy they want to go with, cheating questions and how they always seem to try and justify their actions. Also just how most relationships dont seem to last in general, I see no reason to have faith.

Also, I could be wrong, but from your posts here I've previously gotten the vibe that you dont have a lot of faith in women/relationships either :/

[Bandit74]

@This_is_my_username

I dont get why you're comenting on my post. Its not like I specifically called you out or anything.

[AleDeEurope]

I have trouble trusting. It's not that I dislike women or want nothing with them, quite the opposite, I love them and would love to be with one for the rest of my life, but I can't trust people in general, not just women.
I know most women out there are good people, but I feel like from the billions of women, I'm gonna end up choosing the wrong one.

I do have faith on women, that's why I still want them, but I have trouble trusting, that's my problem.

[BiscuitesSwag]

I don't have faith in humanity either if that counts. 😂