Dick pics WTF, guys; girls? Explain?

[SassyPinkLittleRWR]

GUYS; tell me why you think it is a good idea and how often girls enjoy it.

GIRLS; do any of you enjoy them? How often do you get them? Opinions?

Personally I get them like all the effing time on Snapchat. From people I don't know at all, and even people that I have known for awhile that decide one day to send them, sometimes I thought we were totally friends and then I get a dick pick... It makes me want to not even open random snaps anymore. Even when I have a boyfriend and people know it's like they totally don't care.

[MrOracle]

It's easy to explain once you realize that the guys sending them are merely mimicking their own preferences.

Nearly all guys love to see women's bodies, and that is in no way limited to just girls they know and like. ANY attractive female body is something we're going to stop, look at, and appreciate. That's how men work.

So, many younger guys who don't know better ASSUME that women MUST work the same way. Of course, that's not true - MOST women are only interested in a guy's body IF she has an emotional connection with him FIRST. Most young guys can't wrap their brain around that concept, because it's so alien to how their male brains work.

But there is one other factor: a FEW women DO enjoy dick picks, and will respond positively to them. And even though this is relatively rare, it's more than enough to encourage a lot of guys to keep doing it - knowing it's a numbers game and that you might have to try 20 or 30 times before you get a positive response.

[SassyPinkLittleRWR]

Yeah makes sense I guess. But still it's not always random guys. It's like guys I thought I was friends with sometimes. really weird

[MrOracle]

Every guy who you think is your "friend" wants to bang you. You cannot be "just friends" with guys (single guys, at least, but sometimes even guys in a relationship). Men can't and don't limit their sexual interest in the same way that women do - our brains just don't work that way.

[SassyPinkLittleRWR]

What? No way. I have plenty of guy friends. A couple have been my friend since we were like babies and even stay the night with me and don't try anything at all so it's proof they are chill.

[MrOracle]

So naïve...

If you offered them sex, all or nearly all of them would jump at the chance.

I'm sorry to shatter your illusions, but guys are VERY different than girls, and this is one of those ways.

[Brick_]

Humans have adapted over the years to not want to be in relationships with siblings. while this is a partial genetics thing. A major portion deals with if you grew up together. As such, you are less likely to be in a relationship with a girl/guy you grew up with as a kid.

[SassyPinkLittleRWR]

I don't believe all that you can't have guy friends thing. I will even ask them if they like me and they will say no. Like one I love but isn't really that attractive basically said "I think you are pretty but we have known each other way too long so it would be weird". And we both laughed. So yeah.

[Brick_]

I agree with you that some guys can be friends. I also think that at times some guys are attracted to their friends. Both of you are correct

[PlacentaSalad]

I know a girl who does like receiving those explicit photos. She adds guys to Kik just so that she can "collect" the pictures or something. I don't know what she does with them. She's asked me a few times to send her one but I see no point in doing so.

She is a girl who likes to show off her own body, and I know she has sent nudes before to other men, so I guess she enjoys a man who does as well. Perhaps this can be said for those guys who share their dick pictures, they probably hope that women would send something back.

[ItsAMeWeirdo]

I heard from other sources that some girls ask to see the size and then if it's small they share it around school so they can laugh at the boy for how small it is. Some like to masturbste to it. And some girls don't like it because its similar to flashing

[SassyPinkLittleRWR]

O I really love that idea. I should totes do that. That is what a bad bitch would do haha

[ItsAMeWeirdo]

Oh my you shouldn't that's mean. I'm talking about the spreading around school. If your not I don't know what your talking about

[SassyPinkLittleRWR]

Yeah that! Haha. Why is it mean if they are sexually assaulting you by sending unwanted dick pics? Sounds like justice to me.

[ItsAMeWeirdo]

Well yeah the s that's different but if you ask for it then that's different.

[SassyPinkLittleRWR]

True! I wouldn't ask.

[meandane]

I get them wayyyy too often. And I don't know if men think "she'll probably appreciate this and be so horny at the sight of my dick" or what the hell is going on. Haven't they gotten enough negative reactions to just stop it, like wth.

[SassyPinkLittleRWR]

I know for real! I was wondering if some girls did like it or something because if it doesn't work why the heck would they keep doing it? Like I get one once every couple days at least.

[meandane]

Apparently it works sometimes. I just have a really hard time imagining who on earth would like pictures of someones dick? I know a lot of men take pride in there manparts, but really, they aren't exactly aesthetic.

