Poll: why do guys flirt with me when I put less effort into my looks? (Page 2)

Question

Yo! So I thought I was pretty good looking woman. (I won't provide a picture, sorry not happening). Maybe, I'm not a perfect ten but I didn't think I was below an 8 tbh. However, I never get approached when I put effort into the way I look (which is practically everyday). I always do my makeup and hair every morning, but on the days I slip up (like I did today) and have a bad hair day or go without makeup, guys usually approach me. While that may seem flattering its acually a little offensive and disheartening because I put a lot of effort into looking pretty and it seems to usually go unnoticed. So I was wondering if guys approach a girl who has a ponytail and isn't wearing any makeup more often than they would a girl who is trying (and I think succeeding) to look good is it because they either a. Find her more attractive when she doesn't try so hard, b. Feel a little courageous since she isn't as stunning, c. Find her to be uglier with no makeup and therefore, easier to woo or to have sex with😒, or d. Some other reason Ps. I am very good at doing hair and makeup I have an eye for the stuff. I dont wear too much either so its not like I come across as a cake face. I dont even wear eyeshadow or contour I just use eyeliner and do my brows most days. So I know its not that I just have bad makeup skills or that Im using too much makeup.

Walrus_au · Answer

make up comes across like putting on a mask, a fake front. no makeup seems more genuine.

Browneye57 · Answer

Oh geez, another special snowflake. :) Google this: solipsism

Anonymous · Answer

Either you're bad at doing makeup/hair and you don't realize it or they see you as out of their league when you DO put more effort into your looks.

ToruMatsuda · Answer

because we don't always want to flirt with a girl that is dolled up

Anonymous · Answer

Apparently your made up look makes you look less approachable.

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe you are less intimidating when you're having a bad hair day with no make up?

Anonymous · Answer

Because something about the not trying look is really hot hun

GinaChapis · Answer

Majority of menn prefer natural looks, that's all

sueavi · Answer

I think most men like natural beauty.

cupidkisses · Answer

they like you

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