Guys, what's the difference between a "Hookup material " girl and "serious relationship material " girl? (Page 2)

Question

My guy friend told me yesterday that I should stop being so naïve and clueless with guys and that some of the guys talking to me only want sex.  I want to understand how you guys think. What is the difference between a woman you want to only hookup with and a woman you want to be serious with? What are the characteristics? How can I know what are the true intentions of a guy?

Blitzkrieger · Answer

A girl that i can take serious is relationship material. A girl that gives me this feeling that i can be in a stable relationship with.

With some girls you can only have an on and off relationship. These i can't take seriously. I can't be in a stable relationship with them.

Pyrofox · Answer

Being a little too girly can give off the wrong signals especially if its to the point guys feel like your offering up a "one night stand". I'd say just watch how playful guys get. And stay aware of your surroundings.

DodgersGM · Answer

The easiest way to tell is to not give them sex and see if they'll stick it out.

Infynis · Answer

Intelligence. I can want to have sex with a dumb girl, but I'd never want to spend too much time with her. You have to be able to pleasure my mind even more so than my body.

StickStickity13 · Answer

This question is hard because it depends on the guy. For me a relationship girl is one who meets my standards on all levels, morally, physically, mentally. A hookup girl really is just a pretty girl who's fun but has something that's a deal breaker

Decentguy · Answer

the woman i want to hook up with only, i'll take things fast, and i'll flirt a lot.
and the woman with i want a serious relationship, i'll take things very slow, and i won't flirt a lot, and i'll talk to her as much as i can to know her better.

hannahbanana11 · Answer

Hookup material is not wifey material, wifey material can take good care of your ass while hookup material just has a good ass!

Anonymous · Answer

Girls that don't value themselves are hookup material and girls that are confident and don't give up the goods for a guy without him respecting her is relationship material

SlightlyCrazy · Answer

Your guy friend is trying to g et you lmao. There's no difference. For me it's all either girlfriend material or not a girl I want. Your an example of girlfriend material

GoldCobra · Answer

Hookup material is a really hot girl with no personality. Relationship girl is one with a personality the guy can connect with and who is nice and caring.

Ydude · Answer

A guy who is serious will introduce you to his family and tell his family and make any to come and visit to get engaged and married etc..

CHRIS11796 · Answer

I don't care for hook-ups they're basically just girls you fuck and move on with. It's not that hard to figure out.

Other_Tommy_Wiseau · Answer

Hookup material is a nice way of saying a girl is slutty

Anonymous · Answer

Dont be deluded. women aren't any different. most have a man that talks to their heart, a man that talks to their vagina, a man that talks to their brains, and a man that talks to their wallet. all these dont need to be the same person... .

Anonymous · Answer

Well like a difference between personal prostitute and Wife

Skeye89 · Answer

U can't every guys has his own objective. You could be either or both.

JamesDylan1990 · Answer

If she's hot but you don't really like her  Hook up  If you really like her than it's just different  I don't hook up it's just my theory

Omar5881 · Answer

It depends on the girl and it also depends on the guy if he just wants to fuck anything that moves

CancerianMan81 · Answer

usually if a guy wants to be in a serious relationship he'll tell you

Anonymous · Answer

baby, are you even working? seems like you're 24/7 here

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