[8plusInches]

honestly I'd want the girls honest opinion on my dick. girls lie so much to guys about size, I've had 2 girls tell me I was small, one I'm not sure if she completely understand English though? I've had a decent amount of girls say I was average or medium, I've had the majority of girls say I was big, then I've had some of girls say i was huge or a pornstar. and lots of girls say im the biggest they ever had. and had both black and white girls say my dicks big for a white guy. so shit you girls are basically experts on size so who better to ask if I can get an honest answer

[meandane]

Good for you I guess?

[8plusInches]

not really good cause I never know what girls are definitely lying, well sometimes I do but definitely not always

[Prettygurl12]

I do not enjoy them.
I do not get them often, thank goodness.

My fiance knows that if I wanted to see his dick I would tell him to drop his pants and show me. :P

They're unappreciated and not tasteful.

[Kaylitty]

I only like it if it's from a boyfriend, other than that I hate it lol. When guys (most) message me and talk to me normal then randomly sends it, I think or find it disrespectful.

[emrecan]

Heyy whats up

[Anonymous]

www.psychologytoday.com/.../why-men-send-pics-their-junk

A difference in gender sexuality. Guys wouldn't mind getting a naked photo sent to them by a stranger of the gender they are attracted to even if they didn't ask for it. Girls are the opposite. Men do it because they are treating women how they want to be treated.(Treat others how you want to be treated seems to be backfiring). Likewise in the gay community gay guys don't mind at all and enjoy getting unsolicited dick pics. It's just how the sexes work.

[AynonOMouse]

I've got some good advice for you. Take a shit and take a picture. Send that in return for the dick pictures.
Put the caption, "And a shitty day to you too good sir."
Ha ha. :P

[SassyPinkLittleRWR]

Lolollololol

[AleDeEurope]

@asker, please do this and then write a Take explaining the different reactions you got. How many guys were disgusted, how many ignored you, and how many actually enjoyed the pic.
xD

[SassyPinkLittleRWR]

@AleDeEurope I might haha

[BasicFlake]

People who send unsolicited dick pics are creepy little saddos. If a girl asks to see it then fine, send away if you want to. If the girl hasn't even asked for it then you are akin to a cyber rapist, forcing your genitals on people who do not want them. It is pure basement dweller behaviour and should be openly mocked.

[I_am_imPaulsive]

Because most guys want to snapchat their penis, so you can show your friends and whomever and laugh at how small it really is. That's basically it.

[SassyPinkLittleRWR]

Lolololol

[Anonymous]

I have seen 4 gagers' dicks. Depending on the guy, I like it. Bad thing is they don't just want you to see it, they want to sext too and i got no time for that.

[SassyPinkLittleRWR]

Lololol right?

[KaiserWilly]

its a inherent problem with a lot of kids today mainly because of unrealistic sexual expectations and absolutely horrible childhood discipline

[0112358]

It's arousing to have someone you're attracted to look at it and be aroused.

Since the last part matters to me I tend to only do it if I believe it will be well received. So far I think I've judged pretty well.

[proserpina]

Unless I'm dating them and I ask to see them then I'm not interested.

[mT2359]

u ask for it😂

[proserpina]

Yep.

[AleDeEurope]

You're talking about unsolicited dick pics. I don't send those because I know girls don't like it, and because it's rude. But there are many girls that do like dick pics, hence why they ask for them.

[Anonymous]

yes I do if I allow them only from my boyfriend tho when I'm in a relationship. I receive them depending on the guy I'm talking to. i received them from 5 different guys some more than others.

[Decentguy]

i dont think that its a good idea. and i have wayy more important and better things to do than sending dick pics

[Anonymous]

Its more pleasing to guys than girls. There are girls who fall for that actually. And the idea that she saw your dick, and she just wants to fuck you for that makes guys so hard and make them want to fuck that girl even more. Just like some people have sexual fantasies about being naked in a public place and fucking others, etc. There is something hot about that, its hard to explain

[8plusInches]

damm i was really hoping I'd read this and be able to send you a dick pic to get your opinion baby

[SassyPinkLittleRWR]

Ugggh

[imtheman0048]

I never send unsolicited dick pics but I always eventually send one if Im talking to a girl after sex has came up and she's asked for it or I've suggested it.. i need to know she likes what I have before I really pursue something with her

[beebella]

I don't enjoy it. They're not really pretty to look at, yet these dudes think it's cute.😅

[Anonymous]

I don't think I would ever send a dick pick. It comes off as rude and undignified.

[Arya_Christ]

never sent them and think having a soft copy of dick pic that too on internet is a bad idea..

[Anonymous]

I have send dick pics to 4 girls. All three of them i have asked permission to send them. They have send me stuff back too. All of them said they liked getting dick pics.

[rockerboy]

frst of all u luk so hot and sec thing I too wanna kw dat y dey need dat

[Anonymous]

When a guy sends me a dick pic I show my friends.